Marge's Status - 02/04

Thanks for all notes of concern, prayers and well wishes.  We've appreciated all the notes of support and I'm trying to respond when I have the time. 

The reason for these pages is because so many have called or sent email messages asking Marge's condition.  I decided the easiest way to keep most informed was to set up a web page.   Please bookmark this page and feel free to share it with others that you think might be interested.

As the information has grown it was taking too long to load on some computers so I've separated it into each of the months.  The most current page will always be the "marge1.htm".

George & Marge


Thu. - Sun. - 2/26/04- 2/29/04

Not too much to report.  Marge had a few days when she didn't feel well and just took it easy.  She also took a step backwards on the oxygen and is back to being able to go without it for only 4-5 hours.

Sun. - Wed. - 2/22/04- 2/25/04

Several good things to report.  Marge is regaining the muscle tone in her legs and is able to stand for longer periods.  And although still not able to drive, picked up a few things at the grocery store while I cruised the parking lot.  Also, for the first time she was also able to go without oxygen for about 8 hours.

More good news from her visit with her chemo doctor.  He's really pleased with her progress and although some items in her latest blood test were low, he was not concerned or felt they were low enough to require a transfusion.  He also increased her meds that help her swallow. He also will be scheduling another virtual CT scan the first week in April.

Food wise she's still eating small meals every couple of hours.  One good sign to me is that she now can snack on pretzels and cream cheese like she used to.  No new favorites.

Fri. - Sat. - 2/20/04- 2/21/04

Not much to report but some good news.  Marge is regaining the muscle tone in her legs and is able to stand for longer periods.  Also, for the first time she was also able to go without oxygen for 4 hours.

Wed. - Thu. - 2/18/04- 2/19/04

Not much to report.  Marge was feeling better so is back to trying to sew and quilt a couple hours each day.  Took her to the lab for her weekly CBC.  She was also feeling well enough that one day we went out for brunch and then she and her friend Kathy went looking for fabrics for quilts.

Sun. - Tue. - 2/15/04- 2/17/04

Not too much to report.  Marge continued to experience muscle an joint stiffness that slowed her down a little and had a couple days when she experienced shortness of breath.  She did do a little happy dancing because she finally finished the quilt that's been on the machine since late November. 

Nothing much on the food front.  Marge is now really into tomatoes and anything the goes with Philadelphia cream cheese.

Fri. - Sat. 2/13/04- 2/14/04

Not too much to report.  Like previous days after chemo treatment, Marge experienced some stiffness and relaxed except for our Saturday morning Farmers Market and grocery store outing.  We try and go early in the morning between 8 & 9 to avoid a lot of people and exposing Marge to possible bugs.

The grocery run was also the first time Marge had been out in the early morning since she had all her hair cut off.  And while 40 degrees is not cold to the folks that live in the snow country, it's cool to those that live in So. California and Marge was very thankful for the warm hats that had been sent to go with her new hair style (see Marge's hats).

We received a package from Carol McAdow that really made us laugh. Because of my frequent comments about watermelons, Carol sent Marge some fabric with watermelons on it.    

On the food front, Marge is going into withdrawal because it appears the watermelons are finally going out of season.  There are very few to be found at the store and the last two were not very good.  Good thing her appetite was leaning toward tomatoes because the local Farmers Market usually has some that have good flavor.

Tue. - Thu. 2/10/04- 2/12/04

A few things to report.  Marge continues to slowly regain her strength. She's just about to finish quilting a quilt that's been on the machine since late November.  Normally this one would have only taken her a day or two to finish.

Lana (Cranberry Quiltworks) and Pam Clarke visited and the gals went to lunch and what else, visited a quilt shop looking for fabric.

On Wednesday we went to the lab to leave blood for her weekly CBC and on Thursday Marge had her second chemo treatment.  She also received her weekly Procrit injection and they seem to be working because nothing was said about additional transfusions.  The chemo treatment only lasted about three hours because they didn't have to worry about allergic reactions like the first time.  But they gave her some good stuff and she slept through most of the treatment and on the way home.

Nothing new to report on the food front.  She still has trouble swallowing some foods so we're still eating several smaller meals per day (about every 2-3 hours) of the foods she can eat without difficulty.

Sun. - Mon. 2/08/04- 2/09/04

Not much to report.  Marge continues to slowly regain her strength. She still has trouble with some simple tasks with her hands that are often taken for granted -- like being able to close Ziploc freezer bags or threading a needle.  She is also trying to get back to the rhythm of the quilting machine and tries to spend a couple of hours on it each day.  Standing for any length of time is still a problem but the stool at the quilting machine is helping.

On the food front, she still has trouble swallowing some foods.  She commented that she would just love a steak but knows she would have trouble with eating one right now.

Fri. - Sat. 2/06/04- 2/07/04

Not much to report.  On Friday we visited her best friend for about 6 hours and it might have been a little long because Saturday she rested most of the day.  She's now starting to loose her hair and will soon be using the many hats and caps that friends and relatives have sent.

We've might have had a switch in favorite foods.  Although watermelon still is high on the list, tomatoes are taking over as the late night and early morning favorites.

Tue. thru Thu. 2/03/04- 2/05/04

Several things to report.  Earlier in the week Marge complained of feeling cold and short of breath.  the next day we received a call with the results of the latest CBC.  They said she'd have to start receiving weekly shots to increase her hemocrit -- increase iron to carry oxygen, stimulate creation of red blood cells.  So we went to the clinic and learned how/where to give the shots at home.  The weeks she receives chemo treatments they will give her the shot in the clinic.  If the shots don't do as they're supposed to, then she will also have to have additional transfusions of packed red blood cells.

Because of my mother's weakening condition we also discussed with doctor the possibility of a short trip to New Mexico.  First of all, the above ruled out the possibility of any trips.  But if not for this, flying was also out because it would subject Marge to crowds and the confined aircraft here she could easily pick up a bug with her weakened immune system.  Driving there was also discussed and the oxygen situation then became the problem.  Of course the primary concern would be for a good medical facility should she have any problems.

She continues to strengthen her hand and arm muscles working on sewing and crochet projects.  She's also trying to strengthen her leg muscles by standing and using the quilting machine about an hour each day.

The appetite enhancer seems to be working and she's put back on some of the weight she lost in the last few months.  Her favorite description of the added weight is that "now her skin fits again".

Sun. 2/01/04 & Mon. 2/02/04

Nothing much to report.  Marge continues to regain her strength a little each day can go without oxygen for a couple of hours.  To strengthen her hand and arm muscles she continues to work on sewing projects and started to crochet again.  She was able to stand and use the quilting machine for about 40 minutes before her legs gave out.  We're going to try using a chair to see if that helps.

She's continuing to regain her taste buds but still has to eat every couple of hours because she still can't eat large portions.