Phil's Little Blog on the Prairie http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund So, just what does the Lifespan Program Director of the Prairie Star District do? Wed, 13 Jun 2007 02:32:53 GMT ListGarden Program 1.3.1 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss New Address for Phil's Little Blog on the Prairie http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.06.01_arch.html#1181701579098 <DIV>I've finally decided to give up on this antique blogging software and move on up to WordPress. So there's a new address for Phil's Little Blog on the Prairie: <A href="http://philontheprairie.wordpress.com/">http://philontheprairie.wordpress.com/</A>. If you check out the first post there, you'll get a few details about why I'm moving. Unfortunately, Earthlink's ancient software doesn't allow me to export posts from this site to the new one, so I'll leave this address functioning for folks who want to reference something I've posted here. The new feed, by the way is <A href="http://philontheprairie.wordpress.com/feed/">http://philontheprairie.wordpress.com/feed/</A>. See you over at WordPress!</DIV> Wed, 13 Jun 2007 02:32:46 GMT I Will Be What the Future Demands http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.06.01_arch.html#1181589786735 <DIV>I'm at home watching Henry at the moment. Okay, I'm not actually watching him--he's taking a nap. But this does give me a little time to write a quick post about something that I've had on my mind every since the Prairie Star District's Executive Committee meeting a week or so ago. We spent a good portion of that meeting making plans for our August retreat with the PSD Program Council at Shalom Hill Farms, and it looks like one of the big topics is going to be moving beyond our <A href="http://www.psduua.org/Documents/SeventhYearSurvey#congs" target=_self>Vision 2010 </A>and begin thinking about what the future of Unitarian Universalism in Prairie Star might look like.</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>At one point, we started to speculate on we how might arrive at some goals for 2015, etc., and that's when I was reminded of something I had heard a month earlier, at the Convocation for students graduating from United Theological Seminary in New Brighton, Minnesota. I made a mental note when I heard this from David Schoen, one of the guys responsible for the "<A href="http://www.stillspeaking.com/default.htm" target=_self>God is Still Speaking</A>" campaign of the United Church of Christ (his exact title is&nbsp;Congregational Vitality Initiative Coordinator). He mentioned how once, when he was looking into Jewish commentaries about the scene in the Torah where God replies to Moses' question about who God is by saying "I AM" (or "I am what I am, I am what I have been, I am what I will be"), he found one of the commentaries that had this great interpretation of what God's name really means: “I will be what the future demands.”</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>And that got me thinking about goals for the future in Prairie Star. You see, the Vision 2010 has lots of great ideas in it, lots of hopes and dreams. And&nbsp;a considerable number of them have&nbsp;actually been achieved. However, there's been an incredible number other good things that have happened since that vision was cast in 2000, things that we couldn't even imagine then: new congregations starting on their own, added staff, advances in technology. While the vision may have helped us somewhat to get were we are today, I think it was really something else, something akin to interpretation of God's answer to Moses.</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>So rather than coming up with a list (long or short) of things we'd like to see by 2015 (or 2020 or whenever), I'd like to see us come up with a vision that we can make happen right now instead of having to wait 10 or 20 years. And it goes something like this: I envision a Unitarian Universalist faith for Prairie Star that helps us all to become what the future demands. I don't know what kind of congregations we'll need to serve people in 2020 or even 2015. And I don't know what kind of district structure we'll need to help those congregations, either. But I do know that we'll need to have people who are prepared for what the future demands, and I think we need to start being those people today. I've got a feeling that this is where the future of faith development is.<BR><A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070611" target=_self>Comments</A></DIV> Mon, 11 Jun 2007 19:47:34 GMT Heckuva Busy Week or Two http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.06.01_arch.html#1181229920586 <DIV>Sorry I haven't posted in awhile, but it <EM>has</EM> been a pretty busy week or two. Once Julia and Henry David and I returned from Winnipeg, we had a night to ourselves, then my mother and niece arrived from Elkhart, Indiana&nbsp;to stay for a few days. And the next day Julia's sister and her daughter flew in from Vancouver for a long visit. Then I had the Prairie Star District Executive Board meeting to attend. (Photos <A href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/psdlund/sets/72157600299900401/" target=_self>here</A>. It was a good meeting...we discussed plans for next August's Board/Program Council Retreat). In addition to all of this, I got a call from Rockford, Illinois from a family I had officiated a wedding for when I was the ministerial intern there (photos <A href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/psdlund/sets/72157600316028431/" target=_self>here</A>). The father of the family had died, and they wanted me to do the memorial service. Thing is, of <EM>all</EM> the weddings I've performed, this man was the <EM>only</EM> father-of-the-bride that I remember (he was a big guy, literally and figuratively). So I said yes, which meant flying down to Rockford on Monday, meeting with the family, going to a hotel and putting together a service (including a eulogy), then leading the service the next day. Very busy, indeed. To top it all off, Henry David's been sick since last Friday (he's just getting better today). So. Busy, busy, busy. I'm looking forward to catching up on work at the office and getting ready for GA, which is just a couple of weeks away!<BR><A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070607" target=_self>Comments</A></DIV> Thu, 07 Jun 2007 15:35:04 GMT Greetings from Sunny Winnipeg, Manitoba http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.05.01_arch.html#1180293587186 <DIV>Julia and Henry and I are spending the long Memorial Day Weekend visiting Julia's Aunt Sarah in Winnipeg, and I thought I'd take advantage of our proximity to a couple of UU churches and check them out. On Friday, we spent the night in Fargo, North Dakota, so before dinner at Red Lobster we stopped by the <A href="http://www.fmuu.org/" target=_self>Fargo-Moorhead Unitarian Universalist </A>church. I took a few photos of what we found, which I'll post <A href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/psdlund/sets/72157600287040919/" target=_self>here</A>. We were pleased to find some of the church's volunteer landscapers just finishing up a day's work. They gladly opened the church up for us and told us a little bit about the building's history. It was built as a Unitarian church in 1892, has gone through several changes in ownership (always somehow related to religion, like a synagogue or a Latter Day Saints congregation), and finally ended up back in the hands of the Unitarian Universalists. They recently added an, er, addition, and they've got plenty of well-lit accessible space. I hope they invite me back to preach there soon!</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>And this morning, after visiting Aunt Sarah's Mennonite congregation (it's Pentecost Sunday, by the way--we all got red carnations pinned on us!), we drove by <A href="http://www.uuwinnipeg.mb.ca/" target=_self>First UU Church of Winnipeg</A>. I stopped to take a couple of pictures (view <A href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/psdlund/sets/72157600287888800/" target=_self>here</A>). It's a lovely building and there were a lot of kids playing out front in the sunshine. One of our Prairie Star ministers, Wendy Jerome, is going to be the interim minister there next year. I'm going to give Wendy a call when we get back to Minnesota and tell her that I'd love to come up and preach sometime next year. Looks like my preaching calendar for next year may already be filling up, so if you'd like me to come preach about Lifespan Faith Development at your congregation next year, please drop me a line, either e-mail or just leave a comment here! I try to preach at least once a month, so there's about 6 or 7 dates still available.<br><A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070527" target=_self>Comments</A></DIV> Sun, 27 May 2007 19:27:32 GMT Canadian Unitarians to Enforce Visitor Repulsion Policy http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.05.01_arch.html#1179934566446 <DIV>Notice: "The Unitarian Congregation of Niagara has voted to ban bottled water in non-biodegradable plastic bottles from its premises. We ask that you respect this ban. Thank you for you [sic] help in saving the environment!"</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>Okay, this is what I love about Unitarian Universalists. We can be so concerned about a just <EM>cause</EM> (in <A href="http://www.thestar.com/Life/article/212225" target=_self>this case</A> "disrespect[ing] one aspect of [the 'whole web of life'], be it the earth, the ground, the trees, the water"), that we forget that as a religious organization, we're dealing primarily with human beings. And human beings can be a little sensitive, especially when they're just beginning to test the waters of a new congregation to see if they want to dive in.</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>I mean nothing says "You May Not Be Welcome Here" more clearly than the <A href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No_symbol" target=_self>No Symbol</A> plastered to the main entrance of your church. But that's exactly what the directors of the Unitarian Congregation of Niagara in St. Catherines have done. It's one thing "to ban all bottled water in plastic non-biodegradable, non-refillable bottles from use at all church functions." That's reasonable policy for members of the church to follow when they plan events. Don't offer bottled water. And it's fine to expect renters to respect the congregation's policy. But to greet visitors with a sign telling them that they're not welcome if they happen to have a plastic non-biodegradable, non-refillable&nbsp;bottle of water with them in a bit off-putting, don't you think?<BR><A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070523" target=_self>Comments</A></DIV> Wed, 23 May 2007 16:03:36 GMT Another Fantastic OWL Training http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.05.01_arch.html#1179846463434 <DIV>I'm trying to increase the number of Our Whole Lives (<A href="http://www.uua.org/religiouseducation/curricula/ourwhole/" target=_self>OWL</A>) trainings we offer each year in Prairie Star, and I have to say that this year has been pretty much a success. We had two different trainings last fall, one in Topeka, KS and one in Annandale, MN. The Topeka training was Jr./Sr. High only, and the Annandale training was all levels: Combined Elementary, Jr./Sr. High, and Adult. This was the first time we managed to do that in our district, and I hope we'll be able to make that sort of large scale combined training a regular event.</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>We had one final training OWL training this past weekend in New Brighton, MN, and it was fantastic--as far as the enthusiasm of the participants and facilitators went. The food service left a little to be desired, but we're going to work on that (like having a place on the registration form for participants to check off their beverage of choice--we had a TON of requests for Diet Coke!). At any rate, the reason that most of these trainings came off so well is Kiely Todd Roska.</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>Kiely's the executive director of the <A href="http://www.mnrcrc.org/" target=_self>Minnesota Religious Coalition for Reproductive Choice</A>, and she's helped me plan two of the OWL trainings we offered this year, Annandale and New Brighton. The big plus, other than having an incredibly committed and competent colleague to work with, is that Kiely has been heavily promoting these trainings to United Church of Christ congregations in Minnesota. The result? The New Brighton training actually had more UCC participants than UUA folks--a first for these joint trainings. The benefit for UUs is enormous because the more trainings we can offer, the easier it is for religious educators to get folks trained.</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>So thanks to Kiely, and to our two great facilitators, T. Michael and Laura (you can see them in action <A href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/psdlund/509437382/" target=_self>here</A>). If you would like to see a joint UUA/UCC OWL training in your part of the district, let me know and we'll start working on the logistics ASAP. It's win/win situation for everyone!<BR><A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070522" target=_self>Comments</A></DIV> Tue, 22 May 2007 15:25:57 GMT New UU Adult Spirituality Curriculum on the Horizon http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.05.01_arch.html#1179171170070 <DIV>For the last week or so, I've been thinking about what a post about the need to attract men to our congregations might say, and I'm almost ready to share my thoughts. In the meantime, I'd like to pass along this announcement from the UUA's Lifespan Faith Development Staff Group:</DIV> <BLOCKQUOTE dir=ltr style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px"> <P>Attention ministers, religious educators, and adult program chairs--announcing:</P> <P><EM>Spirit of Life</EM>:<BR>Spirituality workshops for UU adults<BR>by Rev. Barbara Hamilton-Holway</P> <P>Part of the <EM>Tapestry of Faith</EM> lifespan series.</P> <P>The Lifespan Faith Development staff group of the Unitarian Universalist Association is seeking congregations, camps, and conference centers to field test nine workshops on UU spirituality between September 2007 and January 2008.</P></BLOCKQUOTE> <P>This is good news, as far as I'm concerned. As I've <A href="http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.10.01_arch.html#1160072429505" target=_self>said here before</A>, I completely agree with Robert Wuthnow when he "suggests that congregations should define their primary mission as strengthening the spiritual discipline of their members." An adult curriculum specifically about UU spirituality could fill the bill. What's more, the call for field testers means that your congregation could try Spirit of Life absolutely free this coming fall. And the best news of all is that once the curriculum has been revised, it will be available free and online to <EM>all</EM> UU congregations!</P> <P>I do have one concern, however. Since it seems that attracting men to our congregations may be what's needed for us to grow beyond our current national rate of 1% or so a year, I wonder consideration was given to the differences between men's and women's spirituality when this curriculum was written. I'll write more about those differences in a future post. For now, I wonder whether or not the Lifespan Faith Development Staff Group would be interested in how well this curriculum worked with a men's spirituality group? And if you are interested in field testing <EM>Spirit of Life</EM>, please write for more information and an application:</P> <P>Rev. Sarah Gibb Millspaugh<BR>UUA Adult Programs Director, Lifespan Faith Development Staff Group<BR>25 Beacon Street; Boston, MA 02108<BR><A href="mailto:smillspaugh@uua.org">smillspaugh@uua.org</A></P><A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070514" target=_self>Comments</A></DIV> Tue, 15 May 2007 01:34:06 GMT Bismarck Highlights http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.05.01_arch.html#1178638359308 <DIV>Just a quick post to let you know that <A href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/psdlund/sets/72157600187921790/" target=_self>photos from my trip to Bismarck, ND </A>are up on my flickr account. I also wanted to point out a few things that I really liked about the congregation (there are many things, of course, but these are the highlights). I was really impressed by how public this congregation is about their UU values: their sign doubles as a Wayside Pulpit (and it announces the fact that the fellowship is a Welcoming Congregation); there's a huge chalice on the front of the building that's clearly visible from the street; there's a Civil Marriage is a Civil Right banner;&nbsp;<EM>and</EM> there's a Peace Pole right out front. Add to this the sign for the Quakers (who also meet at the fellowship) and there's no doubt where to find the liberal religious people in Bismarck Mandan.</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>The Sunday service went extremely well, in my opinion, and we had an excellent discussion following the sermon. I was asked what I thought might be the cause of the disconnection our children and youth (and ourselves?) feel in this society, and I mentioned the work of French literary theorist and analyst <A href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Julia_Kristeva" target=_self>Julia Kristeva</A>, who attributes contemporary malaise to our souls being flattened by spending too much time in front of two-dimensional screens. I think that it may also be the cause of the disconnection (read lack of connected community) that we are all prone to suffer from. And indeed, one of the top stories on Google News this morning is "<A href="http://www.alertnet.org/thenews/newsdesk/N07340982.htm" target=_self>Despite warnings, most U.S. babies watch TV, DVDs</A>." Which is why I hope that the Bismarck Mandan UU Fellowship (as well as all of our congregations) will make nurturing connected community a top priority.<br><A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070509" target=_self>Comments</A></DIV> Tue, 08 May 2007 15:53:25 GMT Blogging from Bismarck http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.05.01_arch.html#1178417728359 <DIV>I'm in Bismarck, ND right now, logged on to the free Wi-Fi at the Fairfield Inn. Getting ready to preach tomorrow morning--an encore of the Connected Community sermon I did in Fridley last Sunday. But since I had to drive six and a half hours to get here (rather than a half an hour to Fridley), I scheduled a couple of other things. At four this afternoon, I met with six members of the <A href="http://bis.midco.net/bismanuu/UUPC/welcomepc.html" target=_self>Bismarck Mandan UU Fellowhip</A> to talk about lifespan faith development. Since this is a smallish congregation, I suggested they think seriously about using the <A href="http://clf.uua.org/re/express.html" target=_self>RE Express</A> resource from the Church of the Larger Fellowship, which they've already looked into and are pretty excited about. We also talked about safety issues, and I mentioned the <A href="http://www.reducingtherisk.com/programsfees.php#award" target=_self>Safety Award in Reducing the Risk of Child Sexual Abuse</A> program that the district is going to promote--a program in which they seem very interested. We also spent some time talking about what it takes to get children coming to Sunday school on a regular basis. I suggested that it's really a matter of building a community for the entire family, which could mean having up to eight intergenerational events a year. We also talked about programs that attracted men so fathers would bring their children. All in all, it was a very enjoyable visit. A few of us when out for dinner afterwards at a place called DiDonna's Italian Restaurant ("Great food. Pub-like atmosphere. Hearty portions for the price"). I had the South American special (shrimp, chicken, and sausage on beans and rice). Yum! Took a few photos, too. I'll post those once I get back to St. Paul.<br><A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070505" target=_self>Comments</A></DIV> Sun, 06 May 2007 02:23:28 GMT Where Have All the Men Gone? Part 2 http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.05.01_arch.html#1178208420804 <DIV>I wrote about the lack of men in church a <A href="http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.02.01_arch.html#1171629065183" target=_self>while back</A>, and it provoked a bit of discussion <A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070216/" target=_self>here</A>. The subject hasn't gone away, of course. In fact, there's even more evidence now that attracting men to our congregations needs to be more of a priority. Check out Chance Hunter's <A href="http://www.openthedoors.us/2007/04/19/where-are-the-men/" target=_self>post</A> on the subject at Open the Doors: "Seems safe to say...that faith communities choose to do church primarily for women. Which is a polite way of saying we choose to <EM>not</EM> do church for men." Chance directs his readers to David Murrow's <A href="http://www.churchformen.com/index.php" target=_self>Church for Men</A> site, which may be a little over-the-top for Unitarian Universalists, but it does contain a few good ideas (which I'll blog about soon).</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>But what really caught my attention recently was this fact from the most recent <A href="http://fact.hartsem.edu/" target=_self>FACT</A>'s (Faith Communities Today) survey: "As American congregations become increasingly populated by women, those congregations that are able to even out the proportions of males and females are those most likely to grow...." This adds weight to the claim that the number one obstacle to growth in congregations if fewer men than women (according to the U.S. Congregation's <A href="http://www.uscongregations.org/challenges.htm" target=_self>survey</A>). Here's the thing: I just received a draft of&nbsp;the Plan for UU Congregational Growth from the UUA's Growth Team, and guess how many times the words "man, "men," "male," or "boy" show up? Zero, of course. There's mention of "culturally marginalized groups," and congregations are encouraged "to collect demographic information that help assess the effectiveness of outreach strategies to specific demographic groups such as youth and young adults, families with children, [and] racial/ethnic groups," but there's no mention of any effort whatsoever of attracting and retaining men. As Chance Hunter says, "we choose to <EM>not</EM> do church for men."<BR><A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070503" target=_self>Comments</A></DIV> Thu, 03 May 2007 16:40:19 GMT A Sunny Sunday Morning in Fridley, Minnesota http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.04.01_arch.html#1177895392220 <DIV>I took my camera with me this morning when I went to preach at the Michael Servetus Unitarian Society/Church (it's called&nbsp;a "Society" on the bulletin, but a "Church" on the sign in front). I thought I'd have all of these great photos to choose from, but wouldn't you know it, my batteries died after three snaps. The three pictures I did take were carefully planned, however, and you can see them at by <A href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/psdlund/sets/72157600157452193/" target=_self>clicking here</A>. The first photo shows the sign the church has put on the street you need to turn from in order to find the them. The second one is the sign you see on the way into the parking lot. And the third is of the church itself. I wanted to take a picture of the interior of their wonderful chapel, but that's when my batteries ran out. You can see it on their website, though: <A href="http://www.msuu.org">www.msuu.org</A>.</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>At any rate, I did preach there this morning, which happened to be their Religious Education Appreciation day. I wish I could tell you more about what happened, but I'm trying to keep my posts to a reasonable size. I can tell you this: it was one of the most heartfelt and genuine RE Appreciation Sundays I've every attended. And it was a privilege for me to be part of it. The sermon I preached was called "Connected Community" which was really just a slightly altered version of my sermon "<A href="http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/id20.html" target=_self>And How Are the Children</A>." The three main concepts are: one, we need to assess how well we're doing in the world by continually asking ourselves, "How are the children?"; two, what children need is "Connected Community"; and three, a big part of creating and sustaining a connected community is knowing the kind of people we aspire to be. You can read more about those last two points in some previous posts of mine, one about the "<A href="http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.02.01_arch.html#1139346527726" target=_self>Hardwired to Connect</A>" report, and another about the Lifespan Faith Development Staff Group's <A href="http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2004.03.01_arch.html#1080590810426" target=_self>Vision Statement</A>. I preached this sermon several times this church year, but it seems to me that this Sunday was the Sunday it was truly meant for (or, for which it was truly meant).</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>This is a small congregation that's been around for over 40 years. They've had their share of joys and sorrows, and they've just recently come through a difficult time. But the spirit of life is alive and well in Fridley. And they care about their children--deeply. As I said, it's heartfelt and genuine. If someone were to ask me, "How are the children at the Michael Servetus Unitarian Society?" I'd say without hesitation, "The children are well...the children are well."<BR><A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070429" target=_self>Comments</A></DIV> Mon, 30 Apr 2007 01:16:31 GMT PSD Youth Ministry Report Now Available http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.04.01_arch.html#1177619747784 <DIV>We've received a working draft of a report prepared by the UUA's Youth Office detailing the results of our recent district-level Consultation on Ministry To and With Youth. Feel free to download a copy of the report and look over the results of almost four hours of intensive work at our recent Annual Meeting by over 40 youth and adults from around the Prairie Star District. I'm pleased with the contents of the report--it gives us a lot to work with on both the congregational and the district level. Here are some of my favorite proposed changes:</DIV> <UL> <LI>Youth involved in congregational leadership, including intergenerational activities, programs and classes...</LI> <LI>Relax and just have fun – intergenerationally.&nbsp; Variety of activities in RE, congregational youth activities, services, other activities...</LI> <LI>Lots of committed youth representation at congregational and district levels.</LI></UL> <P>I think there's a real need for more inter- and multigenerational activities in our congregations, and an even realer (I know, bad grammar) need for more youth leadership on congregational and district committees. I'm talking about real leadership, too--getting youth to help us make some decisions about who we are as a people of faith/principle and what we want to accomplish in the world.</P> <P>At any rate, read the report for yourself and feel free to offer your comments here. We'll have the final report up on the website (hopefully with pictures of the event) soon. I'll keep you posted.<br><A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070426" target=_self>Comments</A></P> Thu, 26 Apr 2007 20:38:06 GMT New and Improved...Now with Photos! http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.04.01_arch.html#1177265228171 <DIV>One of the things I'd like to do with this blog is to start posting photographs of me in action! Okay, so action may not be the best word. But I do get around (I'll be in Fridley, Minnesota next weekend, and in Bismarck, North Dakota the weekend after that). I think it'd be nice to have some pictures of the congregations I visit, etc., which is why I've opened an account with Flickr (<A href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/psdlund/">http://www.flickr.com/photos/psdlund/</A>) and added a "badge" on this website so you can see the latest photos that I've uploaded. Right now all the pictures are of Henry David, but very soon I'll be posting photos from my travels, with the latest ones appearing on this website in the righthand column. So please feel free to leave a comment about how cute H.D. is...and starting in couple of weeks you should start seeing pictures from around the plains and prairie states that make up the best darn district in the UUA!<BR><A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070422" target=_self>Comments</A></DIV> Sun, 22 Apr 2007 18:11:21 GMT Wild Rhubarbs http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.04.01_arch.html#1176751699879 Okay, so I haven't kept my promise to post more frequently, but it's been a really busy couple of weeks. Of course, blogging about what I'm doing during busy weeks like these was part of my promise, too. So here's a quick update on what's happening. Right now I'm at the Mt. Olivet Retreat Center in Farmington, Minnesota for our district's post-Annual Conference Ministers & Religious Educators Retreat. We're working with Barbara Hummel on Circles of Trust, a concept developed by Parker Palmer. It's very interesting, very useful, and very exhausting. In fact, I'm skipping a breakout session at this very moment. So rather than doing some small group sharing, I'd like to offer this highlight from the Prairie Star District's Annual Conference. There were a lot of things to like about the conference, but the moment that captured my heart was the post-banquet dance on Saturday night. I was out running an errand during most of the dance, but when I returned to the hotel, I found a multigenerational group in the center of a darkened room, doing a simple dance to the tune of "Goodnight Irene." There were elders and youth and children and young adults, and the band (Wild Rhubarb) was playing sweetly and simply, like the song itself. Someone motioned for me to join in, and I did, taking the hand of my welcoming neighbors on each side and effortlessly joining the dance. It was a wonderful moment, and it got me thinking: How often to any of our congregations host multigenerational dances? My guess: not very often. And that's a shame because dancing together among the generations is an essential part of many cultures, including most the cultures of most of our ancestors. I'm thinking that such dances should be a regular part of our congregational celebrations. What do you think?<p><A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070416" target=_self>Comments</A> Mon, 16 Apr 2007 19:39:22 GMT Sex Offender Registry Searches http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.04.01_arch.html#1175792799237 <P>According to <A href="http://www.employment.screennow.com/" target=_self>ScreenNow</A>, "Registered sex offender record information from all 50 states and the District of Columbia is available through the U.S. Department of Justice Web site." The site, known as the <A href="http://www.nsopr.gov/" target=_self>Dru Sjodin National Sex Offender Public Registry</A> (named after the <A href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dru_Sjodin" target=_self>North Dakota woman</A> who was murdered by a known sex offender), "is a cooperative effort between the state agencies hosting public sexual offender registries and the federal government. This web site is a search tool allowing a user to submit a single national query to obtain information about sex offenders through a number of search options:"</P> <UL> <LI>By Name <LI>By ZIP Code <LI>By County (if provided by state) <LI>By City/Town (if provided by state) <LI>By State (one or multiple) <LI>National</LI></UL> <P dir=ltr style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px">Now there are some restrictions on how the information available on this site can be used. Most states more or less say the same thing South Dakota does:</P> <BLOCKQUOTE dir=ltr style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px"> <P dir=ltr style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px">ANY PERSON WHO USES INFORMATION CONTAINED IN OR ACCESSED THROUGH THIS WEBSITE TO THREATEN, INTIMIDATE, OR HARASS ANY INDIVIDUAL, INCLUDING REGISTRANTS OR FAMILY MEMBERS, OR WHO OTHERWISE MISUSES THIS INFORMATION, MAY BE SUBJECT TO CRIMINAL PROSECUTION.</P></BLOCKQUOTE> <P dir=ltr style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px">There are no restrictions that I know of, however, in the states that make up Prairie Star (Iowa, Kansas, Minnesota, Missouri, Nebraska, North Dakota, South Dakota, and Wisconsin) when it comes to using this information to decide whether or not a congregation should allow someone to volunteer to work with children, youth, or vulnerable adults. What this means is that there are absolutely no more excuses ("We can't afford it," "We don't know what to do, " etc.) for congregations not to at least check to see if a volunteer wanting to work with children, youth, or vulnerable adults is a registered sex offender. This is the bare minimum when it comes to protecting our children.</P> <P dir=ltr style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px">For more information on protecting children, youth, and vulnerable adults, <A href="http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/id21.html" target=_self>click here</A>.<A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070405" target=_self>Comments</A> Thu, 05 Apr 2007 17:46:13 GMT New PSD RE Blog http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.03.01_arch.html#1175184728639 <DIV>I'm back in the office after a week away on business/pleasure in the Pacific Northwest. As I mentioned before, the business was Julia's actually--her professional association's annual meeting. My job was to watch Henry and try to get a little work done. In addition to visiting Seattle, we spent a few days in Vancouver, B.C. to see Henry's cousin, Lyra, and her parents, Julia's sister Christine and her husband Mike. It was a good trip, but it's nice to be back home.</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>It's also nice to see a new blog by a Prairie Star religious educator. Lori Allen, religious growth director at the Unitarian Church in Lincoln, Nebraska, is now blogging at <A href="http://uulori.wordpress.com/" target=_self>Lori's Lincoln (b)Log</A>. I have to hand it to her for coming up with a nifty name. I also appreciate the way Lori's using her blog: it's a nice mix of church-related business with some personal stuff mixed in. (Take a look at the photos of Lori's growing family!) At any rate, this is exactly the kind of connections I'd like to see religious educators making here in Prairie Star. I'd be happy to coach anyone out there who's interested in starting a blog. Just drop me a line at psdlund@earthlink.net.<BR><A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070329" target=_self>Comments</A></DIV> Thu, 29 Mar 2007 16:35:36 GMT Putting Family First http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.03.01_arch.html#1175016008321 <DIV>One really nice fringe benefit of being the Prairie Star District’s Lifespan Program Director is the opportunity to see newsletters from all over the plains and prairie states that make up PSD. I’ve been trying to share some of the best things I’ve found in those newsletters through the <A href="http://faithdevelopments.blogspot.com/" target=_self>Faith Developments</A> “blog” I started a year or so ago. Usually it’s a column from a Prairie Star religious educator, although sometimes I post something from a volunteer or a youth advisor. Thing is, this really isn’t a blog (or web log) for a couple of reasons: one is that these are newsletter columns and not blog posts (there’s a difference); the other reason is that I haven’t been able to post things as frequently as I’d like. Ideally, a blog should have a new post at least once a week—preferably two or three times a week.</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>So I’d like to start making a slight change to the way I’m posting items on Faith Developments. I’m going to continue to post the best of what I’m reading in newsletters around the district on the Faith Developments blog. But I’m going to start summarizing those posts here as well. I’ll also provide a link to the online version of the newsletter in which I found the post here. That way you can go and read it for yourself in context. Going directly to someone else’s site to read a post is the more acceptable way of sharing information on the internet, especially if that other site is a blog itself. And that, my friends, is my plan: to have more and more PSD religious educators, ministers, youth advisors, and lay leaders sharing their thoughts and expertise on the internet through blogs. It may take awhile, but that’s the dream.</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>So, here’s a quick rundown of an interesting column I read in <EM>Expressions</EM>, the monthly newsletter from the <A href="http://www.uucmtka.org/" target=_self>Unitarian Universalist Church of Minnetonka</A>. It’s by their Religious Educator Director, Andrea Heier. What impressed my about this article is the subject matter: Putting Family First, which is not just a phrase, but the name of an organization whose mission is “to raise awareness about the crucial connections between parents and children, and helps families find balance in their lives.” Andrea has helped to make families a priority in her congregation, and she’s done a great job of using Putting Family First as a resource. You can take a look at Andrea’s original article <A href="http://www.uucmtka.org/documents/expression200703.pdf" target=_self>here</A> (PDF), or by visiting <A href="http://faithdevelopments.blogspot.com/2007/03/putting-family-first.html" target=_self>Faith Developments</A>.<BR><A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070327" target=_self>Comments</A></DIV> Tue, 27 Mar 2007 17:26:40 GMT Interconnected Weblogs of Existence http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.03.01_arch.html#1174402477983 <DIV>A quick post this morning before Julia, Henry, and I head off to Seattle for a meeting of <A href="http://www.tesol.org/s_tesol/seccss.asp?CID=1244&amp;DID=6071" target=_self>TESOL</A>, Julia's professional association. (We're going to mix a little pleasure with our business, too, and visit our Canadian kin in Vancouver after the conference!). I just wanted to call your attention to a couple of things. One is the new blogroll I'm trying out (you can find it below the "Recent Comments" section to the right). It's powered by <A href="http://www.feedblitz.com/" target=_self>FeedBlitz</A>, and the reason I like this particular service is that it gives you two different ways to subscribe to the blogs listed: either through an RSS feed, or via e-mail. Now if none of this makes sense to you, don't worry--it didn't make much sense to me, either, until I started reading up on blogs and how to best use them. What I'd like to do with my blogroll is offer a list of blogs intended primarily for Prairie Star District religious educators, ministers, and lay people interested in issues around lifespan faith development. And what would really make it cool is if more and more RE folks in our district had blogs of their own. That way we could have an interconnected web of weblogs!</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>The other thing I wanted to call your attention to is Debra Haffner's blog <A href="http://debrahaffner.blogspot.com/" target=_self>Sexuality and Religion: What's the Connection?</A> It's a perfect example of the importance of blogs for keeping up with issues that affect us all. Debra blogs regularly about sexuality and religion, and as you know from previous posts, her resources are essential reading for those of us interested in making our congregations as safe as possible. Her blog is essential reading, too. So if you'd like to try out the FeedBlitz service, click on the icons next to here blog at the left. Consider subscribing via RSS or directly to your e-mail inbox. And if you have any questions about what this means, drop me a line and I'll walk you through it.<BR><A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070320" target=_self>Comments</A></DIV> Tue, 20 Mar 2007 15:03:15 GMT We Have the Technology http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.03.01_arch.html#1174058625819 <DIV>I'm spending a few moments this morning catching up on blog posts that have been delivered to my NewsGator inbox (it's a great way to keep track of your favorite blogs without having to visit each site!). Anyway, I noticed <A href="http://www.philocrites.com/archives/003455.html" target=_self>this post </A>from Philocrites (aka Chris Walton, senior editor of the UU World, and the driving force behind the World's award-winning <A href="http://www.uuworld.org/" target=_self>online version</A>). He points out that the UU Church of Berkeley "has started using YouTube, the social-networking video site, to host a welcome message from the ministers (featured on the front page of the church's site) and selected worship services." That's brilliant, if you ask me. I could see a congregation having multiple videos: in addition to a welcome message and selected worship services, one could also post videos about the children's programs, the youth group, multigenerational events, teasers for adult religious education classes, and so forth. We have the technology. If we use it, they will come!<BR><A href="http://www.haloscan.com/comments/psdlund/070316" target=_self>Comments</A></DIV> Fri, 16 Mar 2007 15:25:44 GMT Sex Offenders in UU Congregations http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.03.01_arch.html#1173884811147 <DIV>Last week I sent out <A href="pageid:id21.html">a special edition of the new Lifespan Faith Development newsletter</A> that's e-mailed to religious educators, youth advisors, ministers, and lay leaders in the Prairie Star District (if you're not currently getting the newsletter, send me an e-mail at <A href="mailto:plund@psduua.org">plund@psduua.org</A> and I'll add you to the list). The subject of the special e-mail was concern over the number of reports regarding known or suspected sex offenders attending UU congregations in Prairie Star. I didn't mention this in the e-mail, but I'm especially concerned about this increase because it means, in my opinion, one of two things: either we've had these sex offenders in our congregations for quite sometime and are only now discovering it (because of increased use of required background checks, etc.); or know sex offenders are deliberately targeting UU congregations because the word has spread that we're soft touches who make it fairly easy for a "repentant" offender to have unsupervised access to children, youth, and vulnerable adults.</DIV> <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV> <DIV>How might this word have gotten out? Well, apparently congregational leaders aren't the only group of web-saavy folks in the word. It seems that pedophiles have developed quite a online community to support one another in their&nbsp;specific interests (sex with children or adolescents, boys or girls, etc.) and to help each other find ways to gain unsupervised access to victims. There was a article published in the <EM>New York Times</EM> last year clearly shows the lengths to which sex offenders will go in order to get close to the objects of their sexual desire. Please read "<A href="http://www.nytimes.com/2006/08/21/technology/21pedo.html?ei=5088&amp;en=4ca4585011496b35&amp;ex=1313812800&amp;adxnnl=1&amp;partner=rssnyt&amp;emc=rss&amp;adxnnlx=1173885063-Oc97CARjjh8IO2TsULlPDQ" target=_self>Dark Corners: On the Web, Pedophiles Extend Their Reach</A>" for yourself, especially if you or someone in your congregation has any thoughts whatsoever that a known sex offender in your community has reformed and can be trusted around children, youth, or vulnerable adults. If you have any doubts at all, consider this exchange reported in the article:</DIV> <BLOCKQUOTE dir=ltr style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px"> <DIV>Using deception to gain access to children is a recurring theme. For example, on a site for adults attracted to boys, someone calling himself Vespucci asked in June whether a single man could become a foster father. The respondents cautioned Vespucci to disguise his pedophilia.</DIV> <DIV><BR>“You better have a darned good excuse why you never married, such as your fiancée died in a car wreck,” replied a man calling himself simply “d.” “I highly recommend you date women for several years and keep at least a couple of those relationships going for at least a couple of months. Around the women, make a point of being nice to children.”<BR><br></DIV> <DIV>The deception would be worthwhile, d wrote. “It will help out in the reference-check dept. when you apply.”</DIV></BLOCKQUOTE> <DIV>If a pedophile is willing to date a woman for several years in order to get a good reference as a foster parent, what makes us thing a convicted sex offender wouldn't hang around a UU congregation for a few years in order to gain unsupervised access to children, youth, and vulnerable adults?<BR><A href="javascript:HaloScan('070314');" target=_self> <SCRIPT type=text/javascript>postCount('070314');</SCRIPT> </A>| <A href="javascript:HaloScanTB('070314');" target=_self> <SCRIPT type=text/javascript>postCountTB('070314'); </SCRIPT> </A></DIV> Wed, 14 Mar 2007 15:30:16 GMT UU Translators Needed http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.03.01_arch.html#1173532279830 <DIV>I'm in Des Moines, Iowa this morning, getting ready for a day-long meeting of the Prairie Star District Program Council in Ames. The reason I'm in Des Moines rather than Ames is because last evening I met with Lori Allen and Sherry Warren, the to other members of what I would call PSD's Lifespan Faith Development Executive Team. We talked about the direction of Lifespan Faith Development in Prairie Star, and we identified some areas we want to emphasize. More on that later. In the meantime, I'd like to offer you the last of the Youth Ministry &amp; Spirituality Project's seven elements of contemplative youth ministry, authentic action. Here's what they say about it in their charter:</DIV> <BLOCKQUOTE dir=ltr style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px"> <DIV>A contemplative approach to youth ministry seeks to engage youth and adults in authentic actions that reflect God's mercy, justice and peace. Just as Jesus came out of prayer and solitude to heal the sick, welcome the outcast, and celebrate with friends (Lk 4:18-19, John 12:1ff), so we also seek to cooperate with the Holy Spirit in a way of life rooted in the Beatitudes that witnesses to Christ's love, passion and joy. Communal practices of Sabbath, prayer, discernment and accompaniment find their fulfillment in actions with youth that make visible the gifts of the Holy Spirit. Young people desire opportunities to participate in Christ's healing and liberating activity within the world. Companions of the Project seek to support youth and adults in becoming instruments of God's grace who courageously resist the principalities and powers that oppress life and creatively reveal the reality of God's love.</DIV></BLOCKQUOTE> <DIV>Okay, so that's not typical UU language. But there's much here that's consistent with our Principles, Purposes, and Sources. Take the last phrase, for example, "courageously resist the principalities and powers that oppress life and creatively reveal the reality of God's love." Sounds like two of our Sources our living tradition draws from:</DIV> <UL> <LI>Words and deeds of prophetic women and men which challenge us to confront powers and structures of evil with justice, compassion and the transforming power of love; [and] <LI>Jewish and Christian teachings which call us to respond to God's love by loving our neighbors as ourselves.</LI></UL> <P>So, rather than "courageously resist the principalities and powers that oppress life and creatively reveal the reality of God's love," our contemplative youth ministry could help youth to "confront powers and structures of evil with justice, compassion and the transforming power of love" and "respond to God's love by loving our neighbors as ourselves." We've all ready got the language. It's just a matter of intentionally doing the work (spiritually speaking).<BR><A href="javascript:HaloScan('070310');" target=_self> <SCRIPT type=text/javascript>postCount('070310');</SCRIPT> </A>| <A href="javascript:HaloScanTB('070310');" target=_self> <SCRIPT type=text/javascript>postCountTB('070310'); </SCRIPT> </A></P> Sat, 10 Mar 2007 13:15:37 GMT Testing Feed for HTML http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/ <DIV>The more I read about the <A href="http://www.ymsp.org/welcome.html" target=_self>Youth Spirituality and Ministry Project</A>, the more I'm struck by how much of the work they've been doing parallels what we've already been doing on various levels at the UUA and in Prairie Star. Consider "hospitality," the sixth component of a contemplative youth ministry. If you search the UUA website for use of the word "hospitality," you'll find over 40 pages of hits (compared to, say, "Sabbath," which yield only 19 pages of hits). Obviously, there's a lot of talk about hospitality among UUs, and well there should be. How much of this talk has filtered down to our youth programs, hoever, is questionable. Here's what the YS&amp;MP has to say about it:</DIV> <BLOCKQUOTE dir=ltr style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px"> <DIV>A contemplative approach to youth ministry seeks to welcome, bless and joyfully integrate all young people into the whole church community. Just as Jesus exhorted his disciples to "let the children come" (Mk 9:35ff; 10:13ff), we also seek the full inclusion of young people and the many gifts they bring into every dimension of church life: worship, teaching, proclamation, fellowship and service. Young persons often suffer marginalization in the church and the pain of not feeling accepted and appreciated for who they are. As elders in the covenant community, adult companions of the Project seek not only to accompany young people individually on the way of Jesus, but also to advocate for them in finding their place as fellow ministers of the gospel in the larger community of the church and its mission in the world.</DIV></BLOCKQUOTE> <DIV dir=ltr>As always, this is fairly Christian language. But the basic premise of seeking "the full inclusion of young people and the many gifts they bring into every dimension of church life" holds true for us. Perhaps fully welcoming our youth into our congregations might be the most radically hospitable this we could do.<BR><A href="javascript:HaloScan('070308');" target=_self> <SCRIPT type=text/javascript>postCount('070308');</SCRIPT> </A>| <A href="javascript:HaloScanTB('070308');" target=_self> <SCRIPT type=text/javascript>postCountTB('070308'); </SCRIPT> </A></DIV> Thu, 08 Mar 2007 20:55:44 GMT Totally Radical Hospitality http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.03.01_arch.html#1173386447697 The more I read about the Youth Spirituality and Ministry Project, the more I'm struck by how much of the work they've been doing parallels what we've already been doing on various levels at the UUA and in Prairie Star. Consider "hospitality," the sixth component of a contemplative youth ministry. If you search the UUA website for use of the word "hospitality," you'll find over 40 pages of hits (compared to, say, "Sabbath," which yield only 19 pages of hits). Obviously, there's a lot of talk about hospitality among UUs, and well there should be. How much of this talk has filtered down to our youth programs, hoever, is questionable. Thu, 08 Mar 2007 20:47:31 GMT Your One Desire Then Acts with Ours http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.03.01_arch.html#1172908808203 We’ve had our last official district staff meeting here at Ghost Ranch. All that’s left is breakfast, a group photo, closing worship, and saying good-bye. Soon I’ll be back in Minnesota, where I hear there’s a couple of feet of snow on the ground. Whoo-hoo! At any rate, I’m not quite ready to fall asleep, so I thought I’d blog on another element of contemplative youth ministry—discernment. Sat, 03 Mar 2007 08:02:51 GMT Someday You'll Accompany Me http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.03.01_arch.html#1172764090293 It snowed last night here in Ghost Ranch, but the sun is out and the air is crisp and I’m looking forward to another fruitful day of conversations with my district staff colleagues. One of the things we’ve been talking about is the need for an increased emphasis on spiritual growth in our congregations, which is what these posts on the Youth Ministry &amp; Spirituality Project are all about it. For example, take the fourth of the seven ways the project has identified for cultivating attentiveness to the presence of the transcendent in the lives of young people—accompaniment.... Thu, 01 Mar 2007 15:54:25 GMT We, the Member Congregations of the UUA, Covenant to Be Dull http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.02.01_arch.html#1172693399747 I’m taking a break from our district staff meetings here at Ghost Ranch, so I thought it’d be a good time to add another element of to my posts on the seven parts of a contemplative approach to youth ministry (according to the Youth Ministry &amp; Spirituality Project). This next one uses a word that UUs should feel particularly comfortable with: covenant. Everything we do on an institutional level (congregations, districts, and the association) is built on the notion of covenant. It’s a word used in our founding documents as well as our Principles and Purposes. Wed, 28 Feb 2007 20:12:41 GMT Spirit of Life, Come unto Me…On the Way to Ghost Ranch http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.02.01_arch.html#1172637962283 A colleague of mine (Lisa Presley, who’s sitting in the first class cabin of NWA flight 623 to Albuquerque, New Mexico at this very moment…while my work partner Nancy Heege and I are with the huddled masses back in Economy) likes to remind us that the hymn “Spirit of Life” was intended by its composer, Carolyn McDade, to be sung slowly…like a prayer. I mention this because “Spirit of Life” is such a favorite among UUs—probably for that very reason. It’s a prayer for folks who usually don’t pray. Wed, 28 Feb 2007 05:04:27 GMT Teens Can Multitask, But What Are Costs? http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.02.01_arch.html#1172509010601 That's the title of an article in today's Washington Post, and it raises a question that I think congregations need to answer, especially if we think in terms providing "a youth ministry the meets the spiritual needs of youth and increases the spiritual depth of our congregations" (to quote one of the desired outcomes of the UUA's Consultation on Ministry To and With Youth). Mon, 26 Feb 2007 17:14:46 GMT Robust, Flexible, and Diverse...Sounds Like a Pick-Up Rugby Match http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.02.01_arch.html#1172281378777 I’m flying to Columbus, Ohio right now to co-facilitate another district-level conversation on ministry to and with youth—the second one this month. Not that I’m complaining. I really appreciate the opportunity to be part of this work, and I hope that my experience will be helpful when the time comes for Prairie Star to hold its conversation. When would that be, you ask? Why April 14, 2007 as part of the Annual Conference in Minneapolis. Sat, 24 Feb 2007 01:52:18 GMT I was out there... http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.02.01_arch.html#1171996442670 "...on an open sea, no direction, and no one to lead." Those are some lyrics from "New Resolution," a song by Heartless Bastards, one of my favorite bands (click here to learn more about the band and download some songs for free!). I think these words apply to this post. You be the judge.... Tue, 20 Feb 2007 18:53:12 GMT Where Have All the Men (Singles, Parents, Those Who Are Widowed, Etc.) Gone http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.02.01_arch.html#1171629065183 Way back in 1999, Diane Miller, who was the head of the UUA's Ministry Department, reported that "Something remarkable has happened. We have reached a point in our active ministry where our movement is being served and led by essentially equal numbers of women and men." The specific numbers, as of March 25, 1999, were: 853 ministers actively engaged in ministry, 431 women and 422 men. According to the UUA Board of Trustees Report from that year, "This is without precedent in church history, a major transformation in our time." Fri, 16 Feb 2007 12:38:53 GMT Nhat Hanh's Advice for the UUA's Youth Consultation http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.02.01_arch.html#1171474398194 I was going to title this "Thich Nhat Hanh Speaks from Beyond the Grave" in hopes of having a few stray surfers check out this post (you know, "Huh? I thought Thich Nhat Hanh was still alive!"). Don't worry. He is, indeed, still alive...Wikipedia says so, so it must be true. But I did run across this timely advice from him in his 1995 classic Living Buddha, Living Christ. It's from the chapter entitled "For a Future to Be Possible," and it goes like this... Wed, 14 Feb 2007 17:41:05 GMT RE-Focus on the Family Closing Worship http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.02.01_arch.html#1171301856479 I have to say that yesterday’s closing worship for the RE-Focus on the Family conference was one of the best I’ve experienced for this sort of event. Jennifer Nichols-Payne (my colleague in the Southwest Conference) and I put together a nicely balanced service celebrating families and connections called “Ordinary Miracles.” Some of the highlights.... Mon, 12 Feb 2007 17:45:32 GMT Losing It, Sort Of... http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.02.01_arch.html#1171223516701 I sort of lost my cool yesterday when giving my presentation on ministering to families. It happened just as I finished reading a couple of “Success Stories” from the Roehlkepartain’s book Embracing Parents: How Your Congregation Can Strengthen Families. As you can see, both of these stories involve the internet:... Sun, 11 Feb 2007 19:58:01 GMT Children of Divorce http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.02.01_arch.html#1171115886005 I’m starting today’s RE-Focus on the Family presentation with a personal note on why I’m passionate about family ministry, and I’d like to share it with you here…. Sat, 10 Feb 2007 14:00:07 GMT If We Clarify Our Values, They Will Come http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.02.01_arch.html#1171069398330 I’m on a plane to Dallas/Fort Worth at the moment, working on the presentation I’ll be giving tomorrow at the RE-Focus on the Family conference. The message I really want to make sure to cover in this post has to do with last part of my family ministry trinity of relationships, community, and values. I’ve written about values here in the past, but that was before I took a vow to limit the length of my posts. So here’s the skinny on values. Sat, 10 Feb 2007 01:09:45 GMT Don't You Wonder What We'll Find Steppin’ Out Tonight? http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.02.01_arch.html#1170955404196 Supporting children in our homes is even more important than supporting them in our congregations. After all, if a child is going to learn to “feel at home in the universe,” he or she needs to feel at home, er, at home. Which is why supporting the parents of the children in our communities of faith is the next priority for a progressive family ministry program. How do we do this? Truth is, it’s fairly easy. Thu, 08 Feb 2007 17:33:55 GMT The Connected Congregation http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.02.01_arch.html#1170868657575 I’ve been thinking about the word connected lately. It seems like almost every book I’ve been reading recently either has it in the title or the subtitle. From what I can gather, people are using it in one of two ways: human connections or technological connections. I’m beginning to think that a truly relevant congregation is going to have to be adept at both kinds of connections. Hence my title for this post, “The Connected Congregation.” Wed, 07 Feb 2007 17:23:07 GMT Canaries in a Coal Mine http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.02.01_arch.html#1170697999861 Relationships. Community. Values. Which of these three important areas of liberal religious family ministry should be the place for us—lay and ordained, professional and volunteer religious leaders—to start? Tue, 06 Feb 2007 18:07:50 GMT Relationships, Community, Values http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.02.01_arch.html#1170696077944 So, this has been a pretty busy couple of weeks for me, and the rest of February is going to be just as busy. But you wouldn’t have known that from my last few posts. Filling you in a bit more on my professional comings and goings is one of the changes I plan on making here as I transform “Phil’s Little Blog on the Prairie” into the work-related blog it was originally intended to be. After all, the tag line says this blog is about answering the question: “So, just what does the Lifespan Program Director of the Prairie Star District do?” Mon, 05 Feb 2007 17:30:55 GMT Mea Culpa, Mea Culpa http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.02.01_arch.html#1170620076078 More and more these days, I like to begin my sermons with a confession. Usually it’s something about how I’m basically lazy and write only one sermon a quarter and preach it at five or six different congregations and that this saves me a lot of time and energy. And usually that gets a bit of a laugh, which is the reason I begin that way. Then I get to the serious part: I write only one sermon a quarter because I believe that what I have to say to 100 people in New Orleans, or 50 people in Sioux Falls, or 400 people in St. Paul—no matter what size the congregation I’m standing before is—I believe that what I have to say should basically be the same thing. Liberal religious congregations need to become real communities of faith. Our children, youth, and—yes—even our adults, need real community in their lives these days. And unless we make this a priority, unless we put it darn near the top of the list of reasons for our existence as Unitarian Univeralist congregations, we are letting people down. We’re letting down the people who are already part of our congregations, and we’re letting down the (literally) hundreds of thousands of people in this country who could benefit from making a liberal religious community of faith a part of their lives. More.... Sun, 04 Feb 2007 20:26:20 GMT Prairie Star Newsletter Column http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.01.01_arch.html#1170189336170 Note: This is a preview of my column for the next issue of The Prairie Star... Tue, 30 Jan 2007 20:38:23 GMT Do UUs Need an Out Group? http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.01.01_arch.html#1169488945976 'm not sure if I've blogged on this topic before, but I've been meaning to for quite some time...and it looks like now's the time. I first stumbled across this concept a couple of years ago when I was browsing the web looking for resources on church growth. It's a brief article from the Spirituality &amp; Health website which summarizes the work of sociologist John H. Evans of the University of California. Mon, 22 Jan 2007 19:37:50 GMT Let's Make Sparing the Rod Official http://www.home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.01.01_arch.html#1168969954521 Yesterday Henry turned 18 months old. Julia and I marked the occasion by singing to him the half-birthday version of “Happy Birthday to You,” which goes like this: Hap... Birth… to…, Hap… Birth… to…, Hap… Birth… Dear… Hen…! Hap… Birth… to…. Of course Henry thought it was pretty goofy. Half birthdays are fun to celebrate, and we’re looking forward to making a bigger deal of them as Henry gets older. Tue, 16 Jan 2007 18:34:21 GMT Family Ministry Reality Check http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.01.01_arch.html#1168447648396 Every once in awhile I like to do a reality check of where we (and when I say we, I mean individuals, families, congregations, districts, and the entire Unitarian Universalist Association) are when it comes to family ministry. A useful tool in doing this check is to take a look at what other people (mostly mainstream Protestants and progressive Evangelicals) are saying about families and how congregations are (or could be) ministering to them. Wed, 10 Jan 2007 17:00:50 GMT Passing on the Faith http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2007.01.01_arch.html#1167852006749 I’ve found a couple of paragraphs that sum up what I believe we should be doing when we minister to families in our congregations. It’s from Everyday Blessings: The Inner Work of Mindful Parenting, by Myla and Jon Kabat-Zinn.... Wed, 03 Jan 2007 19:27:36 GMT Not My Last Word on Love and Goodness http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.12.01_arch.html#1167233664154 I’ve been reading more of Madeline Levine’s insightful book The Price of Privilege: How Parental Pressure and Material Advantage Are Creating a Generation of Disconnected and Unhappy Kids. It is, as I said earlier this month, essential reading for anyone concerned about how we raise our children. I’ll be posting more about the specifics of Levine’s book later, but for this brief post-Xmas post, I’d like lift up one her main points—children, all children, need to know that they are loved…unconditionally. And perhaps more importantly for us, children of affluent parents are especially in need of this. Wed, 27 Dec 2006 15:43:52 GMT Family Matters http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.12.01_arch.html#1166555634125 The current issue of Sojourners magazine has a terrific article on family ministry by Julie Polter entitled, "Family Matters: How to Defend the Family More." (You can read the article for free, but you'll need to register.) She brings up a couple of things that apply directly to Unitarian Universalist congregations. Tue, 19 Dec 2006 19:16:58 GMT The Price of Priviledge http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.12.01_arch.html#1165946074403 For the past few months I've been preaching a sermon that's somewhat of a response to President Bill Sinkford's report [pdf] to last June's General Assembly, where Rev. Sinkford suggests that we ask ourselves "How are the children?" when we consider what we are called to do in the world. Tue, 12 Dec 2006 18:11:52 GMT Love and Goodness http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.11.01_arch.html#1164043237336 The Universalist idea of God is that of a Universal Immanent Spirit whose nature is love. It is the largest thought the world has ever known; it is the most revolutionary doctrine ever proclaimed; it is the most expansive hope ever dreamed. Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:17:16 GMT Lifespan Faith Development Priorities http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.10.01_arch.html#1160072429505 Last week I shared with you the mission and vision of the Prairie Star District's Lifespan Faith Development Council. This week I'd like to build a case for prioritizing the "spiritual growth" strand of faith development in our congregations. Here's why. Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:16:11 GMT Mission & Vision http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.09.01_arch.html#1159549536006 The first meeting of the Prairie Star’s new Lifespan Faith Development Council was held the last week of September, and our first order of business was to adopt a mission and vision. This could have been a rather time consuming process, but since the council itself is the culmination of a multi-year visioning process, we were able to reach consensus in short order. Here’s what we agreed on for our mission: “The mission of the Lifespan Faith Development Council is to help Prairie Star District congregations develop and foster mature persons of faith in the Unitarian Universalist tradition.” Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:13:09 GMT Moral Values, Part Five http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.09.01_arch.html#1158076247907 Sorry I haven't been posting regularly, but the new church year is started, and things have been pretty busy around the district office. Here's the next to the last post on my series on Moral Values. It relies heavily on Douglas K. Smith's article in the UU World called "Whatever Happened to We?" (If you like what you see here, please read Smith's article in its entirety.) Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:12:12 GMT Moral Values, Part Four http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.08.01_arch.html#1156598738350 Still more from my week at Camp Unistar... Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:11:20 GMT Moral Values, Part Three http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.08.01_arch.html#1156348725034 More from Camp Unistar... Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:10:39 GMT Moral Values, Part Two http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.08.01_arch.html#1156175602086 Picking up on the last part of the first CSW study question (By what authority does our understanding of morality derive?), we got into small groups and came up with some possible answers. Responses ranged from the Declaration of Independence, to guidance from some inner authority, to assessing the outcomes of moral decisions made in the past, to community, the principles and purposes, and our sources. Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:10:01 GMT Moral Values, Part One http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.08.01_arch.html#1155837118691 Once again, it's been a little while since I've posted anything. I do have a lot of material I'd like to share with you, however, stuff that I used last month during a weeklong workshop on Liberal Religious Moral Values at Camp Unistar here in Minnesota. Here's what we covered on the first day: Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:09:24 GMT RE Week at The Mountain: Day Five (a few days late) http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.07.01_arch.html#1152652427718 Sorry I didn't get this last post up right away, but I left The Mountain as soon as our Friday session was over, and I've spent the last few days relaxing and catching up with my family (in Henry David's case, catching up is literal--he's a pretty fast crawler these days!). Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:07:07 GMT RE Week at The Mountain: Day Four http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.07.01_arch.html#1152204083369 We began with a Pratice-Oriented Spirituality session on Gratitude. <br>We also shared some of the dinnertime graces we talked about over the last few days: <br> <br> For each new morning with its light <br> For rest and shelter of the night <br> For health and food, for love and friends <br> For everything your goodness sends. Thank you! <br> From Ralph Waldo Emerson (adapted), sung to the Old 100th. <br> <br> Loving Spirit be our guest, <br> Dine with us, share our bread, <br> That our table might be blessed, <br> And our souls be fed. <br> Attributed to Gary Kowalski, sung to "Mary Had a Little Lamb" Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:06:14 GMT RE Week at The Mountain: Day Three http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.07.01_arch.html#1152120790931 We started the day with a Practice-Oriented Spirituality Session on Forgiveness. As with most small groups, now that we've been together for a few days, the level of trust was discernably higher today. These POS sessions have proven to be a wonderful way to begin each day. Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:05:33 GMT RE Week at The Mountain: Day Two http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.07.01_arch.html#1152036549775 We started the second day of Foundations of Liberal Family Ministry with a Practice-Oriented Spirituality Session on the them of Hospitality. Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:04:55 GMT RE Week at The Mountain: Day One http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.07.01_arch.html#1151950145516 I realize I've fallen behind in my posts, but I'd like to make up for it by offering a daily review of what I've been covering during the Foundations of Liberal Family Ministry workshop I'm presenting during RE Week here at The Mountain. Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:04:19 GMT Long Time, No Post http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.06.01_arch.html#1150758346455 Sorry I haven't posted for awhile, but I took a little vacation a couple of weeks back, and last week was pretty full with preparations for this year's General Assembly in St. Louis, Missouri. Actually, I'm in St. Louis right now. I've been meeting all day with my district staff collegues. Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:03:27 GMT Five Essential Practices for Spiritual Progressives http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.06.01_arch.html#1149263554687 For the last few years I've been refining my response to the "Five Great Motivators" used by advertisers to get people to buy items that they don't really need. Here's what Herschell Gordon Lewis, author of The Art of Writing Copy, has to say about them: “Anyone who might be moved by food, clothing and shelter is not worth your promotional dollars. Gourmet food? Yes. Designer clothing? Yes. Status-laden shelter? Yes. But it's the qualifier words that give us the motivators, not the bald requirements of life.” Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:02:26 GMT What Is the Difference Between Being Religious and Being Spiritual? http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.05.01_arch.html#1148573408429 I've been thinking a lot about the difference between "religion" and "spirituality," especially in regards to how it affects one's commitment to a particular community of faith and/or faith tradition. And I just ran across this interview with author Marilynne Robinson in the current issue of Sojourners Magazine (http://www.sojo.net/). I think the following passage gets to the heart of the issue: Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:00:54 GMT So, Just What Does a Lifespan Program Director Do? http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.05.01_arch.html#1148064413734 One of my goals for this blog is to give you some idea of what I do as the Lifespan Program Director for Prairie Star. I think the past few days are a pretty good example of what a typical week is like.... Fri, 19 May 2006 19:13:45 GMT Something about Compassion... http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.05.01_arch.html#1147462846087 I'd like to share with you the "charge to the graduates" that my wife, Julia, gave on May 10 at a reception for the students graduating from Hamline University's Graduate School of Education. I think it speaks to all of us, no matter what our vocation may be. (By the way, Julia was asked to do the charge this year because she was given the GSE "Faculty of the Year" award last year!) Fri, 12 May 2006 19:50:52 GMT Broadening the Definition of Family http://home.earthlink.net/~psdlund/2006.05.01_arch.html#1146763722374 I'm sorry that I didn't post anything last week, but it happened to be one of the busiest weeks of the year around Prairie Star. There was a meeting of our district board, followed by our Annual Meeting in Iowa City, Iowa, followed by the district's joint UUMA/LREDA retreat. But I'm finally back home in the Twin Cities and I've got a few moments for a brief post. Thu, 04 May 2006 18:25:06 GMT