Nudged Awake
A friend came over for lunch in
early 1997. He was in his mid-sixties and we
were discussing the bar he
once owned in North Hollywood, California.
He told me about some of the famous movie stars
that would frequent his establishment: Spencer
Tracy, Victor Mature, Rita Hayworth, and so on.
My phone rang during this delightful trip down
memory lane, so I excused myself to answer it in
my office. As I was
speaking on the phone, I had to open a file drawer
to obtain a document and came across a picture of
my grandparents' old home in Santa Monica, California. I
finished the call and brought out the picture, not
so much to show my friend but to tell him about
my grandmother, Mable Edwards, who had been a
Hollywood tutor. She would go to the actual
movie
sets and teach the young Hollywood actors and
actresses. (I never talk to anyone about my
grandmother, let alone her occupation. After
all, she passed away in the late 1960s and had
rarely entered my thoughts.)
This sparked my friend's interest.
He asked me who
some of her favorite students were. I said
that, whenever she talked about her teaching
career, she would always mention that she had a
favorite student. This was Mary Elinor
Donahue. My friend had no problem remembering who
Mary Elinor Donahue was. She played Betty on the TV series
Father
Knows Best, a situation comedy that
aired from 1954 until 1962. The actors in
the show were Robert Young, Jane Wyatt,
Billy Gray, Lauren Chapin and others. Thanks to my
friend, I now knew more about the show than I ever
had.
As we wound down the conversation and began to
part company, he asked me if I knew what ever
happened to Ms. Donahue. I told him that I had no
idea, and was not even sure if she was still alive.
That ended our conversation.
That
same day, during the evening, I turned on my TV
set. The
picture came alive and there, to my amazement, was Mary Elinor Donahue standing behind a
lectern, talking. The volume was turned all the way down, so I could
not
hear what she was saying. I must admit, my mind was
a bit agog with the fact that I was seeing her at
all.
I then moved to turn up the volume.
As I did,
this is exactly what I heard come out of her
mouth: "The teacher that had the most impact on my
life was Mable Edwards," and she began talking
about my grandmother. I could have been
knocked over with a feather duster! I just stood there, my
heart racing and my mind swimming. What are the
chances? The odds must be astronomical.
The very next day, while I was at work, my
co-worker asked me out of the blue if I believed in
angels. I said,
"Huh? You mean wings and halos?" She said,
"Whatever. Do you believe in angels, messengers
from God?" I told her that I did not know, never
having remembered ever seeing one.
Just as I said
that, a young man came into our place of business
and began telling us about some contest that
McDonald's (a restaurant chain) was conducting.
The contest had a grand prize of one million
dollars. In order to win it, one had to
collect all the necessary puzzle pieces. He then
went on to say that someone in Texas had collected
every puzzle piece and then put them in an
envelope and mailed it to a children's
hospital. (I think it was in New
York.) Someone who could have become a millionaire gave
away the entire fortune to help children. Then the
young man looked right at me and said, "Not only
did they give up a million dollars, they sent it
anonymously. No one knows who the philanthropist
is. Now, TELL ME THERE AREN'T ANGELS." He then
proceeded to walk out of the store. He never asked
to purchase anything or do anything other
than to tell us that story.
My co-worker and I just looked at each other,
dumbfounded. There was very little discussion
after that, just a lot of quiet reflection.
My understanding at this
juncture is that God knows us better than we know
ourselves, and we are all gently being awakened to
greater understandings. I think
that God does not want to startle us out of our
sound sleep -- we are constantly being gently
nudged awake. This is the concept of free will,
which I translate as unconditional love.
Scott Edwards
Used by permission
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