THE CASE OF THE DESPOTIC
HUSBAND
The
woman who lives in fear of a strong, irritable man who expresses
his anger frequently, and cannot break out of her fear, is living in a kind of
third world country with an alpha male and learned to be a COOLIE to keep the
BOSS from yelling or punching her. Imagine for the sake of argument, that she’s
a harem bride in NIGERIA or ASIA. Her fathers have sold her virginity to the
highest bidder and she’s up shit canal without a paddle, now! There’s no going
back home to daddy in countries where virginity is equivalent to a female’s entire
value.
In the Western world, other thoughts keep this woman helpless. If
there are children, our unhappy bride is perhaps afraid that she couldn’t
support the family without him. She may on an unconscious level, sense that
he’s the kind of potentially VERY VIOLENT man who --- when a woman departs with
his kids,-- does an OJ and shoots her or worse, shoots the kids! We have
so many in the news lately. The woman starts divorce proceedings, he shoots her
dead in a street outside her office where she’s already working to pay for half
their life.
Another mistake a fleeing
woman might do would be using her own social security number to work. They
would find her easily. If you run with children, you must be prepared to clean
houses the rest of your life, no social security at all. You have gone
underground, for thel8 years it takes to raise them.
SO running is not an option. You must file charges, have photos of bruises, witnesses and throw yourself on the mercy of the court. Too often, courts can do nothing. The woman gets shot anyway. OJ and Blake got away with those murders, too.
So what we see is that the brutalized woman did not know what he
was before she married him. And too late, she finds that her hubby is a little
undeveloped in the spiritual way of things. He’s the way men have been for
thousands of years. Millions of years maybe. It was burnt into his genes by
his ancestors, and into his brain by growing up with the father HE had and into
his flesh by the hormone testosterone raging around his adrenals.
If he’s a yeller, screamer, insecure, jealous, pushing his nose
into his wife’s email, he’s fearful another man might EMAIL her. (Why the very
word makes them see red. GAD ferbid she should get a friendly E-MALE!) In this snoopy hubby
case HOWEVER, this unsteady character loves her in his twisted, primitive
atavistic fashion. Though his children’s genes are polluted with an ancestry of
rage, the mother’s kind way might stand in their memory as a kind of example of
pushing the dust under the rug.
Some might survive with their father’s manners in their memory
and NEVER have and manners themselves. If there are sons, some might grow up to
give dad a piece of their mind. They might end up making perfectly fine
husbands themselves out of horror at what a man did to Mom. There is a karma
here. The sons born to such a father probably had a soul life earlier where
they were beefy testosterone casualties themselves so watching a man wipe up a
floor with Mom is their karmic payment.
We can’t know. Remember the law, it’s perfect. Trust that fact.
It’s part of the plan, the genetic evolution of a gadzillion soul coil, a braid
of life. And when the alpha males blow up this solar system, this soul-coil
will move across black space and find another LIFE cluster out at
Beta-Sagittarrii-29 and embed itself in life there.
Maybe in that cosmos the WOMEN will beat up the men. Well it
sure could be the case if God has a sense of humor. And She must!
But that brings us back to what you can do if you are
continually brutalized. First, take photos of every bruise. Take a pawn shop 35
mm camera to your gal pal the next day when bruises are really ugly, have her photo
you in bright sunlight! Body shots, whatever. All these photos must be kept at
gal pal’s house. GAD FORBID the FIST finds them!
NEXT, study. Prepare for your disappearance from his life. DOWNLOAD
MAVIS BEACON typing software, free online. Google up that name Plus FREE. After
you can touch type l00 words per minute, take a semester of LEGAL SECRETARY
courses.
That is a 25$ an hour job and you will be surrounded by friendly
lawyers for life. You can fight the bastard and never pay a cent! He will never
have enough money to beat you and your legal staff. You will have a DREAM TEAM.
You must get the legal right to have full custody with supervised visits for him, because of his violence.
YOU NEED much evidence to pull off the categorizing him as a violent man.
When you have the job, you save all salaries until you have the
3 thousand dollars it will take to move, rent a flat, moving trucks. I used
U-Hauil, 19$ a day. I rented it all week long, made 2 trips a day, full. Using
park homeless guys. Sat/Sun they wanted more money for truck, so I didn’t move
on weekend. 500$ salaries for the men and 100$ for the truck, but mind you, I
moved every plant, tree, stone and all the soil in the garden in barrels. I
could have done the furniture in one day.