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Abused Men's Area

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Abuse in Hospitals - My personal account of three instances of abuse by women in three hospitals.

Abusive and Violent Women in Relationships - Since I published my experiences, people have come forward and said that my essay described a daughter-in-law or someone they knew. The words they most often used were 'eerie' and 'chilling'.

Behind Our Backs - Judges change hearing tapes and court orders in a non judicial setting.

Child Abuse by Mother and County - This paper is about a dead child's abuse by her mother and the county's child protective services unit.

Court Ordered Depreciation - This paper is about court awards that diminish through judicial stalling and prejudice.

Disqualification Watch List warns of dishonest and prejudiced people in the Solano County courts. The watch list includes reasons for disqualifying these individuals from handling any legal matter.

Domestic Abuse Front Sheet for diaries and reporting purposes (Side 1) (Side 2).

False Accusations of Rape - This is my personal account of a false rape allegation where the police, prosecutors, and probation department lied and withheld key information. Required reading for California parents of minor children.

False Allegations of Child Abuse - Ten years ago, the San Diego Grand Jury issued a broad report about problems with the justice system. They noted that the person that makes who makes false allegations are very likely to succeed.

Female Shelter Workers Oppose Shelters For Men - Radical feminists in the shelter movement oppose shelters for men. This short essay reveals some new statistics on domestic violence and the reasons for having shelters for men and their children.

How Judges Can Punish Suspected Victims - A short examination of California Code of Civil Procedure, Section 1219 and its effect on families. This section of the civil code allows judges to punish those who refuse to testify that they are a victim. Punishments can include continued harassment, public humiliation, forced indoctrination, and imprisonment.

Immunity - The theme of this essay is that immunity is among the greatest threats to our society. One part of this essay briefly covers two useful Supreme Court decisions about absolute immunity for social workers and absolute prosecutorial immunity for prosecutors who lie under oath. Social workers and prosecutors are subject to lawsuit.

In the Courtroom - Most people do not know what to expect from the legal system so I wrote a paper about it. This paper gives some helpful suggestions that can protect your rights. Also, I encourage readers to examine the reports of the San Diego Grand Jury and the testimony of Alan M. Dershowitz.

Junk Justice - This paper is my account of about false allegations of spousal battery. Here I describe the falsification of my testimony and alteration of court papers by dishonest lawyers, a trial judge, and a corrupt family law commissioner. Other men have had the same problems with the Solano County courts.

Misandry in Congress - House Concurrent Resolution 182 contains false statements and discredited ideology. While the framers of this resolution dispute the existence of Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS), they certainly have no qualms about alienating a child from its parent.

Paternity Law Reform - This short paper deals with a range of issues involving sexual conduct, rape fraud, and paternity fraud. Rape fraud and paternity fraud are not unrelated issues. Both involve females lying about sexual activity with men whom they never met. The paper starts with usable paragraphs that are informative. However, the finish does still require thought.

A Public Display of Violence - The Boulder County Safehouse claims that 95% of all spousal assaults are committed by men yet they display 21 ceramic penises hanging from a clothes line in a public library.

Radical Feminism and Child Sexual Abuse - A brief survey of misandrious domestic violence laws, misandry in a U.S. Department of Health and Human Services report relating to child sexual abuse, coercive and suggestive questioning of children, and the San Diego County Grand Jury report on Child Sexual Abuse, Assault, and Molest Issues.

Radical Feminists and Their War Against Society. Radical feminists do not represent main stream feminism. Their goal is to transform society into a matriarchy where power is held by a few women.

Social Alienation Syndrome - I coined this term because I wanted to describe social alienation outside the context of relationship and gender. Social Alienation Syndrome is not an illness. It is the set of behaviors designed to estrange the relationship between society and a person or a group of people. These behaviors can those of the radical feminists, their supporters, or their believers.

Statistics on Family Violence and Abuse - Female initiated family violence or abuse occurs far more often than reported. In fact, some studies show that women and men initiate violence in nearly equal numbers while others show that women initiate family violence much more often than men. I am not looking for gender parity in the statistics on family violence. That is nonsense. The only time that gender parity is desirable is when the victim counts are zero.

So I reviewed two national estimates and one British estimate on domestic violence. Then I reviewed a national study on child abuse using data that came from Child Protective Service agencies around the country. The numbers indicate that women are more likely than men to abuse family members.

Table of Consanguinity - One can use this table to determine their relationship to family relatives. It can be also used to determine that a relationship is incestuous under law.

The Behavioral Traits of an Abusive Person and the Signs of Abuse - One person asked me, how do you know when you are being abused. The answer is that when someone feels uncomfortable in a relationship, that is the time to end it. This essay describes the behavioral traits of abusers and the effect they have on the abused party.

The Case for DNA Maternity and Paternity Testing - A false allegation of paternity is abuse. Fifteen percent of the men registered on a birth certificate are not the biological parent of that child. Nearly 30 percent of the men accused of paternity and tested by DNA analysis are not the biological parent of the child.

The problem with the ABO blood tests was that they were not designed to identify individuals for accurate paternity testing. They were designed to ensure that a patient received the right type of blood, otherwise, the results could be fatal. This essay covers DNA testing and why it should be standard practice upon the birth of a child.

The Impossible Scene - This paper is about an auto accident where the judge ignored the facts and chose to side with the driver who caused the accident. This is a classic case where the courts ignore the facts and make decisions on the basis of their own preconceived notions.

The Physiological and Psychological Effects of Abuse and Battery - The theme of this essay is that abuse and battery can aggravate pre-existing conditions and create new traumas. Health care professionals should view sufferers as victims of torture and terrorism.

The Worsening Cycle of Abuse - Without trying to be humorous, I have often said that abusive persons are like an oil leak or a dripping faucet, both do not improve but worsen over time. The only solution is repair or replace the part. This is a short paper, with illustrations, that advocates the termination of a relationship at the first sign of abuse.

Traits Table - This a near copy of the table on the traits of an abusive person from my essay on the signs of abuse. Reader may want to use this table and a marking pen to highlight traits of the abuser in their life. This table is gender neutral and can be used for traditional and same sex relationships.

Victims of Abuse Table - This a near copy of the table on the effects of abuse from my essay on the signs of abuse. Reader may want to use this table and a marking pen to highlight their symptoms. This table is gender neutral and can be used for traditional and same sex relationships.