SOME REASONS WHY IT IS A GOOD IDEA TO HAVE NON-MONOGAMOUS SEX
1. What if you "save yourself until you are married" and you find on your wedding night that your spouse's idea of sex is to lie on their back for five minutes then fall asleep? Do you want to live with this for the rest of your life?
2. What if you "save yourself until you are married" and you find out on your wedding night that your spouse wants to have oral sex and you do not?
3. What if you "save yourself until you are married" and you find out on your wedding night that your spouse does not want to have oral sex and you do?
4. What if you decide to "save yourself until you are married", then wake up one day and find you are not married? Then what? Do you spend the rest of your life masturbating?
5. Because sex is the ultimate democratic experience. You may find that the "nerds" and "geeks" are a heck of a lot better in bed than the cool kids.
6. Because sex is the ultimate democratic experience. You may find that the cool kids are a heck of a lot worse in bed than the "nerds" and "geeks".
7. Because you need to learn how to sleep in the same bed with other people and share their bathrooms (takes experience).
8. Because there is a heck of a lot of difference between real sex and masturbation and the sooner you find out about it, the better.
9. Because you may actually learn some new sexual techniques.
10. Because sex is a mind expanding experience.
11. Because sex will energize you.
12. Because non-monogomous sex will cheese off rightwing puritans, leftwing femi-nazis, and university bureaucrats. This alone is worth paying black market prices for.
13. Because sex creates a world of its own.
14. Because sexual repression induces hysteria and a lot of other problems.
15. Because you will find out what they have been lying to you about.
16. Because you may die tomorrow and you might as well see what it is all about.
17. Because prolonged periods of abstinence may lead to impotence in men and disfunction in women.
18. Because you may lose your looks next year and you'll never get another chance.
19. Because the people you are sexually rejecting today will be the ones who will reject you in ten years when you may need them.
20. Because there are many social skills required when it comes to sex, and the only way to learn them is via direct experience.
21. Because you want to make all the mistakes (and learn from them!) prior to meeting Mr/Ms Rite.
22. Supposing you "save yourself" and one day your dreams come true and you meet Mr/Ms Rite--do you have any idea how to get them into bed? Hint: it's not like in the movies or the "relationship" advice books.
SOME OTHER RELATED SITES
"...she had grasped the inner meaning of the Party's sexual puritanism. It was not merely that the sex instinct created a world of its own which was outside the Party's control and which therefore had to be destroyed if possible. What was more important was that sexual privation induced hysteria, which was desirable because it could be transformed into war fever..." --George Orwell, in Nineteen Eighty-Four.
IF IT IS WRONG TO PRESSURE PEOPLE INTO HAVING SEX, THEN IS IT WRONG TO PRESSURE PEOPLE INTO COMMITMENT?
