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You don’t have to be clean when you get here,
but after your first meeting we suggest that you keep coming back and come clean. You don’t have to wait for an overdose
or jail sentence to get help from NA, nor is addiction a hopeless condition from which there is no recovery. It is possible
to overcome the desire to use drugs with the help of the Twelve Steps Programme of Narcotics Anonymous and the fellowship
of recovering addicts.
Addiction is a disease that can happen to anyone.
Some of us used drugs because we enjoyed them, while others used to suppress the feelings we already had. Still others suffered
from physical or mental ailments and became addicted to the medication prescribed during our illnesses. Some of us joined
the crowd using drugs a few times just to be cool and later found that we could not stop.
Many of us tried to overcome addiction and sometimes
temporary relief was possible, but it was usually followed by an even deeper involvement than before.
Whatever the circumstances, it really doesn’t
matter. Addiction is a progressive disease such as diabetes. We are allergic to drugs. Our ends are always the same: jails,
institutions, or death. If life has become unmanageable and you want to live without it being necessary to use drugs, we have
found a way. Here are the Twelve Steps of Narcotics Anonymous that we use on a daily basis to help us overcome our disease.
1. We admitted that we were powerless over addiction, that our lives
had become unmanageable.
2. We came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore
us to sanity.
3. We made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care
of God as we understood Him.
4. We made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
5. We admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the
exact nature of our wrongs.
6. We were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
7. We humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
8. We made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing
to make amends to them all.
9. We made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when
to do so would injure them or others.
10. We continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly
admitted it.
11. We sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact
with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
12. Having had a spiritual awakening as a result of these steps, we tried
to carry this message to addicts, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
Recovery doesn’t stop
with just being clean. As we abstain from all drugs (and yes, this means alcohol and marijuana too) we come face to face with
feelings that we have never coped with successfully. We even experience feelings we were not capable of having in the past.
We must become willing to meet old and new feelings as they come.
We learn to experience feelings and realise they
can do us no harm unless we act on them. Rather than acting on them, we call an NA member if we have a feeling we cannot handle.
By sharing, we learn to work through it. Chances are they’ve had a similar experience and can relate what worked for
them. Remember, an addict alone is in bad company.
The Twelve Steps, new friends, and sponsors all
help us deal with these feelings. In NA our joys are multiplied by sharing good days; our sorrows are lessened by sharing
the bad. For the first time in our lives we don’t have to experience anything alone. Now that we have a group, we are
able to develop a relationship with a Higher Power that can always be with us.
We suggest that
you look for a sponsor as soon as you become acquainted with the members in your area. Being asked to sponsor a new member
is a privilege so don’t hesitate to ask someone. Sponsorship is a rewarding experience for both; we are all here to
help and be helped. We who are recovering must share with you what we have learned in order to maintain our growth in the
NA Programme and our ability to function without drugs.
This programme offers hope. All you have to bring
with you is the desire to stop using and the willingness to try this new way of life.
Come to meetings, listen with an open mind, ask
questions, get phone numbers and use them. Stay clean just for today.
May we also remind you that this is an anonymous
programme and your anonymity will be held in the strictest of confidence. “We are not interested in what or how much
you used or who your connections were, what you have done in the past, how much or how little you have, but only in what you
want to do about your problem and how we can help.” |