God’s great grace, His magnificent mercy, and His powerful peace are yours, now and always, from God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit.

Amen.

 

In Christ Jesus:

 

God’s particular Word to us this morning…

            as contained in the Second Scripture reading from Romans, chapter 8…
                  doesn’t have much to say to us---most of the time---does it? 

 

For the most part,

Life is good. 

Life is fine.

Life is normal.

 

We go along from day to day, being taken care of by a good and gracious God, with only minor problems coming our way. 

 

And then…

             

 Wham…something happens to us…and suddenly we find ourselves in such a desperate and scary situation that we don’t know what to say. 

And, even when we try praying about it to God, we don’t know what to pray.

 

            Your spouse came home one day and told you that he or she had found someone else and that your marriage was all over. 

And the news hit you in the stomach like a ton of bricks…and you didn’t know what to say.

            And later on---when you turned to God for help--- you didn’t even know what to pray.

 

The doctor called you into his office and told you that the test results confirmed his diagnosis that the pain in your body is CANCER. 

And the news hit you in the stomach like a ton of bricks and you didn’t what to say.  

And later on---when you turned to God for help---you didn’t even know what to pray.

 

You received that dreaded phone call to tell you that a closed friend or loved one had unexpectedly died. 

And the news hit you in the stomach like a ton of bricks and you didn’t know what to say. 

And later on—when you turned to God for help--you didn’t even know what to pray!

 

You were awakened in the middle of the night to learn that your teenage son or daughter was being held down at the police station. 

And the news hit you in the stomach like a ton of bricks and you didn’t know what to say.

And later on---when you turned to God for help---you didn’t even know what to pray!

 

All the pious words…

all the remembered Bible passages…

all the spiritual thoughts did not help you, and you found yourself

walking down there in the valley of fear

walking down there in the valley of uncertainty

walking down there in the valley of pain

walking down there in the valley of frustration

walking down there even in the valley of the shadow of death. 

 

YOU DIDN’T KNOW WHAT TO SAY--- AND WORSE

YOU DIDN’T KNOW EVEN WHAT TO PRAY!

 

Many of us have been there.  I KNOW I HAVE! 

I have had things happen to me in my life, which, at the time, hit me in the stomach like a ton of bricks, and I didn’t know what to say—and when I turned to God for help--- I didn’t even know what to pray.

 

 I know that many of you have experienced that same

pain and uncertainty and fear…. and you know what I am talking about.   

 

And let me also be as honest with you as I can:

 

If you haven’t been there yet, you will be!  You will be! 

And not necessarily because of anything you have said or done--- or through no fault of your own.  It will happen to you because that’s life!

 

You will find yourself saying with the writer of Psalm 77, who shares his anguish with us when he writes:

 

“I cry to the Lord; I call and call to Him. Oh, that He would listen.  I am in deep trouble and I need His help so much. All night long I pray, lifting my hands to heaven, pleading. There can be no joy for me until He acts.  I think of God and moan, overwhelmed with longing for His help. You have kept my eyes from closing. I am too distressed even to pray!

 

Has the Lord rejected me forever?

Will He never again be favorable?

Is His loving-kindness gone forever?

Has His promise failed?

Has He forgotten to be kind to one so undeserving?

Has He slammed the door in anger on His love?”

 

Sound familiar?  Sure it does!

 

There are a lot of us Christians who can relate to Psalm 77. 

Most of us, at some point in our lives, will find ourselves in situations just like this.  And there are days and nights so tough that only a Psalm like this will offer any relief.  And part of that relief is the realization that we are not alone in our feeling… that someone else on this planet feels just like we do!

 

Now, let’s look at what this writer is saying and what we often feel:

 

·        His soul refuses to be comforted.  It doesn’t get any tougher than this!

 

 

Have you ever been there?  Sure you have! And so have I!

 

            Then he begins to think some wild thoughts.  Thoughts like:

 

Have you ever thought that…

Have you ever felt that?

Have you ever said that?

           

            Sure you have!  And so have I!

 

I have had people say to me…

I have had members of our congregation say to me…

I have had some of you say to me:

 “Pastor,

I don’t know what to pray for, anymore.  

I don’t know what words to say, anymore!   

I don’t know if God if even hearing my prayers, anymore. 
            I don’t know if God is even listening to me, anymore! 

 

They, and you, and me, were walking down there in the valley of fear!

They, and you, and me, were walking down there in the valley of uncertainty!

They, and you, and me, were walking down there in the valley of faith
             frustration!
                

What was happening in their lives, and your life, and my life was hitting us like a ton of bricks and they, and we, didn’t know what to pray anymore!

 

            And

I shared with them, and

I share with you, and

I shared with myself these words of Romans 8: 

“The Holy Spirit comes to help us, weak as we are.  For when we do not know how we ought to pray, the Spirit Himself pleads with God for us in groans that words cannot express.”

 

Today’s word from St. Paul is for those of us

who don’t know what to pray sometimes…

who find ourselves down there in the valleys of life----

who GROAN, as it were---even in our prayers-- because of what is happening
             to us.

 

Listen again to what Paul reminds us this morning:

      22We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. 23Not only so, but we ourselves, who have the first fruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for our adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies.”… And then this….”the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For when we do not know what we ought to pray for, the Spirit Himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express. 27And He who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints in accordance with God's will.

 

            3 times in this section of God’s Word Paul uses the word “GROAN.” 

“The whole creation groans…”

“We ourselves groan…”   And even

“The Holy Spirit of God intercedes with God for us in groans.”

 

            Why all this “groaning”?

 Because …

            We live in a fallen and sinful world! 

            We are a fallen people and fallen individuals, and, as such,

            We experience the pain of living life that is distorted by sin.

 

            And even we, Paul reminds us,

Even we, who are redeemed in Jesus Christ…

Even we, who have been adopted by God as His children through Jesus

 Christ…

Even we, who have the Holy Spirit dwelling within us because of Jesus Christ,

 we too, sometimes, groan as we wait for our redemption to be

 complete!

 

It is for people, like us, who groan inwardly when life’s problems and
             complications and pain become so great, that Paul has written these
             words.

It is for people like us…God’s people….God’s faithful people…God’s often-
         times strong people…who sometimes, because of what is happening
            in our lives don’t even have the words to pray anymore…that Paul

            shares these words with us.

It is for people, like us, who can only groan because of what is happening to
             us…that these words are so important for us.

 

And today St. Paul wants us to know that God hears not just our prayers, but he hears even our “groans”. 

 

            Listen again:

            “For when we do not know how we ought to pray; the Spirit Himself pleads with God for us in groans that words cannot express.”

 

This is great news!

This is marvelous news!

This is wonderful news beyond our expectations! 

 

When our faith is tested…

When the pain in our life dulls our understanding of what is happening to us….

When we do not know how to pray anymore or when we do not know what to
            pray for anymore…  

THEN THE SPIRIT OF GOD INTERCEDES WITH GOD ON OUR BEHALF! 

 

Imagine that! 

The Holy Spirit of God

takes our thoughts…

takes our prayers…

takes even our “groans” before the throne of Almighty God on our behalf! 

 

What this is saying to you and me is that God searches our hearts in those times and those moments when we are unable even to put our prayers into words.  

 

When we can’t find the words to pray, even our groans are
heard by God and

understood by God and

answered by God.

 

Do you realize and understand what is being said here?
Almighty God knows you!

            He has not forsaken you, no matter how tough or scary things become. 

            He has not closed His eyes or ears to you. 

            He is not unaware or unconcerned about your pain or your problems.

 

Just

think about that and

remember that and

marvel as a result of that, -------and then

        thank God because of that.

 

 From the very beginning of your life to the very end, God

knows you intimately and

loves you dearly, and

cares for you greatly!

 

From the womb to the tomb,

from the cradle to the grave,

from embryo in Your mother’s body to the dust and the ashes of the earth---

         during this time and far into eternity---

             God knows you and

             God loves you and

             God cares about you!

 

            Over and over we have affirmed the truth of God’s Word which says that God---because of Jesus---does care about each of us and all of us. 

 

Time and time again we are reminded…

from this pulpit or

in a Bible Study classroom or

at a hospital bedside
            that God is not far away…

that God is not removed…

that God is not distant… but right there with you wherever you are and
                          wherever you go!

 

Our God knows us in our greatness need and in our greatest weakness.       Our God knows us when we are at our wit’s end and don’t know how or what
           
 to pray.  
Our God knows us when we are down in the pits and deep holes of life.

 

And when that happens, the Spirit Himself pleads with God for US in groans that words cannot express.

 

            God knows when we are facing a difficult decision and we don’t know how or what to pray.  And when that happens, the Spirit Himself pleads with God for you in groans that words cannot express.

 

            God knows when we are scared stiff waiting in the doctor’s office for the test results and you don’t know what to pray.  And when that happens, the Spirit Himself pleads with God for you in groans that words cannot express. 

 

God knows our fears when terminal illness and death comes to us or to those we love.  And when that happens, the Spirit Himself pleads with God for us in groans that words cannot express.

 

            God hears all our prayers.  And more.  God hears even the groans when we don’t know what to pray or how to pray.

 

            Oh…how I need to remember that!  And so do you.

God hears even the groans when we don’t know what to pray or how to pray.

 

 

PLEASE, never forget that.

 

                                                                        Amen.