THE BASIC RULES for GETTING LUCKY IN LOVE.
By Anita Sands at http://www.luckinlove.com
I. STUDY. Read the great BOOKS (huge list in this live link, clickable URL) reading on every subject but also on subject of man/woman & LOVE. “GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT” series by H. HENDRIX. Read “THE RULES and read “GETTING TO I DO by Dr. Pat Allen and if in L.A., go to her l00 people a nite groups. (She answers an office fone in Century City so call 411 in the 310 area code and the secretary will tell you where group is. It used to be Beverly Drive corner of Pico BLVD. It's 5$ and two hours long. You bring a question written down on paper, put it in basket, it gets answered that very meeting. She teaches you to weed out the no-marry guys and just date marry guys. YOU NEED THIS, the eyesight to see! )
II. TEACH: Start your own PAT ALLEN type group in your town. (click on live link, see how)
III. TEST! You attract (thank Gawd) a lot of guys at reg intervals. You want this to continue. BUT NOW you want to start weeding out schleppers and having a criteria for doing so.
TEST THE FELLOW TO SEE IF HE IS:
1.) STUPID. This is the big one. Test him asking “Why is oil so high priced? Why did they take out Saddam? Why did they take out NORIEGA? Why did they take out JFK? Why didn’t they take out Pinochet?
2.) CHEAP – This you see immediately, run the TIRE test. “OH jeez, is this tire safe looking?” If he sees it has lost tread and doesn’t drive you to Sears, he’s cheap!
3.) ABUSIVE- Gals, we never get to see this in the first few yrs. So ..you have to ask old GF’s.
4.) CONDESCENDING, ego maniacal, thinks your interest in ABSTRUSE themes like PINOCHET is pathetic, child- like, hopeless. He makes an amused little laugh when you ask about these subjects of converse.
5.) LIAR, CHEATER- Your sixth sense lets you know about these two. And it’s always right!
6.) DRUNKARD/DOPER Not just hard liquor but a few of them in a row!
IV. HOLD BACK, DO NOT GIVE UP YOUR SOUL TO an UNKNOWN TERRITORY MALE! Give tiny bits. YOU ARE NOT FEEDING DUCKS! THIS BIRDSEED is YOUR LIFE! With your current sweetie, or any favored male, you are avail only 50% of the time that he calls -- to claim as his own. NO MORE than FIFTY. That means create a full life and when he calls quite often he'll find you busy. You do not break appts for him. NOR do you break appointments WITH HIM. But you don’t set appts. up all the time. THAT creates (in him) interest, respect, attentiveness, focus. MEN are different from women. THEY FOCUS on what's hard to get. WOMEN see competition, they tend to shy away. MEN DO NOT. If they see a dozen guys in a feeding frenzy for your TIME, they suddenly get VETTTTY interested in you. That's why Dr. Pat says date three men, not one. Never let any man cut you out of the herd!
V. DIET LIKE YOUR LIFE COUNTED ON IT! Your life has to be a full time diet because LARD is in the atmosphere and you’re breathing it full time. ALL The other girls on diets are sending calories out. YOU pick up a few thousand daily. YOUR LIFE is protein and greens and orange foods.NOTHING MORE. ALL THE REST is sin. MAYBE a half cup plain yogurt from healthfood store, the kind that has four cultures, not supermarket w. only one culture. With raw honey. Maybe two dried apricot halves. MAYBE a prune. OCCASIONALLY. But sugar, fat are off your diet cuz you must get married before you inhale too much of the AIR BORN LARD in our atmosphere which nobody eats…..but we all get FAT OFF!
To stay thin, drink herb tea, hot green tea, black tea or brown tea all day long. REAL TEA makes minerals leave the body in floods, that fill the ocean but you can do it until you nail a man without too severe osteoporosis. Then you switch to black coffee, less of a diuretic. TEA drinking keeps belly from grumbling.