I was reading about an teacher
of a time management class. On the first day of class he
was teaching his students and to make his point he used an illustration
that the they wouldn't easily forget. Hopefully you'll never forget
it either. As the teacher stood in front of the class of high-powered
overachievers he said, "Okay, we're going to have a pop quiz." Then he
pulled out a large jar and put it on his desk. Then he pulled out a bag
full of golf ball sized rocks and put them into the jar. When he
put in the last rock the jar was filled to the top, he asked, "Is this
jar full?" The class said, "Yes." Then he asked, "Is it really?" He reached
under the desk and pulled out a bag of gravel and dumped some gravel in
and shook the jar causing pieces of gravel to work themselves down into
the spaces between the big rocks. Then he smiled and asked the group
once more, "Is the jar full now?" By this time the class was onto
him. "No!" one of them answered. "Good!" he replied. And he reached
under the desk and got a bag of sand. He started dumping the sand
in and it went into all the spaces left between the rocks and the gravel.
Once more he asked the question, "Is this jar full now?" - "Probably not!" said the class.
Once again he said, "Good!" Then he grabbed a pitcher of water
and poured it in to the jar until it was full. Then he looked up
at the class and asked, "What is the point of this demonstration?"
One student replied "No matter how full your schedule is, if you really
try, you can always fit something more into your schedule!" "No," the teacher
said, "The truth this illustration teaches us is that if you don't put the
big rocks in first, you'll never get them in at all."
The point of
this letter is that the "Big Rocks" of Life have to be given priority. What are the big rocks in your
life? Spending time with your family? Your relationship with
God? Your education?
No man ever sat on his death bed wishing he'd put in more time
at the office or worked harder on some project, they always wish they had spent another day with their kids, or another
weekend with their wife, or that they told their family how much he loved them and what they really ment to him. So
remember to put the big rocks in first or you'll never get them in at all.