Parenthood

"Little Sister" Judy, Pam and Mickey at Disneyland.

Although we may miss Mass occasionally, our religion lays a foundation that guides us through our daily lives. With love and respect, we believe in applying “love marks” to everything we do, and in every person we meet. As loving parents, we will pass the gift of “giving” to our child -- teaching through acts of compassion to those in need.

We want to share our favorite childhood memories with our child, just as our parents did with us. Pam can’t wait to make cinnamon rolls and waffles for breakfast, share family recipes, sew costumes, play “dress up,” cuddle while reading bedtime stories and paint pictures with our child. Terry is looking forward to playing family card games, strolling along the beach, making go-carts, surfing, sailing, and car mechanics with our little one.

Pam holding our nephew Drew.

Our Large and Loving Family

We are both from very large families; Terry has 9 siblings and Pam has 6 siblings, including her identical twin sister. We have an adopted niece and nephew, so we know our families will embrace our adopted child with open arms. Having younger siblings, we both are comfortable with caring for babies and children, and can’t wait to care for our own.

Terry with our niece Erin, playing the player piano.

We have so much fun during the holidays, with our Irish and Southern roots. We enjoy Irish dancing, storytelling, playing games, and having big family gatherings. Terry’s family members live close by, and love to surf and have barbeques at the beach. Pam’s family lives in Georgia, and when we visit them we always appreciate the beautiful Fall leaves and good Southern cooking.