A lot of parents are scrambling for teen stocking stuffers
this holiday season. Gone are the simpler days of candy canes, new knee-highs
or tube socks with an orange in the toe.
Today’s teens are hoping for iPods, camera phones,
gift
cards and maybe even the keys to a new car. And while those might be the “big
little gifts” on their lists, why not consider equally small gifts but with
greater meanings?
Be Sentimental. Find one of your teen’s baby teeth or a lock
of hair and present it in a beautiful keepsake box. Frame an old photo from
his/her first snow or Santa encounter. Share holiday memories in a special
journal and ask everyone to write an entry.
Be Sensible. Can you think of a “grown-up”
gift that your
teen may need down the road? A savings bond? A stock portfolio? Really good
jewelry? Is this the year you pass on that family heirloom? He may roll his
eyes now, but he’ll thank you later.
Be Silly. Fill a gift box with your teen’s old toys,
long buried
and forgotten in storage. Or buy a bunch of new playthings that were once your
child’s favorites: a yo-yo, bubbles, Play-Doh, a magic trick, a Slinky, jacks,
a Pez dispenser, marbles, a deck of Old Maids, a Matchbox car or Princess
Barbie.
Be Yourself. Did a specific book, movie and song influence your teenage years? Was it a collection of sensitive
sonnets or a bold graphic novel? James Dean is timeless. So are Ferris Bueller's Day Off and The Wizard of
Oz. Turn your teen onto Joni Mitchell or
Metallica.
Think about what personal gift you wish you had received
when you were a teen. Maybe you still have yours. Keep the tradition going.
Then put that camera phone she’s been asking for in the toe.