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Learning with StyleWhen I climbed the foothills of the homeschooling mountain, I stumbled on a mystery: my autistic, supposedly challenging, child was a breeze to teach, while my neurologically typical, supposedly easy, child was so frustrating! Learning styles solved the mystery!

Understanding learning
styles keeps me sane, juggling everything as parent, teacher,
spouse, etc. When facing conflicts in communication, sometimes a
learning styles mismatch blocks understanding. Knowing another
person's learning style creates understanding other perspectives
and reduces frustration!
Not all children in the autism spectrum remember in the same way. While Temple
Grandin and other auties are visual, my daughter memorizes
visually and kinesthetic. Verbally precocious aspies can
be auditory!
Knowing your child's strengths (multiple
intelligences) can point to spring boards for learning. Once
you know his talents, read through the book
7 Kinds of Smart
by Thomas Armstrong
for lists of resources geared to his special abilities.
With the ability to hyperfocus, many
spectrum children are analytical. You
may be global. Knowing yourself helps
you adapt your teaching style to your child.
Pinpointing perception and ordering
reduces the shedding of tears. My concrete random son's way of
completing workbooks depicts a classic mismatch: cry "It's too
hard" for three weeks and do 20 pages in one day, eclipsing my goal
of one page per day! He teaches himself many things by exploring
and reading in his free time. We have a structured time during the
day with materials suiting his style, but he gets lots of free time
to learn on his own. He taught himself to read at four by typing
sentences from Dr. Seuss books into computer software which read to
him.
Knowing the learning styles of yourself and your children
simplifies picking a homeschooling
philosophy. Sequential kids prefer traditional (textbooks,
workbooks, and schedules) or classical methods,
while random kids enjoy unschooling, Montessori, and
child-led learning. [Young sequential auties like ABA, TEACCH, or
NACD, while young random kiddos
take to RDI, Floortime or Options.] Computer software, unit studies, and whole
book approaches (Charlotte Mason or Sonlight) appeal to both.
Younger children, who tend to be concrete and kinesthetic, like the
Montessori
option.
| Applied Learning LD Pride Online |
A to Z on
Learning Styles Felder-Silverman Model |
Your Child's
Style Myers-Briggs Personality |
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![]() Visual - Eyes Watchers/Readers Videos and television Enjoys/reads books Flash/index cards Label reader Pictures and diagrams Color-coding Organized notebooks View mind maps Study charts/posters Highlights words Time lines Post-It notes |
![]() Auditory - Ears Listeners/Talkers Chatterbox (thinks aloud) Reads aloud or moves lips Finds phonics easy Taped books, study tapes Home-made audio tapes Group discussions Review aloud with others Make/explain mind maps Discuss charts/posters Define concepts aloud Talk through word problems Dramatic readings Rehearses knowledge aloud Oral narration/retelling |
![]() Kinesthetic - Body Doers/Touchers Real objects/manipulatives Moves while listening Moves while talking Craves active learning 3D models/puzzles/games Write in air, large board Song/rhythm/mnemonics Dramatize and act out Do to master concepts Real-life problems Make/trace mind maps Trace charts/posters Your classic wiggle worm |
| Chaminade Prep | Education Planner | Learning Style Survey |
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Linguistic - Think in words!
Voracious readers. Gifted writers. Storytellers. Keen memory for
trivia, lyrics, information, word games. Play with sounds of
language. Learn best by seeing, hearing, writing and speaking. |
Logical Mathematical - Think in
concepts! Analyze patterns, categories and relationships. Ask
challenging questions. Excel in brain teasers, logic puzzles,
games. Play with computers, chemistry sets and scientific kits.
Learn best by questioning, reasoning, experimenting and repeating
the scientific process. |
Visual-Spatial - Think in
pictures and images! Analyze and invent machines and contraptions.
Excellent sense of direction. Excel in mazes, jigsaw puzzles and
building toys. Draw, daydream and design things. Learn best by
seeing, visualizing, drawing and designing. |
Musical - Think in melodies!
Sing, hum and whistle tunes. Intuitive sense of rhythm, pitch and
dynamics. Strong opinions about different kinds of music. Excel in
singing and playing instruments. Attend to sounds like nature,
mechanics. Learn best by memorizing information set to music. |
Bodily-Kinesthetic - Think in
motion! Superb motor skills. Shine in sports, dance and acting.
Gifted mimics. Kinesthetic Communicate through gestures, body
language. Enjoy crafts, mechanics, sewing, drawing. Process
information through body movement. Learn best by doing,
dramatizing, touching, moving |
Interpersonal - Think in
relationships to other people! Born leaders. Navigate in different
social circles. Gifted organizers, communicators. Excel in
mediating conflict and interpreting feelings of others. Enjoy group
activities, organizations, social events. Learn best by
cooperating, working in groups. |
Intrapersonal - Think in
isolation! Prefer personal projects, diaries, journals. Gifted with
inner wisdom. Strong sense of self. Think in unique ways. Pursue
quiet hobbies like gardening, crafts, fishing. Learn best through
self-analysis, pursuing their personal goals and exploring their
own ideas. |
| Gigglepotz | W. McKenzie's MI Site | LDRC MI Inventory |
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![]() Global - Big picture Gets the gist, forgets details Flexible, relaxed Views rules as guidelines Repeated directions to get big picture Gets the job done on spur of the moment Wants to find personal meaning Excels in group activities and projects Discussion, cooperation, pats on back Flexible rules, fairness Harmonious environment |
![]() Analytical - Details Focuses on facts, misses the point Structured, organized Looking for clear-cut fixed rules Follows directions easily Craves organization, structure Wants sequential, methodical data Excels when working alone Details, facts, logic Clear expectations, deadlines Law and order |
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![]() Concrete Tune into what they sense, what is real |
Abstract Tune into ideas, thoughts, and concepts |
![]() Sequential Structure, routine, rules Enjoys working in an orderly way |
![]() Random Variety, flexibility, guidelines Enjoys juggling many activities |
| Concrete-Sequential Focus on facts and real-world Follow instructions with attention-to-detail Logical planners Love schedules and to-do lists Take language literally Crave order and clear expectations |
Concrete-Random Focus on experience and quick thinking Take risks using wits to get out of trouble Investigators and brainstorm experts Love guidelines, choice, experiments Delights presenting unusual views Crave variety, freedom and change |
| Abstract-Sequential Focus on ideas and intellect Enjoy problem solving with many angles Analytical thinkers attending to details Love outlines, research, objectivity Communicate with logic and low emotion Crave organization and references |
Abstract-Random Focus on intuition and gut feelings Create harmony in groups Sensitive spontaneous social butterflies Love group talks, journals, creativity Speak with compassion and empathy Crave cooperation, imagination, flexibility |
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Knowing our learning styles helped me find the right
teaching approach. Pamela, my autistic child, is a joy to teach,
while David was my challenge until I studied our styles. David and
I are polar
opposites in almost every category; Pamela and I are two peas
in a pod!
By comparing learning styles, I balanced all our needs. An abstract
sequential, I felt queasy about unschooling random David, who
would adore its freedom. Pamela and I preferred the security of
workbooks and textbooks. I compromised through a shared
passion--books--and switched to a literature-based
approach, Charlotte
Mason homeschooling. Both children, concrete learners, absorb
living
ideas by relating to real
things: living books,
artists,
composers,
and nature
study.
I tweaked my teaching style to suit the children. Pamela is highly
visual, so she sits next to me and tracks my fingers on the page
when we read books together. Kinesthetic David sits on the floor
and quietly plays with toys. If he narrates
well and doesn't distract us, he keeps his freedom to
move. Sometimes, the children act out exciting passages. With
her dash of kinesthetic, Pamela enjoys dramatization too! Pamela
reads some books aloud, while David silently reads some books. We
all take parts in Shakespeare's
plays.
Before some readings, we study pictures, maps, diagrams, etc. to
build concrete images. When we first started narration
years ago, I wrote keywords on a dry-erase board to introduce
global David to the text and give analytical Pamela an outline.
They no longer need written previews. After a few paragraphs, the
children take turns narrating. David practices telling a coherent
story, while narration is speech therapy for Pamela. Both kids have
transitioned to written
narrations: David types his retelling of
Frankenstein, while Pamela just recently leaped to solo
written narrations of
The Winged Watchman
and
The Brendan Voyage
.
Order, and lack thereof, is a big deal to my diverse learners. My
weekly reading schedule in
Excel
delights structured Pamela. We learn in three chunks of time a day:
reading in the morning and evening (covering most subjects) and
seatwork and activities outside the home in the afternoon. Before
each time block, I stack books on the coffee table or seatwork on
the kitchen table (Pamela's visual guides). To give David variety,
the children choose the order of books and seatwork tasks.
Understanding learning styles pointed me to an ideal math
curriculum. Both kids are concrete, so manipulatives
are a must. Making
Math Meaningful and Math-U-See fit both children! Completing
units focused on one topic gives Pamela predictability. Every
lesson has different activities, using different manipulatives and
different applications, spicing things up for David. Pamela's eyes
focus on
written scripts and
worksheets, while the manipulatives keep David's hands
occupied. Each unit slowly travels to abstract thinking,
strengthening their weakness. Computer software like
I Love Math!
drills math facts.
Why switch from our beloved KONOS
unit studies to Ambleside Online? I got mired
in planning and felt driven to do every suggested activity. I need
an approach with some planning and limited choices! Creating an
Ambleside
Online schedule in
Excel
gives me a taste of planning, but frees me to learn with my kids!
Since a myriad of choices no longer tempts me, we sail from term to
term without delays.
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I found it challenging to reach diverse learners
while teaching homeschooling cooperative classes. Cynthia Ulrich Tobias suggests giving
each child "their" time. Hit the three memory channels (ears, eyes,
and body) in each lesson. Channel different smarts whenever
possible. Provide structure to the sequentials with flexibility for
the randoms. Hats off to teachers who do this successfully!
When I was swimming against my strong-willed child,
Cynthia tossed this
lifesaver through the air waves: What is the point? Highly
visual, I am easily distracted by David's wiggliness! Trying to
force a kinesthetic
child to sit still focused his attention on how to wiggle
without getting caught. I thought about the purpose of reading: is
it an exercise in sitting still or
learning? I chose the latter. Another example of learning on the
move--we practice speaking Spanish while we are out and about town
(by car or sneaker express). I carry review cards when Pamela needs
a lifeline. Hats off to Cynthia, who saved my sanity!
Mariaemma Pelullo-Willis and Victoria Kindle Hodson's book
Discover
Your Child's Style helped me bond with my kids! All three of us
(David, Pamela, and I) have thinking/creating dispositions!
Predictably, Pamela and I scored high as producers--David did not.
To my surprise, both he and Pamela are also performers--I am not!
Their approach
has many nifty
tools: five more intelligences, interest inventory, etc. Hats
off to Victoria and Mariemma for refining my insight about my
kids!
Nancy
Kashman,
restaurateur in her free time, and my sister-in-law,
Janet Mora, Supervisor of
Programs for Students with Autism, launched me down the path of
sensory integration, social stories, and visual supports. They
encouraged my alternative ideas on homeschooling, diet, etc. Hats off to Janet and
Nancy, who shared great ideas in their
awesome book
!
My parents could never understand why I insisted on doing my
homework on the couch, TV blaring. It was a mystery how I got
straight A's. Both
Cynthia and Victoria and
Mariaemma stress that children have different environmental
needs while studying: sound, body position, interaction, lighting,
temperature, food, color, time, etc. Hats off to Mom and Dad for
accepting my odd study habits!
By accepting the styles of my kids, I hope to avoid killing their
curiosity and love of learning. Thinking outside the box has zapped
some of the stress of homeschooling! Hats off to my kids for
teaching this old dog many new tricks!
My husband Steve has supported me all the way with my hare-brained
schemes: diets, home therapies, homeschooling, learning style
surveys, books, email lists, books, web sites--did I say books?
Hats off to my husband for putting up with me!
I thank God for teaching me to be more compassionate and flexible.
I was clueless about teaching David until Cynthia spoke about
learning styles on two Christian radio programs: Family Life Today and Focus on the Family. Broadcasts about
learning styles opened my eyes to a new world. Hats off to Christian radio programming!
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