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Alice Paul wrote the Equal Rights Amendment and introduced it to Congress in 1923 and thus far, the States have not ratified it. This amendment contained only three simple sections. It says that the United States will not deny or abridge Equality of rights under the law by the United States or by any State due to gender. It also says that this amendment will take effect two years after the date of its ratification. So tell your Congressional Representatives to pass the Equal Rights Amendment as Alice Paul wrote it. When Congress first enacted the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA), many believed that a new federal law that was unnecessary. But others wanted to ensure that every man, guilty or not, would suffer severe penalties while women would not be held to the same standard required of men. A nation is judged on how well it treats their people and that justifies the passage of the Equal Rights Amendment.

Mistaken and False Accusations

Mistaken accusations are different from false accusations. In mistaken accusations, the crime occurred but the victim made a mistake in identifying the assailant. Unfounded claims are those that have no basis in fact, the absence of evidence, and so they are groundless or unwarranted. A false allegation occurs when sufficient evidence proves that a claim was false and this is vindicating evidence. So one theory is that false allegations serve a diversionary function such as getting attention and sympathy, seeking revenge, or providing a cover to conceal another activity. Still, the most damage occurs when a jury determines that the defendant is innocent but the prosecutor has done nothing to support that finding. That is why many people continue to believe that the defendant is guilty although the evidence proves their innocence. Moreover, the records remain public and as a result, other agencies require that a person must reveal any arrest although a conviction did not occur. The lousy part is that the victim bears the burden of another person's guilt.  Moreover, the context in which it is usually raised is highly politicized along the lines of gender. Evidence can be processed and then analyzed in a crime lab. This removes the problem of whom to believe (usually the female) and changes the direction of the investigation to the facts. This would mean that claims of rape would not be based on what the accuser says but on the DNA and the physical evidence. There has been a long term disagreement regarding the prevalence of false accusations because those crimes rarely tracked or punished.

The Rapist is a Woman

The elements of sexual assault include an absence of legal consent. It may include extortion or coercion by threats especially of public exposure or criminal prosecution. Statutory rape occurs when a person who can consent to sexual activity has a sexual relationship with a person who cannot consent. The age of consent occurs when a person becomes legally competent to consent to marriage and sexual intercourse. The problem is that the age of consent is not fixed at the national level but varies according to each state’s laws. These laws govern the age of majority when a person becomes responsible for all of their activities. As such, they are entitled to exercise all their legal rights that are generally held by citizens. However, what happens when a woman rapes a man or a boy and she becomes pregnant? Under current law, victims have no recourse and more paradoxical, the law requires them to pay tax-free child support to the woman who raped them. According to the IRS, child support payments are neither deductible by the payer nor taxable to the payee.

The age of consent occurs when a person becomes legally competent to consent to marriage and to sexual intercourse. That is why boys and girls cannot legally consent and rightfully so. This law also includes those persons who are incapable of giving consent because of age or physical or mental incapacity where the assailant is in a position of trust or authority. Statutory rape occurs when a person has a sexual relationship with a person who cannot. The problem is that the age of consent is not fixed at the national level but varies according to each state’s laws. These laws govern the age of majority when a person becomes responsible for all of their activities. As such, they are entitled to exercise all their legal rights that are generally held by citizens. But what happens when a woman rapes a male and she becomes pregnant? Age is no longer a factor. The law requires the biological father to pay child support to the mother although she had impregnated herself by raping him.  Child support exists for the benefit of the child but the courts have ruled otherwise and that is where the problem is. A father's obligation to support his children is absolute and that obligation outweighs the mother’s claim to spend his money as she pleases. Unfortunately, the government does it for her.

Most people will tell you that women do not rape men but they hedge their comments when it comes to women who rape children and other women. The mechanics are the same, only the circumstances and gender are different. When the issue is an adult woman who had raped an underage boy, the rules change. He becomes a tax-free source of revenue for the woman who raped him. However, most people will tell you that women do not rape men but they hedge their comments when it comes to women who rape children and other women. The mechanics are the same, only the circumstances and gender are different. So when the issue is about a woman who raped an underage boy, the rules change. He becomes a tax-free source of revenue for her unless the state legislators or Congress change the law.

Due Process

Due process refers to formal legal proceedings that occur according to previously established rules. It also requires that the laws do not contain provisions that result in unfair or unreasonable treatment of any person. This means that increasing the number of false allegations will lower any standard that depends on probable cause as a required element of arrest. Accordingly, neither the accuser nor the officer has to attest to their truthfulness. The result is that a law enforcement official can arrest a person without proof that the arrestee did anything wrong. So the investigator must gather evidence from credible sources rather than relying on the accuser.

One author opined, ‘Innocent before proven guilty is not a reality. It is a marketing slogan to promote faith in our justice system.' He went on to say that it could ‘discourage too many from reporting real rapes.’ If anyone wanted to find a source of false information, the American Bar Association (ABA) and others have unseemly devoted their energies to creating ‘falsity’. So the common knowledge is that the government nearly never prosecutes women for lying and the police do not have to prove that their reports are true. That is the reason that prosecutors got higher conviction rates when they did not allow these women to testify. That is a 6th Amendment violation, for every person has the right to confront their accuser and the witnesses against them. This means is that the entire trial is based on the unsworn word of a woman who now refuses to affirm her claim in open court.

However, many prosecutors avoid this requirement by either adding new charges or making extortionary offers that the accused cannot refuse. The reason is that right entitles a person to be present at the trial and hear and cross-examine all of the witnesses against them. This means that a prosecutor cannot present evidence that is not subject to examination. Many cases of malicious prosecution occur when women and government prosecutors had lied. So mandatory arrests discriminate against men because these arrests presume guilt and that is the reason that the mandatory arrest law does not require testing. Moreover, this promotes lying so that women can extort money and property from their partner or husband. This testing would reveal the guilt of the accuser or the innocence of the accused.

Although the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) applies to men and women, the counts deny men the protection of due process. So in its current form, this legislation does not do anything to help victims of false allegations. The appraisal is that Government agencies have two standards of proof, none for women and impossible for men. That is the reason that many men do not report domestic violence, the police will arrest them. So the law must require that every person who claims abuse, rape, or other crime to undergo testing to prove that their claim is true. Moreover, most people do not know that know that women have immunity that shields them against any punishment for their civil and criminal acts, such as spousal abuse. That is why many women who claim abuse are the instigators of violence. The connection is that prosecutors found that they can get more convictions by preventing women from testifying. This is ass-backwards because it encourages women to lie and that is what we are trying to prevent.

Government Contracts

The contractor holding government-owned equipment is responsible for maintaining the equipment, making sure no one has damaged it and maintains an adequate equipment inventory system. Once a contract is complete, the contractor must return all government equipment associated with that contract or dispose of that property according to government standards. This means that the police and the courts cannot interfere with legitimate actions to protect that equipment. This is especially true when a person decides to claim abuse so that they can illegally take another person's property for their own use. The issue is that once a contract is complete, the contractor must return all government equipment or dispose of that property according to the contract's requirements. So the police and the courts cannot compel a person to hand over government property to anyone whom the Federal Government has not authorized to receive it.

Years ago, I received an order to add a feature to a customer's product. When the police arrived, I showed him the court order and the necessary transfer papers. However, the officer threatened to arrest me if I refused to hand over my equipment and the government’s property to my ex-wife and her sons. The issue was that my ex-wife and her sons were foreign nationals. That meant that they had no right to have it. So I managed to return those items to the government contractor before my wife and her sons could steal them.

After the Vallejo police forced me from my office, my ex-wife and her sons picked the locks and stole my notes and equipment but that was not the end of the matter. They were burglarizing other homes and that was the reason that they claimed abuse. It was a simple distraction to divert attention from themselves to me. That is why most claims of spousal abuse are bogus and the courts do nothing. But the prosecutors are worse, they have 'official exemption', a special limited privilege that only a few should have for a very short time. Otherwise, their mode becomes mandatory coercion and their ways and means are the proof. How many people would notice that the driver of a car had my violins bolted to it? There is a copy of my inventory in the courthouse but nothing was done. Instead, my ex-wife claimed abuse after being caught stealing property from others and me.

 


Essays and True Accounts

This (#) pointer may be used to indicate a new essay or a recent revision of an existing one.

Although I have among most efficient tools available for writing about various subjects, no program, no matter how well constructed, can make up for my shortcomings. Perhaps, it is better that way but then again, a misplaced word can mislead a reader. So if I miswrote something, tell me about it and I will correct it.

A Matter of Guilt - The proof lays with the accuser and not the accused.

ABO Blood Testing - ABO blood testing was not designed to identify individuals or determine paternity. It was designed to ensure that a patient received the right type of blood, otherwise, the results could be fatal.  Paternity testing is similar to searching for the one-eyed jack of spades in a deck of cards. Paternity testing simply sorts out which male is the biological father.  The other part of this essay is devoted to mutations and other blood disorders that may lead to false results.

Abusive and Violent Women in Relationships - Recognizing the signs.  Since I published my experiences, people have come forward and said that my essay described someone they knew. The words they most often used were 'eerie' and 'chilling'.  One reason for their comments is that abusive women are far more prevalent than what the news media wants to reveal. This is especially true when the police give them a phoney place and time when the purported arrest occurred. Moreover, current policy requires that every man who is accused of domestic violence must be arrested regardless of the evidence to the contrary. (See Bill of Rights, Amendment IV).

Alcoholism:  Alcoholism is a broad term for persons who cannot control their consumption of alcoholic beverages. Others consume alcohol to control the symptoms of a disease or a disorder. The problem with this is that a health provider may withhold treatment.

Autism - Autism is a developmental disorder that occurs in very early childhood, about age 18 to 36 months.

Automatic Mutual Restraining Orders - A list of these orders and what they are supposed to do.

Banks - Years ago, a customer could write a check and the banks returned their cancelled checks but that is not true today. Instead the customer receives a listing of their checks and they may have to pay extra for the bank’s imaging services. That is not the same thing. In the past, the checks were the account holder’s property and not the banks. In addition, one distinctive feature of having a check was the right to destroy your own property. So the only reason that another party would want those checks is that they could use them for some illegal purpose. Besides that, can anybody really trust a bank after the last bank failures? This is one way of not keeping all of your eggs in the same basket.

Battle at Cowpens - The battle at Cowpens would produce two future Presidents.

Brady Evidence - In Brady vs. Maryland, The defendant, Brady, had challenged his conviction because the prosecution had withheld evidence and that was contrary to the Due Process clause of the Fourteenth Amendment. The Supreme Court held that withholding exculpatory evidence violates Due Process. This is particularly important because judges and juries use this evidence to decide a person’s guilt or punishment. So if the prosecution withholds that evidence it violates the due process clause of the Fourteenth Amendment to the United States Constitution. This evidence includes any physical or other evidence (or its absence) that could impeach the accuser’s credibility. For an example, if an accuser claims abuse to hide the fact that they are stealing from the accused, the prosecution cannot withhold that information from the court.  Unfortunately they often do.

Burglary Tools and Instruments - When women falsely claim abuse, the courts do nothing to stop it. When was the last time that anyone has seen or heard a judge put a woman in jail for perjury, theft, or self-inflicted injuries? We have not because judges are more concerned with appearances rather than the truth. Just how many locks would the burglars pick before the judges would see the difference between a woman who lies and a man who tells the truth? It does not make any difference, for the courts do not exact penalties for women who lie. #

Child Sexual Abuse - A brief survey of misandrious domestic violence laws, misandry in a U.S. Department of Health and Human Services report relating to child sexual abuse, coercive and suggestive questioning of children, and the San Diego County Grand Jury report on Child Sexual Abuse, Assault, and Molest Issues.   An Associated Press article ‘Woman sentenced for sex with teens’ appeared in the Times-Herald newspaper in Vallejo on June 1, 2007. Anna J. Walker molested a 15-year-old boy, had sex with a 16-year-old boy and endangered the welfare of twelve minors. A judge sentenced Ms. Walker 300 days in jail when the court could have sentenced her to seven years and eight months in prison. The judge treated the case as a misdemeanor rather than a felony offense. The father of one the victims said "If this were a man, do you think he would have got this leniency?"

Child Sexual Abuse, Assault, and Molest Issues Report No. 8 - This is the 1991-1992 San Diego County Grand Jury Report (families and the courts)1991-1992,June 29, 1992. Through expert testimony and case studies, the Jury obtained a wide range of information in the area of child sexual abuse. This controversial and highly complex subject has suffered from excessive, sometimes bordering on hysterical, media attention, reporting of inaccurate or questionable statistics, and the failure to define and identify child sexual abuse accurately. Within the limits of the expert testimony received by the Jury, and a study of cases brought to the Jury's attention, this report will provide an overview of some child sexual abuse issues existing within the dependency process. (Reformatted)

Commonplace - If we were to put more women in prison for lying or obstructing justice, we would have much less fakery and fraud. Yet that is only half of the problem. Many prosecutors are corrupt and will take a woman's word without proof.  Moreover, many prosecutors do allow witnesses to testify although this a Constitutional requirement.

Confront - In all criminal prosecutions, the accused will enjoy the right to a speedy and public trial. This is only the beginning of the Sixth Amendment. It says that this person is entitled to a speedy and public trial, by an impartial jury of the State and district where the crime was committed. In so doing, the accused have the right to compel the prosecutor to obtain those witnesses who are for him and those witnesses who are against him. So the prosecutor cannot claim an exemption for those who accused the defendant because the Defendant is on trial against the Accuser and the Government.

Contrivances - If the purpose is not avoiding guilt, it serves a focused purpose by asserting their own sense of supremacy. So false claims are more likely to be the behavior of a person who derives pleasure from their own avariciousness. Most claims of abuse are variant forms of extortion to get an advantage in court. To my recall, no female who had made a false claim of abuse or the courts have ever punished rape for those crimes in the United States. However if that did occur then, it would have been more than a rarity. According to the American Bar Association, "Domestic Violence does not necessarily involve physical violence." Now that begs the question. The problem is that a victim of false allegations may sue for damages but that is unlikely because they usually have no resources. The government maintains files to identify rapists and molesters and that is why the government should have a public file for women who lied about abuse or rape. 

Creutzfeldt-Jakob Disease - This is an extremely rare degenerative brain disorder (a type of spongiform encephalopathy) not caused by Mad Cow Disease. Spongiform encephalopathy refers to the characteristic appearance of infected brains that are filled with holes resembling sponges under a microscope. The initial symptoms may include behavioral changes, confusion, depression, impaired vision, and impaired coordination. Over time, there may be a rapid deterioration of memory and cognition leading to agitation, increased irritability, and changes in personality.

Cycle of Abuse - Abused men are also the subject of the Violence Against Woman Act because this legislation also applies to men. The Fourteenth Amendment is supposed to protect all persons from state laws that attempt to deprive them of their fundamental rights.

Depreciation - Depreciation is the lowering the value of property as it decreases to fall in value. In contrast, inflation decreases the value of money. So what a person bought a year ago would cost more today in today's money.

Diaries, Encryption, and Privacy - Keeping a diary or journal is one of the most private and personal acts that one may do. It is not an object for all to see and it is not a document swayed and bantered in a public forum. A person's diary, papers, and effects are their own property that others must respect. This is even so when those papers may be composed in another language or encrypted. Mere encryption is not an unlawful act and, in fact, has been often used in lifelong correspondence between two people who have never met. It is about a person’s life, musings, or perhaps a rendezvous with an imaginary friend at some far off place. So the courts should stop prying and leave us alone.

Dissociative Identity Disorder - Multiple identity (Dissociative Identity) syndrome is a separate and very rare mental disorder exhibiting the existence of two or more distinct and independent personalities. Reservedly, each personality has its own identity, a set of behaviors and memories, and each is not aware of the other personalities and their experiences and this phenomenon. This includes a dissociated egoism and deliberate detachment.

DNA Testing - (1) Every person has unique set of DNA except identical individuals. However, every person’s finger prints are unique.  (2) DNA transfer occurs when someone touches or is touched by something. Touch DNA testing can be used to confirm or disprove an allegation.  (3) Motherless DNA paternity testing can produce false results because the mother, the child, and the purported father may have the same gene at a particular locus (location). This is why DNA testing should be a standard procedure upon the birth of a child. (4) Chimerism is a rare instance where a person has different copies of DNA in their body.  (5) This paper describes the genetic and non-genetic evidence that can be used in testing for false allegations.

Domestic Violence - Lexicographers published the original definition of domestic violence in 1976. The definition was simple, domestic violence is the infliction of physical injury by one household member on another.  This is why domestic violence has become easily claimed and hard to refute.  Women have a lower standard of proof than men. That is the reason that domestic violence is easily claimed and hard to refute. So it is time to require DNA testing to for those who might be victims of abuse or fraud.

Dud List - A list of features that do not work or were eliminated because they did work.

Economics - This essay includes a quick course in Economics and how it affects people. This essay includes two links to the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation and one link to the Department of Labor Statistics Inflation Counter. These links are located near the end of this paper. The reason that I mentioned this here is that some people may be interested in these statistics because they are a reliable source of information and they may want to see that information first. Moreover, a court may require that a person who has lost their property, depreciate that property using the inflated value of money rather than its actual value. In another topic, according to a report, more than 90% (1.2 million) of VA refinance, loans were tainted with the alleged fraud. The lawsuit has ‘targeted’ several major firms including Bank of America, JP Morgan Chase & Co., and Wells Fargo Bank. (Received October 4, 2011 from EarthLink Inc. and the Associated Press).

Encouraging False Allegations - Many women claim that they are the sole determiners what is abuse. A prosecutor in San Diego, California said that he never had any desire to prosecute these women who lied.

Engineering Management in Government Contract Work. - Both government and business management rarely do well in government contract work. (Edward Steven Nunes - Published February 1981 - IEEE Computer Society).

Equal Rights Amendment - I bought the Oxford American Desk Dictionary and Thesaurus (3rd Edition, 2010) the other day and it does not contain an entry for misandry. While it does contain an entry for ‘misogyny’ and ‘misogynist’, the editors have included an inaccurate definition for both words. They claim that a misogynist is "a man who hates women" when actually a misogynist is any person who hates women. One the other hand, a misandrist is any person who hates men or refuses to include the word ‘misandry’ in their dictionary. The problem is that men and women do not have the same rights and ratification of the Equal Rights Amendment could give them those rights. As it stands today, a false claim of abuse is only a telephone call away.  Support the Equal Rights Amendment, its text is included in this essay.

Fakery, Forgery, and Fraud - False claims of domestic violence. Most claims of spousal abuse have no foundation in fact.  Instead these claims are used as a cover-up to keep illegal acts from being exposed. This is the actual account of what had occurred on June 14, 1993. 

False Allegations of Child Abuse -  Some years ago, the San Diego Grand Jury issued a comprehensive report about problems with the justice system in California. They noted that a person who makes false allegations is more believable than the person who refutes them. So if others repeat a lie long enough, others are more likely to accept it.

False Allegations of Rape. - Most people may not know that a mistaken allegation and a false allegation are different. Testing the evidence can easily reveal a mistake. However no one can test a false allegation because the evidence was never there. So false allegations are more serious because they take valuable resources from real victims. This paper contains the latest updates for persons under the age of eighteen. The prosecutors do not want parents to know about juvenile law. That is why this paper should be required reading for all parents of minor children. This is my personal account of a false rape allegation while the police, prosecutors, and probation department lied and withheld key information. The interesting part was that the officials had prepared the papers before the trial would have begun. That is why the prosecutor had claimed that I had ‘spoiled her case’, she tried to rig the results.

Familawt and Queen for a Day - Official discretion is the freedom of a public official to make choices within reasonable limits of their authority. In family law, a restraining order is a simple way of evicting an innocent person from their own home. The problem is that obtaining a restraining order is far easier for a woman who lies than it is for a man who tells the truth. These judges make a farce of family law while they regale in their own depraved conduct. This is unbelievable, contemptible, depraved, and perverted and in their own words and they admit that it is delightful. So as true contortionists of the law, they are proud of it. Those pictured include Dolores Carr (San Mateo), Charlotte Woolard (SF), Marjorie Slabach (SF), James Mize (Sacramento), Gary Ichikawa (Solano), David Haet (Solano), and Beth Freeman ((Not Pictured) - San Mateo). 

Fixation - Fixation is an obsessive or unhealthy preoccupation or attachment to control others (see Merriam-Webster's Dictionary).

Genital Practices in Other Countries - Islam calls for the circumcision of men but not women. This paper briefly describes genital practices in other countries including clitoridectomy and infibulation.  This short essay reveals facts that you may not have known.

Government Contract Work - Top down design is another way of converting requirements into tasks to be completed. The problem is that ‘all of those oh-by-the-way issues and their add-ons’ never seem to go away.  The problem is that Congress controls Government contract work and that’s why some things seem to never get done.

Hijackers - A browser hijacker appears as freeware and it can install itself into your system when you open an email attachment, download a file, or visit a website.

ICON Set - The current arrangement of icons.

Identity Theft and Spousal Abuse - In most settings, lying is not considered abusive though she has stolen his property, abused him, and then lied again. The law ignores women who lie about men and most claims of abuse made by women are false. So if we put more women in prison for lying about abuse and rape, then less of them would lie.

Inequity of the falsely accused - Inequity is an instance of injustice or unfairness and this is why misandry is an established fact. Most people do not know what to expect from the legal system so I wrote a paper about it.  This paper gives some helpful suggestions that can protect your rights.  Please examine the reports of the San Diego Grand Jury and the testimony of Alan M. Dershowitz.

Joint Accounts and Economic Abuse - Never establish a joint account with your spouse or anyone else because they can take your money by removing your name from the account without warning. However, you might be responsible for any joint debts that the abuser has incurred. That is not the end of it. If your spouse has claimed abuse, you will not have a home but you will still have to pay the rent, mortgage, and other bills. A Public Notary must authenticate any written document that you had signed and some states require fingerprints or a thumbprint.

Legal Immunity - The only reason that someone needs immunity is that they are guilty. That is why guilty women are never brought to trial because they can be compelled to answer questions or submit to testing that can prove their guilt.

Lying About Abuse - The immoral equivalent to making the victim apologize to the abuser.

Malingering and Self-Inflicted Injuries - This paper addresses faked and self-inflicted injuries, false appearances, Munchausen syndrome, and factitious disorders. This paper comes to the salient conclusion that in current law, a mere claim of rape or abuse does not require corroborating evidence for arrest and conviction. That is why dishonest women and prosecutors want it this way because most false claims are made after the evidence would have disappeared. False claims of spousal and child abuse are often easily made and hard to refute, especially if there is no evidence to refute what did not occur. This is always a result of an biased and incomplete investigation.

Mandatory Arrest - This form of arrest does not require proof that a person had committed a crime and that is what many women want.

Material Alteration - A material alteration is any alteration of a document that changes its legal effect so that it changes the interests, rights, and obligations of the parties to the document. For an example, a court order might state that Jack keeps his home but has to pay Jill $10,000. However, if someone changes the document to say that Jack must relinquish his home to Jill and pay her $100,000, then that is a material alteration.

Medical Problems and Health Warning Signs - Some other results of abuse.

Microsoft Safety and Security Center - Browser Hijacking - Fix your high-jacked Browser.

Misandry - A hatred of Men. That why some women will do anything to get their own way.

Mood Disorders -This paper describes Depression, Bipolar Disorder, Schizophrenia, and Seasonal Affective Disorder with links to official sites.

Munchausen Syndrome - Munchausen syndrome is a condition where a person malingers by pretending or exaggerating incapacity or an illness to avoid work or treated as a medical patient. Sometimes, these individuals will self-inflict injuries on their body or use makeup or prosthetics to fabricate an illness or an injury (malingering). So Munchausen syndrome is (or can be) an adjunct to false allegations of abuse.

Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy - Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy is a behavior where the parent (typically the mother) lies about the child's family and medical history. The mother may falsely accuse the father of child abuse or spousal abuse. Munchausen Syndrome is often associated with malingering.

Notary Public - A notary is a public officer who attests or certifies writings or recordings. An affidavit is a written statement made under an oath. The law authorizes notaries to certify those written statements and recordings.

Nystagmus - There are three forms of nystagmus: side to side, up and down, and rotary. The nature of these disorders is not well understood. However, nystagmus can be caused by sleep deprivation or injury.

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder - This disorder is characterized by a pervasive preoccupation with perfection. Some people call these individuals ‘neat freaks’ or ‘Felixs’ because they are constantly preoccupied with neatness, perfection and, orderliness. This term comes from the character ‘Felix Unger’ in the television comedy called ‘The Odd Couple’ which is based on a play by Neil Simon. The story is about two men, a neat freak and a slob who are separated from their wives and now have to live together. 

Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) and False Allegations of Domestic Violence - Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) is the phenomenon where one parent turns a child against the other parent.  House Concurrent Resolution 182 contains false statements and discredited ideology.  While the framers of this resolution dispute the existence of Parental Alienation Syndrome, they certainly have no qualms about alienating a child from its parent. The National Organization for Women (NOW) has objected to the inclusion of Parental Alienation Disorder to the 2012 edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders by the American Psychiatric Association (DSM-V).  PAS is not a disorder, it is a conscious choice. For if an unfit parent can control a child's environment, then they can invoke a particular response in a child, at will.

Paternity - Under the law, a child born to a married couple is that couple’s child where the husband is the child’s father and his wife is the child’s mother. Some states may require that, on the birth of a child, that the husband sign a paper that acknowledges the child as his progeny. If he refuses to sign the paper, a court may rule that the child is his. Years ago, before DNA testing, ABO blood testing and Human Leukocyte Antigen (HLA) was used to confirm paternity but both were very poor indicators but DNA testing has changed that. However, some people may still cling to old principles because the truth is sometimes harder to accept.

Perjury - Perjury is a willful statement that someone made who knew that it was false and they were under an oath to tell the truth and the statement pertained to a material fact. Most police reports do not require the complainant nor the officer to tell the truth and that is their inducement to lie.

Personality Disorders and False Claims of Abuse, - This paper describes personality disorders and sexual sadism with links to official sites.

Power of Attorney - A power of attorney is a writing where a person appoints another person to be their agent to do specified things for them. An agent cannot use a power of attorney to commit an illegal act such as conversion or theft. The agent is solely responsible for their own act(s).

Power-up Internet Connection Protocol - These are the instructions for the Power Up Internet Connection Protocol.

Premenstrual Disphoric Disorder - This is a condition that presents symptoms of irritability, depression, and tension. The symptoms of PMDD are more severe than those presented in PMS. It is a condition that is usually only present in females in their reproductive years. PMDD may occur anytime and the diagnosis of this condition may require a complete evaluation.  This essay includes links to other sources and important information for women and parents of girls.

Privacy, A Short Essay - The Right of Privacy is the right claimed by individuals to be left alone and the right to control certain information about themselves. It also covers people's freedom to decide their personal lives in the face of government attempts to regulate behavior. While the laws of most nations accept and acknowledge some right to privacy, the right to privacy is not absolute. Moreover, declarations of privacy do not have the force of law.

Probable Cause - Probable cause consists of the knowledge of the facts that alone, are sufficient to warrant the belief that someone had committed a crime. However, current law does not protect men from female privilege. Female privilege dictates that women are always right without proof that a particular  woman had told the truth.

Projection: - Psychological projection is the embodiment of blame, guilt, or responsibility. For an example, a guilty person might say that their spouse abused them, especially when they have more to gain by lying. So projection is synonymous with forming a plan and then claiming to be the victim. This is the common factor in false claims of abuse.

Propensity to Spend - A brief essay on taxes and spending.  The Gross National Product (GNP) is simply the total value of the goods and services produced by the residents of a nation during a specified period (such as a year). The gross domestic product (GDP) is the gross national product excluding the value of net income earned abroad. This essay explains a few economic terms and concepts used in domestic and in international trade.

Property and Depreciation - Most people do not know about the characterization of property and the different kinds of depreciation.  Using the wrong kind of depreciation can cost you a lot of money.  That is what this brief essay is about.

Psychological and the Physiological Effects of Abuse - The theme of this essay is that abuse can aggravate pre-existing conditions and create new traumas.  Health care professionals should view sufferers as victims of torture and terrorism.

Rape and Rape Kits - Rape kits can be used to collect evidence to be processed and then analyzed in a crime lab. This removes the problem of whom to believe (usually the female) and changes the direction of the investigation to the facts. This would mean that claims of rape would not be based on what the accuser says but on the DNA and the physical evidence. There has been a long term disagreement regarding the prevalence of false accusations of sexual assault. The crimes of lying and being a false witness are rarely tracked or punished. Moreover, the context in which it is usually raised is highly politicized along the lines of gender. But there is a general agreement that most who lie about rape are females. According to the pundits, only the victim has the final decision of what is and what is not rape. This means that a woman who used a ‘Jane Doe Rape Kit’ several years ago can claim rape today because she is that exclusive decider. But this is also true if she lied and that's the problem.

Red Tape at the DMV - Were employees of the Department of Motor Vehicles involved in a home burglary while the victim was trying to renew their license to drive? If so, why has nothing been done? My former wife stole from me before, did she do it again?

Related - This is a table of consanguinity that portrays who is related to whom in the family tree.

Restraining Order Fraud -  A jury trial may prove a man innocent, but that is not enough. The courts will turn it about, issue a restraining order to prevent him from recovering his property, and he still has to pay the costs. Supporters of this process say that abusive partners should face restraining orders although they were acquitted.  This is a clear abuse of the legal process.

Returned Checks - In the past, checks were the property of the account holder and not the bank. They were the customer’s instructions to pay the payee named on the check and then return it to the owner. So the cancelled check became proof that the owner and its subsequent owners had paid a bill. However, the courts did not protect privacy of the parties in a legal transaction. So the government created a means of tracing transactions while the credit bureaus kept track of credit histories.

Second Amendment - The Domestic Violence Offender Gun Ban of 1997 applies to individuals in all fifty states. It bans the possession of firearms by those who are under a restraining order for domestic violence but the law does not require evidence or proof of abuse. This allows the claimant to seize and possess firearms for their own use. Thus the wheels of justice slowly creak to the conclusion that she lied but only after she wreaked her husband’s home and stole his property.  Current law is the problem and not a solution. *

Shield Laws and Mandatory Arrests - The Centers for Disease Control Survey found that in cases of one-way (not mutual) aggression, women the were instigators in more than 68.8% of the cases.  Yet men are forced into paying taxes to support those organizations whose goal was to deprive men of their rights and property. I try to keep people aware that movements still exist to oppose equal rights for men and women. These are the radicals who would abolish personal freedom. The Equal Rights Amendment is about ensuring that those freedoms continue. That is the difference between those who support freedom and those who would lock it away.

Signs of Abuse - This essay describes the behavioral traits of Abusers and the effects of these traits have on their victims and this also includes a chart of signs, symptoms, and indications of abuse. When anyone feels uncomfortable in a relationship that is the time to end it. This essay describes the behavioral traits of abusers and the effects of these behaviors have on their victims.

Special Arrest Laws - When Congress first enacted the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA), many believed that a federal law that was unnecessary because every state had made assault and battery a crime. However, others wanted to make sure that every accused man would suffer severe penalties although he was innocent. In other words, women were given the right to make any claim they wanted.

Statutory Rape - Sexual intercourse or other sexual relations with any person who cannot consent or that person has not obtained the age of consent. The slightest penetration or the exchange of fluids without consent is sufficient to prove the offence of rape. The law includes the following provision. If the rapist is female and she got pregnant by this union, then the boy is responsible for the unborn child. This means that a court may require him to pay child support to the woman who raped him.

Spyware - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Statistics on Family Violence and Abuse - Females and prosecutors contrive more than 90 percent of all false allegations and neither are punished for lying. The actual day-to-day percentage cannot be precisely stated because false accusations are a result of the accuser’s whims. So when extortion and lying are included in the statistics, women are far more likely than men to abuse. The problem is that many states define sexual crimes other than male-on-female penetration as sexual assault rather than rape. Since there are no national standards for defining female-on-male offenses, those crimes are not recognized nor included in most state’s statistics.

Stolen Property - If you steal property, you must report its fair market value in your income in the year you steal it unless in the same year, you return it to its rightful owner. See IRS (http://www.irs.gov/publications/p17/ch12.html).   Use the 'find' function to locate this article.

Testimony of Alan M. Dershowitz - To House of Representatives Judiciary Committee on Perjury.

Tourette Syndrome - This is a neurological disorder where the symptoms include repetitive involuntary spasmodic movements and vocalizations (profanity) that someone might mistake for antisocial behavior.

Trade and Vocational Schools - A vocational or trade school is a school that focuses on giving graduates marketable skills. Common examples of trade schools include maritime academies, esthetician colleges, culinary schools, automotive repair training programs, and training for medical technicians. After graduating from one of these schools, an individual should be able to immediately enter the job market and receive good pay and benefits.

Urged to Lie - Read carefully. According to the operation of the law, women are the sole functionaries of what is and what is not abuse. A prosecutor in San Diego, California, admitted that if he prosecuted everyone who lied on the witness stand, then every one of them would go to jail. He then added that he never had any desire to prosecute women.

Veterans' Home Ownership - U.S.C., Title 38, 5301(a)(1) says that "Payments of benefits due or to become due shall not be assignable." This means that the court cannot transfer a veteran's benefits and rights to another person or entity. However, no one has punished a judge for cheating a veteran. That is why many veterans are losing their homes and property to false allegations of abuse. Congress never intended that judges had the right to cheat veterans of their home, savings, and property.

Wills and Testaments - I always thought that a person’s separate property was their own and that they could do any legal thing they wanted with it. I was wrong. It seems that the states have established rules about what a person may do with their property.


Miscellanea

Breast Cancer

Researchers have found that a woman’s risk of breast cancer increases as she grows older, especially if a close relative such as her mother or sister has also had this condition. Scientists have found two abnormal genes, BRCA1 and BRCA2, that increase the risks of developing breast cancer but disagree on when such testing should be done. The problem is that many women who have had breast cancer do not have the inherited abnormal genes.  Most physicians advise women to examine their breasts for lumps every month because a painless lump is the most common artifact of breast cancer but a mammogram can detect many abnormalities before they can be felt.  Most doctors recommend an annual mammogram for women who are more than 50-years-old but this advice may change. The leading causes of death and injury for women in the United States, are cancer, heart disease, car accidents, and HIV. This comes from The Center for Disease Control and the Bureau of Justice Statistics (CDC).

Child Identification Cards

Each child should have a plastic laminated medical and identification card that shows the child's name, age, gender, and address. It should also have the parent’s names, list the child's medical conditions, and who to call in an emergency. A recent photograph and fingerprint are also helpful. This service may be available in some localities. These services may be available from Postal Instant Press (PIP) and the UPS stores and many also include the services of a Notary Public.

Every State Must Follow the Same Property Laws (A proposal)

In Community Property States, all property that a husband and wife had obtained during their marriage is community property with each spouse owning  one-half interest in the property. However, property owned before the marriage or received by gift or inheritance is separate property. So this form of ownership is a hybrid form of joint tenancy between husband and wife, each owning one-half. Upon death, the decedent's interest passes to the surviving spouse, this is similar to tenants in common. The words in the deed such as "John and Mary, husband and wife, as their community property" establish community property ownership. Nine states have adopted the community property doctrine. The nine community property states are Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, and Wisconsin. Alaska is not a community property state but it does allow couples to make a community property arrangement. So their property is separate unless both parties agree to make it community property through a property agreement or a community property trust. Several Native American jurisdictions and the territory of Puerto Rico allow property to be owned as community property. Puerto Rico has recognized community property law since its invasion by the Spanish Crown in 1493. Most community property schemes are derived from Spanish Law and so they are not in line with other 41 states and this should change.

Sperm Donation

A married woman whose husband donated sperm without her knowledge is calling for clinics to be forced to ask for the wife’s consent. The woman said she feared that children fathered with the sperm, who would be siblings, could disrupt the family. So she is calling for limitations on sperm donation to redefine a married man’s sperm as a joint ‘marital asset’. That means that a married man would be unable to govern or forbid its use without his wife’s permission and thus take his sperm and use it for her own purposes. The question is this, are sperm and ova separate or community property?  If so, a court could require a man to pay child support to a woman he never met. Moreover, a boy who has been raped by a woman who then gives birth to a child, will have to pay child support to the mother until the child is eighteen years old.

How to Lie With Statistics

According to the pundits, we live in a world where 54% of rapes are not reported. They go on to say that 97% of the accused rapists never go to jail. So the fact that some women lie about rape isn't exactly the most pressing conversation we need to be having. The problem with this stance is that says nothing about its proof or its foundation. For an example, if more than half of the rapes are not reported, then how did the claimant get to that number? The answer might have something do with Jack Horner’s thumb and his plum. See How to Lie With Statistics by Darrell Huff.

Using and Searching This Web Site

Remember this, sometimes your provider will save web pages in a cache this means that you may not be viewing the most current edition of that page.  I use the F5 function key to insure that I have the current page. Depending on your web browser, most navigation symbols appear as arrows at the top of each web page. If an arrow points to the left, that arrow means that you can go to the preceding web page. If the arrow points to the right, that arrow means that you can go to the next page. So you do not have to ‘backtrack’ to get where you want to go. Moreover, this gives you the ability to go to another web page and then return to the page that you were reading. A blue or magenta colored word or phrase indicates a clickable object that leads to additional information. To search a page with Microsoft Internet Explorer use the Ctrl f or Ctrl F keystroke combination. The browser's search or find box will appear shortly.  Every beginning page has a date indicator in the header title that keeps track of the date that I last changed that page.  This pointer (#) may be used to indicate a new essay or a recent revision to an existing one.

Changing the Font Size in Microsoft Internet Explorer

For years I have used a font size of three or four to write my web pages. Then I changed the font size to five so that those who have limited sight may read them. The problem is that a font size of five is much larger than I want and it does waste paper for those who want to print a particular essay. However, Microsoft Internet Explorer has a feature that I didn’t know about.  It allows the reader to change the apparent font size to suit their needs. This feature is located in the view toolbar at the top of the screen. Click on View from the top menu and move down to Text Size. You can now change the text to one of five sizes - Largest, Larger, Medium, Smaller and Smallest. I have not tried this on all my printers. However, some printers and word processors treat fonts as scalable objects. In addition to controllable font size, ‘zoom’ imaging control is both incremental and scalable within limits imposed by resolution (pixel density). Unfortunately, printing these web pages may require some experimentation and adjustments on your part. You may want to try the 'Print Preview' and the 'Shrink to Fit' features.

Technical Information

Sometimes an Internet Service Provider (ISP) will save web pages in a cache. This means that a reader may not be viewing the current edition of those pages. This is why I use F5 key to insure that I am have the current page (Some systems require Shift-Ctrl-F5 while others may use F5.) Your provider may have different way of accomplishing this, so check with them. The problem is that others can hijack your web browser or change your home page address and this can cause problems. This is especially true when the hijacker created a ‘clone’ of your website and then added their own material on ‘top’ of yours.

A Uniform Resource Locator (URL) is a web address and browser displays it in an address bar. That is where the F5 key becomes useful. If their material goes away after using the F5 key, then it was illegitimate. If their modification returns, that is proof that someone is hijacking your material. All they had to do is to create a temporary version using your page and they are free to do what they may. See the references below for additional information.

Microsoft Safety and Security Center - Browser Hijacking

Spyware - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Malicious Software

Some programs are not designed to detect and remove certain kinds of malicious software. However, I am not aware that someone has created a comprehensive list of programs that either fail or do work. I had to add Malware Bytes and SpyBot to my tool kit after having to deal with multiple malicious threats. The reason that I did this is that many general purpose anti-virus programs are not effective against new viruses and special threats. For additional information, see Wikipedia - Antivirus Software.

 


Credit Bureau Resources

Equifax
www.equifax.com
1-800-685-1111
Equifax Information Services, LLC
PO Box 740241
Atlanta, GA 30374
Experian
www.experian.com
1-888-EXPERIAN
National Consumer Assistance Center
PO Box 2002
Allen, TX 75013
TransUnion
www.transunion.com
1-800-888-4213
TransUnion LLC Consumer Disclosure Center
PO Box 1000
Chester, PA 19022

 


Recommended Reading and Viewing

"Abused Men: The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence", Phillip W. Cook
"Actual Innocence", Barry Scheck, Peter Neufeld, and Jim Dwyer
"Bipolar Disorder", Francis Mark Mondimore
"Elusive Innocence: Survival Guide for the Falsely Accused", Dean Tong
"Gaslight", Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer (1944)
"Girl, Interrupted", Columbia Pictures  (Not suitable for persons under 18.)
"How to Lie With Statistics", Darrell Huff
"Mayo Clinic on Depression", Keith Kramlinger
"Narcissistic Personality Disorder", Joanna M. Ashmum
"O.J. The Last Word", Gerry Spence
"Prone to Violence", Erin Pizzey
"Stop Walking on Eggshells", Paul T. Mason and Randi Kreger
"The Abuse Excuse", Alan M. Dershowitz
"The Language Police", Diane Ravitch
"The Right to Privacy", Ellen Alderman and Caroline Kennedy
"The Seven Sins of Memory", Daniel L. Schacter
"The War Against Boys: How Misguided Feminism Is Harming Our Young Men", Christina Hoff Sommers
"The Wicked World of Women", Erin Pizzey
"What is a Personality Disorder?", Joanna M. Ashmum
"Who Stole Feminism?: How Women Have Betrayed Women", Christina Hoff Sommers
"Working With Violent Women", Erin Pizzey

 

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