Gal named TESSA (short for Teresa,) saw my ad at Craigs & wrote me this:
ďAnita: I donít know exactly what you mean by your LUCK IN LOVE training. Not to be
rude, but your view seems both cynical and smart at different points. In some things that you say, I could agree with you 100%. For example, girls should be taught to value themselves and not throw themselves at the nearest "rich" guy.
GLAD WE AGREE ON THAT! Dja SEE OPRAH last month? The group of writers of
ďHeís Just Not THAT IN TO YOUĒ. Upshot was, gals who value themselves
donít HANKER after a guy who gives a fragment of himself to her. She gets
the HELL OUTTA DODGE!
She dates a lot of guys and finds one who is very rich and who canhelp
her change the planet!
other parts, you are talking as if you are "selling" these girls to rich,
old geezers so that the girls can "manipulate" these men into giving money
to charities and babies underprivileged countries.
EVERY WOMAN ALIVE GETS CASH FROM a HUBBY. SHE SPENDS IT AT the MALL. I RECOMMEND GALS MARRY A BILLIONAIRE AND USE THEIR MATE'S CASH FOR TURNING OFF THE PLANETís STARVATION. DO YOU KNOW 30,000 BABIES DIE EVERY DAY OF THE WEEK OF HUNGER? United Nations figures! EVERY DAY, 210,000 a week dying! EVERY MONTH nearly a MILLION BABIES DIE in pain, starving, feverish. SCREW THE MALL honey and screw your JUNIOR GRADE BOYFRIENDS, letís go for the REAL PROBLEM HERE! PLANET GRIEF!
TESSA SAID: That is not only a sad but a sick and misguided mentality.Why should they give their youth and their beauty, their whole LIFE and innocence to one of these men, just to further a cause?
ANITA SAID: NUNS DO IT ALL THE TIME AND YOU DO NOT THINK IT IS SICK!!. ANYWAY if a gal DATES l00 BILLIONAIRES, SOONER OR LATER SHE WILL FALL MADLY IN LOVE WITH ONE OF THEM. REMEMBER, THEY ARE THE brainiest GUYS ON THE PLANET. GREAT WIT, SENSE OF HUMOR. COULDNT YOU LOVE AND ADORE THAT?
TESSA: Is the point that you are trying to exemplify that a couple of lives should be sacrificed for the good of all?
ANITA: I DO NOT PLAN or recommend SACRIFICE FOR ANY GAL! JUST UPGRADING! TO UPGRADE IS NOT A SACRIFICE. I DO NOT DATE BOZOS MYSELF. I UPGRADED A LONG TIME AGO. I was thirty, he was sixty, and I SPENT the next THIRTY YEARS WITH A GUY WHO HAD TWO OSCARS FOR WRITING MOVIES. A BRAINOID. LOVED EVERY MINUTE WITH HIM. TESS, UPGRADES ARE USUALLY FUN!
TESSA: I donít see YOU going out and marrying a man for his money.
NO, WE NEVER MARRIED. I JUST LOVED LOVED AND HAD FUN LOVING! (Moreís the pity.)
TESSA: And if you did (marry for money), that is sad. You should not be trying to drag innocent girls in (to) the dust with you to repeat your mistakes. Women are not "ditzy" and stupid. They are not sex objects.
ANITA: Tessa, MY MISTAKE WAS being a sex object I guess and NOT MARRYING THE GUY! Well, it was out of my hands. He wouldnít have married me. I had four kids from a first marriage to a man in MEXICO CITY. Another thing I donít recommend, marrying foreigners. Cuz they can wipe up the floor with you and no brothers or fathers around to grab his wrist. I swear to GOD, the reason more men don't hit ladies is cuz HER FAMILY is within ten miles of them! There's another downside. You leave one of these brutes from a foreign country, not one cent of alimony. Later, back in L.A.,a lawyer did want to marry me, and take my four kids and raise them, but stupid here turned him down as I was in love with the screenwriter. I knew what was going on unconsciously. One night, driving home from a restaurant, I made a joke to the eminent writer, a POLISH joke, one I knew he'd 'get.' "Dja hear the one about the Polish starlet? She was so dumb she was #%#@ the WRITER! GOD, did he laugh! He must have told his pal the even bigger writer, as soon enough, Gore Vidal took that joke and put it in his book of essays.
I NOW age 63 HAVE NO MONEY FOR FOOD, rent, car, medical care. Canít get SSA cuz I never had a job in my whole life. I married, had four kids raised babies, no job at all.Too old and sick now, (heart is giving out, need valves replaced,) to work at a job! No car to get to a job cuz I canít pay state fees, no car insurance, cash for a motor upgrade as we SMOG cars out here. No money at all for a bus. NEED cash for cat food. I trade horoscopes for cat food. In L.A. a thousand mile city, cars are de rigeur so I go months alone seeing anyone. So when I URGE ladies not to make my MISTAKES, grant me Tessa, that I KNOW what Iím talking about!
I GUESS I DID NOT REALIZE THAT THE GUY WHO LOVED ME SO MUCH AND HE CONVEYED TREMENDOUS ENTHUSIASM those 30 yrs and never was rude for one second, the most polite guy, heíd grown up elegant NYC rich JEWISH family, NOBLESSE OBLIGE up the wazoo....WAS ON ONE LEVEL AN AIRHEAD or MAYBE HEARTLESS or ?? He DIDN'T SEE HOW HE COULD LEAVE ME MONEY IN HIS WILL. HE WAS A MULTI MILLIONAIRE. HE WAS AFRAID HIS FAMILY WOULD CONTEST THE WILL WHERE HE LEFT ME ANYTHING! YEP! Told me so after THIRTY years with me!
TESSA: I had to finally get in touch with you and tell you how I feel because it has been bothering me for a long time to see these ads that you keep leaving on Craig list. They leave a bad taste in my mouth. I am a 21 year old model. I intend to become an actress, and I am in the University right now, obviously well read and versed. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years now, and it was "love at first sight." We went through many problems and I stuck through it with him, virginity and respect intact.
We are now very happy together. No one should be made to think that there should be no love in this world. That they should give up their future happiness for "a cause", no matter how worthy. It does not impress me that you are an astrologer to the stars because they are celebrities, though I do congratulate you on your success. Basically what I am saying is that you should think twice before spouting all of this nonsense. There are many gullible girls out there that can believe it, and what it seems to me that you are running is a sort of "meat factory," no matter what the profits are going towards. Educate yourself thoroughly before you try to educate others. Sincerely, Teresa C.
SWEETIE, YOU have just given away 7 YEARS, YOUR MOST GORGEOUS BEAUTY YEARS to a guy? ARE YOU SURE YOU ARE NOT MAKING EXACTLY MY MISTAKE? My first hubby was foreign, had no shared head trip with me, he had me in MEXICO, none of my relatives there, I was an L.A> gal, he beat me up, by the end of 7 wasted yrs, he wanted to steal my four kids. I fled back to USA. Then I meet a screenwriter who STOLE 30 years of my time.
Hereís what kills me. I WAS wwaaaay SMART, a straight A student. It took straight Aís to go to UCLA. There, they tested l0 thousand freshmen all day every day for a week, then picked 30 kids and told us we were geniuses. They gave us stack passes, vocational counseling and asked me to leave THEATRE ARTS and go into sciences. So SMARTIE HERE goes and leads a super dumb life! It occurs to me that maybe LESS smart girls will do worse. Two guys and there goes my life! I Am an ex love addict and the perfect fool to start LOVEAHOLICS ANONYMOUS groups across the planet and teach you gals how to do it better, warn you of the laws of nature, the rules, and what is more, you can make a supremely good living and save WOMEN from their dumb concepts about who gets their LOVE. And in so doing, change the fate of the planet. Certainly Switch the money from the haves to the have nots. Get some cash into play for the LOWER TIERS.
LISTEN, KarlMARX failed. ENGELS failed. LENIN failed. STALIN AND MAO REALLLY FAILED. Who is gonna save this planet from the oligarch billionaires who are turning ALL OF US into slaves? BEAUTIFUL GIRLS CAN!