Eugene Singer ( 1921 - )
Elizabeth Wooster ( 1921 - )
My life has been full and satisfying, but I'll cover only the early years up to World War II. The war was at the midpoint in this century, and significantly it separated the two halves into profoundly different economic and social periods. On one side there was the Great Depression, a period of economic distress when jobs and money were scarce, with social programs virtually non-existant in an atmosphere of high family values. The contrast after the war was almost immediate: a period of sustained economic growth with high wages amid a gaggle of social programs. This was in an atmosphere of the disintegration of the family and a pervasive cynical attitude, reaching its peak in the 1960s from which there has been little recovery.
This perspective is shared by most of my generation, and scorned by post war generations. But I'll tell my story, anyway.
I was born at home, in the upstairs main bedroom in the house located at 1811
Eighth Street, Niagara Falls NY. The house, a brick side-by-side duplex is still there. It was a pleasant early childhood for me. There were few toys; our play was mostly improvised from whatever was available. The women of the family, mom and
Mildred, fussed over me; my father mostly ignored me while my older brother John
harassed and teased me all the time. Looking back, I can see how the effect of
these relational attitudes carried forward all my life.
The high point of this period for me was my first tricycle on my 4th birthday. It had a little bell, and I really felt I had become one of the big kids now. It wasn't all perfect, however. That same year I got a brand new winter coat. A few days later I tried to walk the curb alongside some street construction and fell spreadeagled into the wet cement. I was an adult with kids of my own before I really understood my mom's reaction to that.
The great depression came in the late 20s. Work, and therefore money became scarce. We had to move, and lived for a few months progressively with all available relatives in Niagara Falls. It seems I was lucky to spend one complete year in a school. Finally, when I was eight we went to Detroit to live a while with Uncle Jim (James Singer). My father got a short term job with Burroughs while I did the first half of third grade.
There was a job prospect in Cleveland, so we moved again, this time to live with Mildred and her new husband, Ben (Benjamin Foels). This was hog-heaven for my niece, Doris and I. Ben was manager of an ice cream plant, and it was all-you-can-eat time for us! Every night he'd bring home an ice cream cake or something equally exotic. I developed a love for ice cream I never outgrew.
My father got a job with the New York Central railroad as a section hand. It was hard work, and he was now about 55 years old. I recall how he'd get up at 5 AM in order to catch the particular streetcar sequence for the two-hour ride to East Cleveland. Then two hours back at night. But it was a job, and this was the depth of the depression. We lived sparingly under the management of my mother. I have vivid memories of men in battered clothes knocking at our back door asking for food in exchange for any odd job. My mother somehow always managed to fill a plate with something hot for them. I'll always remember sitting on the steps of our back porch talking with these men while they ate.
As the third grade neared its end, an event occurred that profoundly impacted my life. One day, a couple of people from the Cleveland Board of Education came to the house. They explained to my mom that they were starting a program for selected fourth graders of demonstrated potential. It would be called the "Major Work Class." It seems they had observed and tested all the third graders in the district (I never had a clue any of this was happening) and I was selected on the basis of my I.Q. of 132, and would she be willing to have me in that class?
It meant a new school for me, and well worth the mile walk both directions. The
first day I found we'd all be in one room. It was like an old country school; there were thirty six of us, six in each of the next six grades. I was in 4-B, the youngest group, meaning I would be in that room with the same teacher, Miss Snook for the next three years. It was the most intellectually stimulating experience of my life, as our small class was smothered in exposures to new opportunities. We had our homeroom teacher, of course, but every week a phalanx of special teachers from downtown came to us. We learned French, we had an art teacher, a music teacher and even a teacher who taught us tap dancing. People with special talents would show up. I remember one time a real Indian came and made a beautiful sand painting on the floor of our room; another time Irene Tedrow, the stage actress came and did some funny monologues. Other times a teacher would come with a bus and we'd all go off to hear the Cleveland symphony, or a music or dance recital, or to see a Cleveland Indians baseball game, or it would be a trip to one of the museums downtown. Once it was a trip to hear an opera. But it wasn't all culture; there were the usual scrapes and bruises, and, of course, the requisite number of hours spent on that lonely chair in the hall outside the Principal's office. Her name was Miss Money; I always thought she was rich. Our major work group stayed together through high school.
About 1937, my mother and father divorced. It was an unhappy time as we struggled through the depression. I suspect the problem was worry over money
compounded by his drinking. Not unusual, even today.
My mother remarried soon thereafter to Jesse Robinson. He was a good man who was extremely good to her and for her. She deserved him. They lived a calm and contented life for about ten years to his death from cancer only a few months after he
retired.
After the war, Cyrus Singer also remarried. He was nearly seventy by then, and his marriage to Hazel Leahy was good.
Finishing up high school, I resolved to organize my own life. I was under pressure to "get a job at the mill". I couldn't blame my parents. It was the late thirties, and coming off the terrible depression years the work ethic was strong in everyone's lives. But college had been my goal for quite some time. By now I knew I had to go off on my own rather than living at home. I had a small job at the library since sophomore year and had saved every cent I earned. I graduated in February and continued at the library until September. So it was that I left Cleveland for good, and entered the University of Michigan in 1939.
For the future, it's in the hands of our children:
Teresa Singer 1942- m. Alan Boulton
David Singer 1947- m. Kathleen Edwards
Lawrence Singer 1950-
Alexandra Singer 1952- m. Hervey Brown
And our six grandchildren:
Teresa (Tracy) has two children:
Adrienne Boulton b. 1962
Craig Boulton b. 1963
David has two children:
Jeffrey Singer b. 1975
Michael Singer b. 1976
Alexandra has two children:
Gregory Brown b. 1982
Patrick Brown b. 1986
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FOOTNOTES
[1] Click here to return to text.New York Historical Society for 1891,
(Vol. 24, page 290).
[2] Click here to return to text. Genealogical Publishing Company, "Records of
the Reformed Dutch Church of Albany, New York, 1683-1809," Excerpts from year
books of the Holland Society of New York. Pages 5, 52, 49, 69, and 28.
[3] Click here to return to text.Since John Singer took up land in Pownal in
the early 1760s, his deed was surely recorded in Albany, New York.
[4] Click here to return to text."Documentary History of New York" ,Volume
XIV, O'Callaghan, Dated New York, 18 December 1765.
[5] Click here to return to text. This name appears regularly in proceeding
such as this. Robinson, in short, seems to have been the "hatchetman" for the
absentee New Hampshire crowd.
[6] Click here to return to text."State Papers of Vermont," Volume 8, General
Petitions, 1778-1787, pages 5 and 67.
[7] Click here to return to text."Rolls of the Soldiers in The Revolutionary
War," State of Vermont, 1904
[8] Click here to return to text."Massachusetts Soldiers and Sailors in the
Revolutionary War," A compilation from State archives, prepared and published
by the Secretary of the Commonwealth of Massachusetts, 1906, page 263.
[9] Click here to return to text."Rolls of the Soldiers in the Revolutionary
War," State of Vermont, page 218.
[10] Click here to return to text.The document title is "Number of men that
joined Lieut. Col. John Peters in the Campaign Commanded by Lieut. General John
Burgoyne and not included in provision or pay abstract. The following men
joined 25th June and left the Corps 22d August 1777."
[11] Click here to return to text.The Bennington Battlefield State
Historical Site is located near N.Y. State Route 22 about five miles northwest
of the City of Bennington. State boundaries established after the war placed
the battlefield in New York about one mile from the border.
[12] Click here to return to text.In 1793, Governor Simcoe renamed the town
Newark upon formation of the first seat of government. Even this name was
eventually discarded.
[13] Click here to return to text.Equally interesting is the plight of the
refugees to be examined, e.g. "a sickly family," "a girl of 16 years unfit for
service," "a distressed sickly family," "infirm" and so on. Refugees from
warfare have faced the same problems the world over and of every age in time.
[14] Click here to return to text.Several researchers have identified this
woman as Nancy Arnold, but the record is clear her name was Nancy Roland. Note both names contain the same six letters.
[15] Click here to return to text.Newsletter of Niagara Peninsula Branch,
Ontario Genealogical Society, St. Catharines, Vol. IV, No. 4, November 8,
1984.
[16] Click here to return to text.The frequent head counts taken of the
refugees was for the purpose of issuing rations, thus determining the amount of
food to be allocated to the regiments and battalions into which the refugees
were organized. Adult males were counted as one ration, adult females and
children were counted as one-half ration. In such a system, infants were not
counted.
[17] Click here to return to text.Inscription on tombstone in Quaker
Cemetery, Pelham.
[18] Click here to return to text."Upper Canada Land Petitions" , Bundle 5,
#109
[19] Click here to return to text.Dawdy, Marion Whitman, "Baptists of
Beamsville 1788-1988," Beamsville Baptist Church, 1988.
[20] Click here to return to text.The inscription, clearly legible,
confirm's John birth year as 1766, stating he "departed this life February 8,
1842. In the 76th year of His age."
[21] Click here to return to text.Carnohan, "Annals of Niagara", page 92,
Beamsville Baptist Cemetery.
[22] Click here to return to text.Clinton Will Book 4318, Will number 683.
[23] Click here to return to text.Town records of Grimsby. Married 22
October 1816 by Robert Nelles, Justice of the Peace.
[24]The "Home farm" was identified in John
Singer's will as Lots 17,18 and 19 of Concession One. This was not the land
that either John or Susannah had received from the Crown as a homestead grant.
The lots of the home farm comprising 300 acres were first granted in 1797 to
Isaac Swayze, and passed from his ownership to others then to John Singer.