games women play

"Liberation grows out of the realization that the most potent weapon in the hands of the oppressor is the mind of the oppressed" -- Stephen Biko

I designed this website for several reasons. Chief of these is what I have heard from men over the years: "Why didn't someone tell me that is the way women really act?" or "How come the same women who talk about 'commitment' stand me up?", or "Why does the same woman who talks 'liberation' still sees sex as something to be bartered for marriage?"

Some answers follow.

The information on this website has been painfully constructed from the experiences of many men, and the input of some women. It does not necessarily reflect the behavior of many or even the majority of women. Also, please note there is no information here on "games men play." The reason is simple, really: men's games have long since been criminalized under the rubrics of "sexual harassment" and "date rape," consequently there is no need for such a page here.

So who is this site intended for? Men, mainly, men who are dating, or are planning to date. But also for women who want to treat men decently and might thereby learn something about the abuse they consciously or unconsciously inflict upon men

So with all this in mind, let's take a look at the Games Women Play.


  • the games
  • what does she want?
  • some advice for the man who is trying to date...
  • female types
  • useful links