KEEP YOUR FORK
The sound of Martha's voice on the other end of the telephone always
brought a smile to Brother Jim's face. She was not only one of the
oldest members of the congregation, but one of the most faithful. Aunt
Martie, as all the children called her, just seemed to ooze faith,
hope, and love wherever she went.
This time, however, there seemed to be an unusual tone to her words.
"Preacher, could you stop by this afternoon? I need to talk with you."
"Of course. I'll be there around 3:00."
As they sat facing each other in the quiet of her small living room,
Jim learned the reason for what he sensed in her voice. Martha shared
the news that her
doctor had just discovered a previously undetected tumor.
"He says I probably have six months to live." Martha's words were
certainly serious,
yet there was a definite calm about her. "I'm so sorry to . . . " but
before Jim could finish, Martha interrupted.
"Don't be. The Lord has been good. I have lived a long life. I'm ready
to go. You know that." "I know," Jim whispered with a reassuring nod.
"But I do want to talk with you about my funeral. I have been thinking
about it, and
there are things that I know I want."
The two talked quietly for a long time. They talked about Martha's
favorite hymns, the passages of Scripture that had meant so much to her
through the years, and the
many memories they shared from the five years Jim had been with Central
Church.
When it seemed that they had covered just about everything, Aunt Martie
paused,
looked up at Jim with a twinkle in her eye, and then added, "One more
thing, preacher.
When they bury me, I want my old Bible in one hand and a fork in the
other."
"A fork?" Jim was sure he had heard everything, but this caught him by
surprise.
"Why do you want to be buried with a fork?"
"I have been thinking about all of the church dinners and banquets that
I attended
through the years," she explained. "I couldn't begin to count them all.
But one thing
sticks in my mind. At those really nice get-togethers, when the meal
was almost
finished, a server or maybe the hostess would come by to collect the
dirty dishes. I can hear
the words now. Sometimes, at the best ones, somebody would lean over my
shoulder and
whisper, `You can keep your fork.' And do you know what that meant?
Dessert was
coming! "It didn't mean a cup of Jell-O or pudding or even a dish of
ice cream. You don't
need a fork for that. It meant the good stuff, like chocolate cake or
cherry pie! When
they told me I could keep my fork, I knew the best was yet to come!
"That's exactly what I want people to talk about at my funeral. Oh,
they can talk about all the good times we had together. That would be
nice.
"But when they walk by my casket and look at my pretty blue dress, I
want them to
turn to one another and say, `Why the fork?'
"This is what I want you to say. I want you to tell them that I kept my
fork because the
best is yet to come."
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