As a child growing up on Long Island, I always knew I was different. Apparently
not all young boys grow up singing show tunes in front of the living room mirror. Go figure!
It wasn’t until college,
however, that I was dragged kicking and screaming out of the closet and I've been kicking and screaming ever since. Because,
as I say in my act, I'm “not gay enough for gay people and not straight enough for straight people.” I'm what
they call a “straight-acting gay.” I'm a “stray.”
After performing in community and college theater on
Long Island with such future stars as Edie Falco (The Sopranos), Phil Rosenthal (Everybody Loves Raymond) and
Nancy Cassaro (Tony ’n’ Tina’s Wedding), I moved to New York City to attend New York University and
spent my early years there writing a semi-autobiographical novel (New York Trilogy), a play (Tear Me Apart)
and performing as a singer at such clubs as CBGB, The Duplex and Don’t Tell Mama.
I decided to try my hand at stand-up comedy and I haven't looked back. I perform regularly in New York City and have performed
at clubs and colleges across the United States and around the world. A favorite of both gay and straight audiences, I was
recently named one of "7 Funny LGBT Comics You Shouldn't Have Missed" by The Advocate.
I've also produced comedy
shows and helped book Tommy Koenig's one-man show, Baby Boom Baby, all over the United States.
I've appeared as a pundit
in newspapers and magazines (The New York Times, New York magazine, National Journal), and
on TV (CNN, CBS Evening News, The Wendy Williams Show, CBC's Connect with Mark Kelley), radio (The
Julianna Forlano Show, WNYC, Watson n Watson), websites (GRITtv, Gridskipper), and the
stage (Laughing Liberally).
I have a blog called The
Gay Curmudgeon (thegaycurmudgeon.blogspot.com) and my writing has been featured on the websites Our Queer Stories,
The Middle Class Action Project, Bootstrap Industries and Bootleg
In 2016, I was approached by VoiceMaps to write an audio guide, so I came up with the idea of writing
a walking tour of New York City's East Village, based upon my book New York Trilogy.
I was also asked to interview gay photographer Stanley Stellar for a book about tattooing by East Village artist Clayton Patterson.