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Six Steps to Forgiveness
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Six Steps to Forgiveness
From Four Generations of Life Experience,
by Eve Adam, a.k.a. Harmonic Eve 

 

To Forgive Yourself:
ONE: Recognize that you did the best
you knew how to do in the circumstances
in which you found yourself.

TWO: Recognize that you are the one
holding on to the guilt; God has already
forgiven you.
 
THREE: Release the past and live in
the present.
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To Forgive Others:

ONE: Recognize that they did the best
they knew how to do in their state of mind
at the time.

TWO: Recognize that when you refuse
to forgive, you are hurting yourself more
than you are hurting the ones
who wronged you.

THREE: Release the others to the
natural consequences of their acts
and at the same time free yourself
to create a better present.
by Eve Adam, a.k.a. Harmonic Eve
     August 15, 2001
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I started learning the lesson of forgiveness as a
young child.  Around the time of my birth, my
father left my mother and me. One person after
another disappeared from my life, including my
mother, off and on, over the years. Now I am the
oldest living person in a family of ten cousins on
my mother's side, and other cousins on my father's
side. I have observed many family situations in
which forgiveness is necessary.  In addition, I have
learned of many other situations requiring
forgiveness, starting with my grandmother who
was an orphan by the age of nine, and continuing
through my own present days.  These six steps
work if we allow them to work.  Briefly stated,
they are recognize, recognize, release; and
again, recognize, recognize, and release.
 
Offering forgiveness does NOT mean
continuing to place ourselves in the
path of receiving injury.
     Eve Adam, a.k.a. Harmonic Eve
     September 11, 2006
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