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This weblog is my online journal of my life and times as wife of the U.S. Ambassador to the Democratic Republic of Congo. I designed this blog and make entries with my family and friends in mind. 

Saturday, February 23, 2008

3 Months at Post
Yesterday (Feb 22) we passed the 3 month mark.  It seems longer -- but in a good sense.  My biggest concern is French; I see progress but it is much slower than I like.  You know how I love to talk so speaking comfortably in French is important - at least with the Diplomatic Corps and the Government representatives.  My involvement with American community (a big part of my "job") obviously does not require French.  Nevertheless, speaking French fluently is an important goal for me.  I have added one more French class per week and I've joined a "conversational" French group hosted by the president of the International Women's Club.
 
Today I'm going to give you a glimpse of another side of the Ambassador's Wife's "job."  Please note, all of these things are volunteer; the State Department really doesn't "require" anything of the Ambassador's spouse.
 
We've begun planning the 4th of July (our National Day) celebrations for both the Official/Diplomatic and American Communities -- actually, we had our first meeting already in January... I know it seems early but this is a big event and it takes a lot of planning.  The official ceremony & celebration will be held on July 4 in the evening at the Residence.  The American Community celebration will be held on July 5 in the afternoon also at the Residence. 
 
Bill & I want the official ceremony to be so much more than a "reception"; we want it to be a celebration of America and of the US/Congo relationship. We've picked a theme that will be a subtle guide to our planning and activities:  "Diverse but Unified."  The Congo is a large country with many different ethinic & tribal groups similar to the U.S.  We hope to highlight the diversity in the U.S. and emphasize our unity. We plan to do that principally through food, music, & "decorations."  
 
Because some ingredients may have to be ordered from the States, South Africa and/or Europe, we'd selected the menu items all hors d'oeuvres size (put "mini" or "bite-size" in front of every item):  crab cakes, barbeque pork sandwiches, hamburgers, hot dogs (like croissant pig-in-the-blankets), bagels with smoked salmon, Virginia Ham buns, Santa Fe wraps, hushpuppies, pretzel sparklers, chocolate chip cookies, and tarts - key lime, blueberry, cherry, and apple.  We had to leave out a number of ideas because the ingredients were not readily available, too expensive, they weren't right for "thousands" of pieces, and/or the item would not be easily served at a reception. For example, we considered Oyster Po'boys, NY cheesecake, fried cheese curds, Minnesota wild rice, Philly cheese steak sandwiches, and fish tacos.  The committee thinks we've come up with a good representation of "American" foods.  To emphasize our relationship with the Congo, we're going to serve Congo beer (very good) but U.S wines.  We're also planning a "Stars & Stripes" punch (as well as water, of course). 
 
Music is another way we want to show both the diversity of the U.S. and our link with the Congo.  We plan to have an American sing the U.S. National Anthem and a Congolese sing the Congo National Anthem.  In addition, I hope we can put together a Barbership Quartet and/or Sweet Adelines Group for patriotic songs; I pretty sure we can get a Congolese Hip-Hop artist to do both Congolese & American Hip-Hop;  American Jazz has it's roots in Africa (Congo) so Jazz is definitely on the agenda; some Embassy women are considering a Jitter-bug or Rock 'n Roll dance number; and I think we have someone to do some spirituals. 
 
For the "decorations," I hoping (and expect it won't be a problem) to find artists at the American school and among the American community who would like to do small murals or other presentations of U.S. regional points of interest, historical events and.or famous patriots. 
 
We're still in the formative stage of thinking for the American Community celebration of Independence Day.  But, we are planning on including lawn games for the children with prizes, swimming (if we can be assured we have life guards) and a small tennis tournament.  The food will likely be "pot luck" and, I'm sure, feature both U.S. & Congo regional favorites. 
 
Before we get to the 4th of July though, we will celebrate Easter.  The traditional Embassy Easter Egg Hunt and Family Day is scheduled at the Residence on Saturday, March 22.  In Bolivia, I did serve as the Easter Bunny (it was a brown costume in other years worn by a Marine!), but that's not in the cards for the Congo.  I suppose I could try to make Sydney serve as the Easter Dog/Bunny but I think she'd steal all the eggs before the children could find them.
 
Bill has a meeting in Cape Town, South Africa next week with other U.S. Ambassadors to Sub-Saharan African countries.  I'm going along and look forward to not only spending some time with other Ambassadors' spouses (many of whom we met during the confirmation process and in our Ambassadorial Seminar) but also to seeing our "old" friends Terry & Jane and their son Adam.  Terry & Jane moved to South African probably about 20 years ago.  I know we have not seen them in at least 15 years.  It will be a treat -- of course, we all still look exactly the same, I'm sure!
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Saturday, February 16, 2008

2nd Friday Breakfast Saints!
I know I said the previous post was my last for today but I could not end this session without thanking the Washington, DC "2nd Friday Breakfast Group."  With the "leader's" (Susan) encouragement, the group collected $560 for the CongoOrphans project at their meeting on Feb 8.  For those of you who don't know, the 2nd Friday Breakfast Group is an informal networking group that started many years ago (more than 10 for sure). It originally comprised primarily female professionals from the financial sector.  It's base is now much broader and includes women from diverse industries.  Our most heartfelt Thanks to the Women of the 2nd Friday Breakfast Group. This brings our "pledges & paids" to just under $1,600 -- we need $4,000 to do the work.
 
Odile & I ask for your help as well. Please note: this is NOT an Embassy activity; it is a private activity of a few foreign service spouses, foreign service officers and locally hired Embassy staff.   Please help however you can; send your tax deductible donations to:
Jatukik Providence Foundation
314 Duke Street
Alexandria, VA 22314
Please write "La Grace de Dieu" in the memo section of your check.  Please send a scanned copy of the check OR your name, the check #, and the amount to our email CongoOrphans@gmail.com.  You will receive a receipt for tax purposes. 
 
Thank you to Embassy Spouse - Runda - for these photos of Grace De Dieu II (in another part of town but similar to the Masina GDD).  The first is "Learning the Spider Song." 
 
   
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Week of Feb 11, 2008
This was a busy week.  On Tuesday, I visited Hope Clinic with Becky, the Embassy's Self-Help Project director.  I have wonderful photos of the clinic and the newborn babies (at least 12) but I cannot download them from the camera since the cable is in our shipment (expected arrival APRIL).  In the materity ward the mothers & their newborns are two to a bed (i.e., 2 mothers & 2 newborns in a twin size bed).  There was a set of twins and 3 women in labor -- I'm sure they were happy to see me with a camera!  The Embassy Self-Help Fund (or "Ambassador's Fund") donated a generator and additional beds, which will be installed when the addition is completed (in process now).  The Clinic is clean, although somewhat primitive by our standards.  The pictures will speak for themselves ...I'll post them as soon as I can find a cable to buy or borrow.
 
Becky & I also stopped in at the Grace de Dieu orphanage; Hope Clinic is located very close to the Orphanage in the Masina area of Kinshasa.  When I walked in the children started sing-songing "Linda, Linda.'  They also broke into a lovely rendition of "Itsy Bitsy Spider" that I taught them on my last visit -- see Odile's and my diary at www.CongoOrphans.PledgePage.com. The children have the tune but not the words.  When I returned home, I wrote out the words, sent them to Becky, who passed them to the Orphanage's "tutor" who speaks some English.  The visit was delightful. 
 
Becky & I also stopped at the Foster Home Becky & her husband sponsor.  Becky & her husband provide a home, safe haven & education for 15 street boys ranging in age from about 7 to about 15.  This home is an example of a successful, well-run haven for street kids. 
 
On Wednesday, I visited the Kinshasa office of Jatukik Providence Foundation, the Alexandria, VA foundation Odile & I are using to collect funds to refurbish the toilets and showers for the Grace de Dieu orphanage.  Go to www.CongoOrphans.PledgePage.com, select "Donations" in the left column to learn how you can contribute. 
 
On Thursday, Bill & I had an official dinner at the French Ambassador's residence.  It was lovely & I really had to use my French (sad as it is).  Oh, on Tuesday I joined a weekly French conversation class hosted by the Norwegian Honorary Counsel - Hanne - who has been in the Congo for many, many years and is a businesswoman as well as president of the International Women's Association.  I'm working hard at French -- at my advanced age, it's not easy!!
9:59 am pst

The Gang's All Here
I have this and one more posting to do today & I will be caught up on what I want to share with you for now.
 
Steele & Michael, two Political Officers who Bill & I met at FSI in Washington, completed their language & other training and arrived in Kinshasa on Tuesday, Feb 5. Now the whole FSI Kinshasa gang of Summer 2007 is here at Post. Their sponsors (Greg & Dephty for Michael and Reggie for Steele) hosted a lovely BBQ at our house on Saturday, Feb 9.  It was a Pot Luck with many great dishes!  We contributed the cassarole "Shipwreck," which I showed our chef how to make - we now call it "La Mama" since we used my mother' recipe. The event was scheduled for 2 to 4 p.m. but everyone was having a pretty good time, many stayed longer.  Some made good use of our tennis court -- including Bill; others swam in the pool. 
 
Oh, Sydney (choc lab) has now graduated form the fish pond to the big pool.  She loves swimming with her friend Lola (I think a Vizsla mix) and with her human friend James. 
9:42 am pst

Lubumbashi 2 - Feb 7-8, 2008
I'm getting caught up on my postings. 
 
On February 7 I went back to Lubumbashi, again with the Public Affairs Officer, Katya.  The Embassy hosted a visit by a Jazz Quartet - the Ryan Cohen Quartet, based in CHICAGO.  Chicago friends -- go to see them if you can; they are terrific.  This visit was part of the collaboration between Lincoln Centre and the US State Dept.  Wynton Marsalia partipates in the selection of the artists accepted into "The Rhythm Road: American Music Abroad" program.  In December, Devon Phillips and the New Orleans Straight Ahead (HQ Portland, OR), another great Jazz group, played in Kinshasa.  In Lubumbashi the Ryan Cohen group performed at the scholarship awards ceremony for those secondary students accepted into the CALI language program.  They also gave a performance for a VIP audience on Thursday evening, including the Governor of Katanga Province.  He loved it!  On Feb 8 (Fri) the Group lead a workshop for local musicians and gave a second concert.  Their final concert was on Saturday (after I returned to Kinshasa).  They also worked with additional Lubumbashi musicians.  It is inspiring!  The Congolese, including the Govenor, love our Jazz!  The Quartet were excellent representatives of our country.
 
At the scholarship ceremony on Thursday (Feb 7), among many others, I met the 1st and 2nd wives of the Imam I met on my earlier visit.  They were dressed in bright colors and had shawls -- very similar to what we saw in Eritrea years ago.  They were delightful and very friendly.
 
The awards ceremony was held at the French Cultural Center in Lubumbashi where we also met a wonderful photographer - I'll have to add his name later -- who is going to be part of a show in New York later this year.  His work superimposes old photos (many very tragic) over modern photos, depicting the work & suffering that went into building roards, bridges and into extracting rubber and minerals from the Congo. 
 
Katya and I also visited another of the Embassy self-help projects -- a home for handicapped, mainly children but since it's been in business since 1980, some are becoming adults.  Mma Marguerite, the director/founder, has started building apartments for handicapped adults.  The Embassy funded a new metal working facility that the residents use and that also is used to make products that are sold to generate operating capital for the home.  Most of the residents are severely handicapped.  One young fellow, about 10-12 years, was recovering from surgery.  His family burned him in the street due to his mental handicap.  His calf melded with his thigh.  The doctors were successful in separating his leg again; he's relearning to walk.  Oftentimes the mentally handicapped are dubbed "witches" or "possessed" and driven out of their homes.  Although none of the residents are "orphans," most have been forgotten by their families.  Mma Margurite told us that sometimes the families pay a fee and visit for the first few months and then they are forgotten.  The girls' dorms are well separated from the boys' dorms.  The girls, most early adolescents, were in the midst of their sewing lesson during our visit.
 
Katya & I also visited the University of Lubumbashis where we host an "American Corner."  It includes Internet access, books & magazines in English.  I have a bunch of "previously read" English novels, etc. in our shipment some of which I will add to the American Corner's library.
 
Oh...I have to tell you about CAA (Congolese Airline), which I flew for this trip to Lubumbashi.  As I mentioned, there are no jetways. When I walked under the wing to board the plane from Kinshasa to Lubumbashi on Thursday, I noticed that the light at the tip of the wing was attached with Duct Tape.  Nevertheless it was an uneventful flight. 
9:32 am pst

Business Roundtable - January 30, 2008
Every couple of months the Ambassador hosts a roundtable of American businesses and businesspeople in the Congo.  Jan 30 was Bill's first roundtable and I participated along with various members of the Embassy staff.  The emcee of the event is the Economic Officer - Greg.  Because this was Bill's first roundtable, the purpose of the meeting was to introduce the new ambassador (&, in this case, his wife).  About 50 people were invited, about 30 were able to attend.  The group represented banks (always first on my list) and companies in the mining, transportation, manufacturing, hospitality, and other industries.  Representatives of the Congo KPMG and Deloitte affiliates were invited but not able to attend this meeting.  There is room for a Grant Thornton affiliate here!  This was an exciting event for me.  I've been meeting a great number of businesspeople in various settings.  It was delightful to listen to the concerns and successes of so many.  There are definitely very significant challenges to doing business in Congo but there are also many opportunities for rewards. 
8:37 am pst

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