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Here's where I will discuss ways I've learned to be more Natural.
I will also provide an occasional insight or experience I have had while  learning to be more Natural in a Normal world.
Feel free to share your experiences with me and I'll be happy to post them.

Success Tips
PNH is.....
1. Invest in proper tools & equipment.
2. Apply what you learn to all aspects of what you do with or for your horse.
3. Don't advance until you know and understand the first three games.
4. Pick one horse and learn on that horse.
5. Use your imagination!
6. Think out of the box!
7. Reward the slighest try.
8. Think like a horse.
9. Focus Focus Focus
10. Don't nag or drag your horse.
FUN!
Knowing when to quit.
Knowing what right feels like.
Knowing when to get on.
Knowing when to get off.
About safety.
About principles not tasks.
More about the human than the horse.
About communication.
About Leadership, not control.

10 Normal suggestions 
That weren't working
for me.
 
1. Kick him to go - pull on him to whoa.
2. If he won't stop, try a different bit.
3. All your horse needs is a lot of wet
    saddle blankets and a firm hand.
4. Put a tie down on him, then he can't
    keep throwing his head up.
5. Put a chain under his chin or over
    his nose, so he'll pay attention.
6. Put your heels down, sit up straight
    and be still. That's the correct
    way to ride.
7. Just tie his head around,
     he'll get soft, eventually.
8. Lunge him first, he'll calm down.
9. Give him a good jerk so he knows
     you mean business.
10. You need to use spurs,
       here, try mine.

What has helped me to succeed in becoming more Natural?

My success in this program came from being more interested in the cake than the candles and icing. When I made the decision to become Natural, all the Normal things got put on hold or tossed out. Sometimes I got so interested in the end result or a blue ribbon that I ignored the most important principles involved in PNH. Showing and accomplishing advanced tasks take on a whole new degree of success when my foundation is solid and I have a true partnership with my horse. I have to REMEMBER - this is a program about becoming a better partner -
It's not about doing what everyone else does - It's not about doing what I've always done. PNH means taking the time that it takes so it takes less time.
 
 
HOW I CHANGED FROM NORMAL TO NATURAL
 
1. I Quit looking to everyone who is NORMAL for answers.
2. I learned to live by the PRINCIPLES of natural horsemanship.
3. I quit thinking about horses as a pet, a tool, a dumb animal,
    or a way to compete.
4. I view problems as an opportunity to learn and to teach.
5. I stopped nagging my horse.
6. I started looking at things from my horse's point of view.
7. I pay attention to what my horse does or doesn't do.
8. I quit letting my past be my future.
9. I USED the TOOLS and RESOURCES PNH PROVIDES.
10. I don't do things to my horse - I do things for my horse.
 
 
 
 

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What Level Are You?
I get asked this question all the time. At this point, I think my answer is going to be, I don't know - Ask my horse.
 
The levels program has been an integral part of PNH for quite a while. It's a way to guage where you are with your progress and to possibly indicate whether you should proceed to certain tasks - clinics - classes at the ISC. It was also supposed to be motivational. In my opinion - some folks have become too focused on this.  It puts pressure on some of the instructors to pass folks who can do the tasks, but have no real grasp of the principles. People are in a hurry (I know I was) to get assessed so they could go to certain clinics, and to put a feather in their cap. Oh yeah, and to become a better horseman. I have seen some folks who really get the program and their lives have been changed because they are following it. I have also seen and was one of the ones who didn't get it and was more about just passing and moving on in the program.
 
Well, I think I'm getting closer to what the program was really meant to be about. I think I am  more concerned with what my horse thinks of me than what humans think of me. Zip and Shy assess me every day. They let me know if I am successfully working on Level 4, 5 and 6, or if I am a bumbling idiot who needs to review Level 1 again. This is an ongoing process. Both horses are passing me more often than failing me, now that I have taken on this idea. In fact, Shy has no idea just how lucky he is that I had Zip as a teacher.
Every time our journey goes down a new and unexplored path and we camp out at a brand new task, I am assured that this is a better way to view the Levels. Some might say that a horse can't hand out certificates and strings, but I get much more reward from my horses each time they hand me their heart, their trust, and their confidence.
 
 
 Answering NORMAL Questions
 
Some of us have difficulty answering questions from the Normals. Many times they ask why or how we do certain things. Here are a few responses to some of the questions that we can all use.

 

Q. Riding without a bridle is so cool. I want to learn to teach my horse just that part. What should I do?
A. Swimming without a swimsuit is pretty cool too.. but don't ya think ya ought to learn to swim first?

 

Q. I'd try this PNH stuff, but can't I just use my own halter and lead, and my own riding crop?
A. Sure you can. It would be the same thing as me taking lessons to play golf, but I want to use the set of plastic clubs I got when I was 4 yrs. old.
I'd learn the technique, but my game would suffer because the tools weren't right.

 

Q. Why do you ride around with just a halter and one rein.

A. I want to prove to my horse that I know what to do with one before I use two of them.

 

Q. Why don't you just lunge your horse to work out all the kinks, instead of doing all that other stuff?

A. I guess I could do that, but then I'd spend my life going in circles. Personally, I'd rather go somewhere new everyday. 

 

Before you frown and comment to others for not being Natural,
try to remember that you were probably Normal at some point.
 

1. Horses don't follow bullies or cowards, they follow leaders.
2. If your horse is your mirror,
    then look close enough to see if you should forget 
    the hair, and just powder the nose.
3. Horses don't care how much you know,
    until they know how much you care.
4. Horses don't learn when we ask them to do something -
    They learn when we quit asking them to do something.
5. NEVER do anything that takes away a horse's
    Confidence
    Curiosity
    Sensitivity
    or Dignity