The Abused Men's Area

The problem is that current law does not protect males from false accusations,
 it's all about funding and that's the point.

This page was last updated on Sunday, February 12, 2012.

Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) is a form of depression that affects some persons and typically occurs during fall or winter and usually goes away during  spring and summer.  So avoid being a shut-in.  It's time for winter frolics and finding useful things to do.

Rickets is a deficiency disease that affects the young, and is caused by failure to assimilate and use calcium and phosphorus normally due to inadequate sunlight or Vitamin D. This results in the production of soft and deformed bones. So long ago, diaries added 400 International units of Vitamin D to their milk. This was, and still is, the recommended daily allowance.  However, in older persons, inadequate Vitamin D results in the loss of calcium and other mineral leading to osteoporosis, especially in women. This is a condition characterized by decreased in bone mass and density which leads to the enlargement of the bone spaces producing increased porosity and fragility

The fall and winter seasons are characterized by declining sunlight while spring and summer months are characterized by increasing temperatures and sunlight. During the fall and winter seasons, most people especially in the far north or far south do not get enough sunlight. This is why those people may need additional amounts of Vitamin D. However, it turns out that many people benefit from adding up to 4000 International Units (IU) of Vitamin D3 (cholecalciferol) to the 400 (IU) of Vitamin D that is usually provided by most multivitamin pills. However, your physician may want to adjust your dosage according to your needs.

Egalitarianism (1885) is an idea that advocates the removal inequalities among people. It supports human equality in all matters including economic, political, and social rights. Feminism (1895) is a theory that embraces political, economic, and social equality without regard to gender. The only difference between egalitarianism and feminism is ten years. However, feminism is now being redefined by a cabal of women who are working to overturn personal rights for anyone but themselves.

The standards of conduct have been always higher for men than for women. The reason for this is that women enjoy a greater latitude in interpreting what is and is not appropriate behavior. The problem is that some women take advantage of this inequity to satisfy their propensity to lie. This is why men have the right to refuse to be alone with a female anywhere without witnesses. Without witnesses, false claims are easily made and that's what some women do.  So we have to change the laws about rape and abuse so that these false claims are treated as a felony.

Your Bank Account - No Privacy Law in Banking for Ordinary Citizens

When a man works from home, as more people are now doing, additional problems arise. Under most orders, he will be summarily evicted, and thus lose access to phones, business records, and equipment, without recourse. This means that he cannot earn income although he may be ordered to pay spousal support although his own separate bank account was emptied by his wife. The police are often in cahoots because there no privacy law in banking. So the authorities do not have to inform the account holder (you) that they are monitoring your account.

Worse yet, is that a person can be ordered by the courts to leave his home that he owned before his marriage. While most states recognize separate property, they also realize that it can be used as leverage that would strip a man of his real and personal property. This is often done through extortion and the simple alteration of documents that he had signed in good faith, it happens all too frequently.  I have not seen any records that any female has been prosecuted for her lying or her failure to appear and that proves the existence of persistent genderism in our courts. The word for this is 'sadism' and that what these women been doing to men.

The Second Wives' Club and Spousal Support

The Orlando Sentinel claims a Florida bill that would address spousal support abuses would be a windfall for ‘wealthy men who cheat on their wives’. If that were true, what were the wives of these men doing? Perhaps ‘wanton wives’ would be a better choice of words because women are four times more likely to have extra marital affairs than men. That particular statistic only refers to paternity and doesn’t include same gender and other kinds of relationships where more than civil pleasantries are exchanged.  According to the American Association of Blood Banks the false paternity percentages are 27.9% (domestic) and 30.5% (foreign).  Since not all children were tested, the percentage of false paternity results could be either higher or lower but this says nothing about adultery. But what is known is that women who falsely claim abuse are more likely to be concealing an illicit affair with one or more men or women.

There is nothing in the Constitution that says that a woman is entitled to lifetime spousal support. If that were so, more women would be marrying men for their money and possessions without any intention of making a marriage a lifelong commitment. But that is exactly what is happening now. The statistics show that women are far more likely to falsely accuse men of abuse so why should a man be forced to pay tribute as usual to a woman who became an abusive wife? After all, the shield laws protect her from being prosecuted and that’s proof of her guilt.

The point is that these women should have obtained a high school diploma before they married and had worked to improve their skills and opportunities during their marriage. Just because men appear to make more money than women, that notion is offset by the fact that women are more likely to lie about abuse. In turn, this results in legalized extortion that continues to be fostered by the courts.

The other issue is about the Second Wife’s Club. A judge may consider the income or assets of a second spouse when that spouse contributes to the support of the household. The reason is that the obligated spouse now has more of his own money to pay spousal support. In other words, the courts treat the second wife’s income as an increase in her husband’s ability to pay more spousal support to his ex-wife. (Revised: Jan 22, 2012).

Antifeminism

I established the Abused Men’s Area website in 1999 with the purpose of bringing truth to an Internet dominated by women who actually believed that they were the superior gender. So some authors chose to relate these women to the Nazis and in 1989, the term ‘Feminazi’ entered our lexicon. Other authors chose to relate these women to the Chinese Communists because some women’s groups used Mao Zedong’s book (The Little Red Book) for doctrinal guidance.  The became the ‘Redfems’. While these women call themselves feminists, they oppose the Equal Rights Amendment and so they are nothing more than a collection of perverted snobs.  That is why they are the Antifeminists.

Anti-Feminism is doctrine opposes the equality of the sexes and the removal of inequalities among all people so an antifeminist can be female or male. A propagandist seeks to change the way people perceive an issue. So propaganda is simply another way of preventing people from getting the truth. So when a lie is repeated often enough, it becomes seemingly true by sheer repetition. The antifeminists say that men are trying to suppress women, which is exactly what the antifeminists are trying to do and in so doing, they are oppressing women. So in this sense, their propaganda is used to win support for their cause by disseminating lies to obscure the truth. Their goal is the oppression of anyone who opposes them and to create an Orwellian society in their image.

The Point - It's all about Funding and False Allegations

I didn't agree with my instructor in philosophy so I had to take the course again. So my final paper was ‘Human Freedom in a Thermonuclear World’ and he was delighted. He called me in and asked how managed to write such a "wonderful" paper. My reply was that some persons see what they want see and hear what they want hear, of course his wearing a high collar black cape with red lining didn’t help. By coincidence, three years later Harry Nilsson would use these words in his own popular work called ‘The Point’. So it is not what is said that is important, it is who says it that makes it acceptable, and that's the point.

Dick Gregory spoke about Black Power at Sonoma State College in the fall of 1966 and less than 30 students and faculty members attended and I was there. Someone asked Mr. Gregory about Black Power and he quipped "would you consider another power?" Actually, Mr. Gregory and Mr. Dellums have used this unspeakable offensive bold italicized word in the title of their own books. Three semesters later an American born Nazi and his entourage came to the campus in complete Nazi regalia. The crowd was far larger than was expected by college officials. So they had to move the meeting place to the grassy field, east of the field house, and ask for extra security from local and other law enforcement agencies. The Jim Crow mentality still remained and that's the point.

The Violence Against Women Act and other related programs have received at least 25 billion dollars from federal sources alone since 1992. The point is that the VAWA is not about telling the truth and it is about funding. Supporters claim that only "36% of rapes, 24% of attempted rapes, and 26% of sexual assaults" are reported to police. The problem is that how can anyone make that claim without having intimate knowledge of that of the rapist? According to government and private reports, the overall effectiveness of the Violence Against Women Act remains difficult to measure.  The reason for this is that those who get the funding get the attention and a sounding board to convey their message. So lying about abuse is about funding and that’s what these women do.  That's the point.

However, the existence of male victims threatens their notion about the so-called "patriarchy" especially when they are preaching the doctrine of female gender supremacy that allows women to lie and abuse men. So the bigger the lie a woman tells, the more likely that the courts will award all the property and custody of the children to her. Where else can a woman can obtain a restraining order without proof, evict her husband from his home, and have him arrested for violating an order that he knows nothing about.  The problem is that current law does not protect males from false accusations, it's all about funding. That's the point.

The Patriarchs - Abraham was the ancestor of both the Arabs and the Jews. The Arabs trace their ancestry to Abraham's oldest son, Ishmael but the Jews consider Abraham their ancestor through another son, Isaac. So Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob (Isaac’s son) are called the patriarchs, the founding fathers, of the Jews.  This comes from the account of Hagar and Ishmael in the desert and that's the point.

The Admonishment

The right to speak freely is one of the most important rights that we share and remains the ultimate rendering of what we write. However, a United States District Judge has ruled that the act of lying is not a compelling reason to restrict or stop it. The First Amendment was created to protect political speech, religious freedom, and freedom of the press but it didn’t say anything about lying but that is what some people do. Lying is not protected  by the Constitution although judges and prosecutors do it frequently. This is why men have lost their rights and property to those who have lied and that is what this website is about. That's the point.

Although it may be "politically incorrect" to question the veracity of a female’s complaint of rape or abuse, the failure to consider that she may be actually lying eradicates the presumption of innocence. This is especially significant because the crimes of rape and spousal abuse do not require corroborating evidence for conviction in many jurisdictions. Since these claims are often conjured to exclude possible witnesses and physical evidence, the case must hinge on the credibility of an accuser who has everything to gain and nothing to lose.  This is why I write about genderism.

Lying about Rape and Spousal Abuse, Women are almost never charged nor tried.

In February 2010, University of North Dakota student Caleb Warner was thrown out of school after a campus disciplinary board found he had violated criminal laws by sexually assaulting a fellow student. Although Warner was never actually charged with a crime, the Grand Forks, North Dakota Police Department charged her with filing a false report. But his accuser, only known as Murray never appeared to answer the charge. Meanwhile, Warner was banned from campus under the ‘preponderance of evidence’ standard of proof.

The preponderance of anything is simply a greater number or quantity, or a simple majority of one. The reality is that nearly all men are potential defendants no matter of their innocence. In other words, it's up to potential defendants to be extra careful to avoid any situation that might lead to an abuse or a rape charge. The hook is that institutions that don’t adopt these rules could stand to lose all of their federal funding, including student tuition assistance. I cannot imagine why any male would want to attend those institutions which are plagued by an ‘epidemic of rape’, especially if proper investigation and DNA testing is not used to confirm it. 

So the better course is simply to boycott and blacklist those institutions that are hostile to males and make them pay the damages. Moreover, since they have created a hostile environment for men and they should lose their accreditation. That will get their attention because no one would want to seek and hire a graduate from a discredited misandrist institution.

Important Definitions

Preponderance:  The common evidence standard for domestic violence restraining orders is "preponderance of the evidence," often conceptualized as a mere 51/49% likelihood of guilt. However, this is not always true. A preponderance simply means a superiority in number. However, this notion is deceptive because if he says he didn’t and she says he did, there is no superiority in number. If all factors are equal, a preponderance cannot exist (50/50%). So only an outside influence that prefers one outcome rather than the other can change the balance of evidence and that influence is corrupt. One example is the mandatory requirement to arrest a man on the mere word of a woman who has just lied.

The mandatory arrest doctrine ignores the likelihood that a person who has remained law-abiding would not change while a person who has brought false allegations against their husband or partner did. So all anyone had to do is to determine what she or he would or had gained to have to falsely accuse their spouse or partner. So the accuser is actually a guilty person who has something to hide.

Probable Cause:  Probable is something supported by evidence that is strong enough to establish a presumption that something is true but it is not proof. It also means something that is likely to become true or real. Probable cause is reasonable ground for believing that a charge that is well founded. These definitions were established in a time when many believed in the persecution of witchcraft (the 1600's). However, this wasn't the first time that others were persecuted for this, that particular practice goes back thousands of years.

The law says that a law enforcement officer cannot be held liable for a false arrest based on the officer’ s perception of ‘probable cause’ arising from an alleged incidence of domestic violence. This is means that a person who has been falsely arrested and has no recourse against a corrupt law enforcement officer who had adulterated the arrest with his own preconceived notions. So now he has to lie because of his guilty state of mind.

The problem is that ultimately a judge determines probable cause based on the officer’s report and not the officer’s affidavit. In other words, an officer’s report is not a statement made under a promissory oath at the time of its making and at the time of its presentation in court. So there is no incentive for the accuser or the officer to tell the truth. So this is sufficient to prove a single instance of conspiracy between the two. Once established, then all that flows from that instance is false. That’s why men are far more likely to be falsely accused of abuse.

Intimate partner homicides have increased since mandatory arrest laws have gone into effect and the reason for this is that the wrong persons are being arrested. When we take a really good look at violence, women are far more likely to commit violence than men and then lie about it. More often then not, a man is more likely to be a victim of abuse because crooked politicians and cops are fronts for the antifeminist’s propaganda on abuse and rape.

Levels of Evidence: I have checked some sources and here are the levels of innocence, whatever that might be. (1) The preponderance of evidence is the general standard of proof in civil cases. (2) Clear and convincing evidence is that standard of evidence that lies beyond the preponderance of evidence but below reasonable doubt. (3) Reasonable doubt is level of certainty required for a juror to determine the legal validity of the guilt of a defendant. (4) Actual innocence is the absolute certainty of innocence beyond all doubt.

Actual Innocence:  In most venues, a jury cannot return a verdict of actual innocence and that leads to complications in a civil or family court trial. A person can be found innocent in a criminal court and yet lose his home and possessions in a family or civil court.  This happens all too frequently.

The term ‘unfounded’ is not synonymous with the term ‘false allegation’. A false allegation implies that there was sufficient evidence to prove that an allegation was false. However, unfounded claims are those that have no basis in fact and that is why they are unwarranted.

Vexatious litigation is a legal action brought without merit, to harass, subjugate, or control another person. Making a false or petty charge is an abuse of the judicial system and could result in the imposition of legal sanctions against the offender. In practice, female offenders are almost never charged. It’s an unwritten law.

Psychological Denial, Minimization, and Projection

Psychological denial is actually the complete refutation of the reality of a fact that is inconsistent with one’s belief.

Psychological minimization is the process of recognizing or admitting the fact but denying its seriousness. For an example one may admit that some men are abused by their wives but their numbers are so small that they are not important to the ‘big picture’. 

Psychological projection admits both denial and understatement but denies responsibility for their acts by denying responsibility.  So psychological projection is also a defense mechanism where individuals attribute their own unacceptable thoughts and behaviors to others. Projection reduces anxiety by allowing the expression of the subconscious impulses or desires without letting the conscious mind recognize them. This is called willful misattribution: The externalization of blame, guilt, or responsibility. So in a sense, projection is related to minimization and then denial. Friedrich Nietzsche expressed it this way:  When you gaze into the abyss, the abyss gazes unto you.

The Difference Between a Disorder and a Syndrome

A disorder is an abnormal physical or mental condition. For an example, a person may have a liver disorder or a personality disorder.

A syndrome is a group of signs and symptoms that occur together and characterize a particular abnormality or condition. For an example, the Stockholm syndrome refers the tendency of a hostage to bond with, identify with, or sympathize their captor. Battered child syndrome refers to the type and kind of physical and mental injuries that are sustained by a grossly abused child.

A syndrome is also a disease is a condition in a living animal or plant that impairs its normal function and is evident by distinguishing signs and symptoms. For an example, mumps is caused by a virus that causes fever and the swelling of the parotid gland. The parotid gland produces saliva and is located on each side of the face in front and below the ear.

Chicken pox is a short term contagious viral disease, caused by herpesvirus-3, that occurs mostly in children. Its typical symptoms are low-grade fever and the formation of pustules. Shingles is an acute viral inflammation of the sensory ganglia of spinal and cranial nerves associated with a vesicular eruption and neuralgic pains and is caused by reactivation of herpesvirus-3 that caused chicken pox. This condition is also known as herpes zoster.

So a syndrome is a group of signs and symptoms that occur together and characterize a particular abnormality or condition. A syndrome is also a set of concurrent things that usually form an identifiable pattern. So how does a syndrome become a disorder?

A syndrome does not become a disorder by some magical process. The decision is based upon the major symptoms, the indicators that are essential to the diagnosis, and the minor findings that may or may not be present. So a formal description may specify the minimum number of major and minor findings required for the diagnosis. This means that those persons exhibiting a particular syndrome have symptoms and behaviors that occur more frequently than those that would be expected by chance.

New Additions and Updates for the Month of February 2012

The right to speak freely is one of the most important rights that we share and remains the ultimate rendering of what we write. However, a United States District Judge has ruled that the act of lying is not a compelling reason to restrict or stop it. My point is that the First Amendment was created to protect political speech, religious freedom, and freedom of the press but it didn’t say anything about lying.  This is why men have lost their rights and property to those who have lied and that is what this website is about.

Criminal Coercion - Claiming Abuse to Conceal a Crime  - Criminal coercion is kind of extortion formulated to unlawfully restrict another’s freedom by falsely accusing them of a criminal offense such as spousal or child abuse. This action is often designed to deprive a person of their home and property and to impair their credit and personal reputation. Moreover, marriage to a U.S. citizen is sometimes called the "fast lane" to permanent residency because battered spouses and children of U.S. Citizens and lawful residents are entitled to special benefits. This paper is about crooked cops and my account of my ex-wife's false allegations of spousal abuse to conceal property that she stole from me and from other people.  The police knew about the thefts but didn't do anything about it. #

Coveting - A short essay on controlling another's banking records and possessions as one's own property. #

The Patriarchs - Abraham was the ancestor of both the Arabs and the Jews. The Arabs trace their ancestry to Abraham's oldest son, Ishmael but the Jews consider Abraham their ancestor through another son, Isaac. So Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob (Isaac’s son) are called the patriarchs, the founding fathers, of the Jews.  This comes from the account about Hagar and Ishmael in the desert.

Information on Sexual Assault and Rape

Any person can become a victim of sexual assault and sexual battery and the perpetrator can be either female or male. The most important element in proving the crime is the preservation of evidence and time. This means that you must go to the nearest medical facility and get help without delay. The Federal Government and state and local government will pay for this service through various programs. They also can arrange the payments so you will never have to pay the deductible portion of your private medical coverage if you have it. You should never have to pay for the collection of evidence, the government is supposed to do that because they are the custodian of evidence.

Essays and True Accounts

ABO Paternity Blood Testing - ABO blood testing was not designed to identify individuals or determine paternity. It was designed to ensure that a patient received the right type of blood, otherwise, the results could be fatal.  Paternity testing is similar to searching for the one-eyed jack of spades in a deck of cards. Paternity testing simply sorts out which male is the biological father.  Some claim that men often allege that the mother had multiple sexual partners as a part of their defense but that’s not entirely true. The baster method is the most common way of artificial insemination and it only requires repetition.

Abuse and Rape Kits - With a few additions and modifications rape kits can be used to collect evidence of spousal abuse that can be processed and then analyzed in a crime lab. This removes the problem of whom to believe (usually the female) and changes the direction of the investigation to the facts that are a result of DNA testing. For an example, the kit would detect evidence of rape or adultery and the DNA of who did it. Testing for touch DNA may exonerate a person accused of spousal or child abuse. Claims of spousal or child abuse should not be based on what the accuser says but on the biological evidence that may include touch DNA transfers.

Abusive and Violent Women in Relationships - Recognizing the signs.  Since I published my experiences, people have come forward and said that my essay described someone they knew. The words they most often used were 'eerie' and 'chilling'.

Adultery - Adultery is a crime in some states and not in others. Many who write about domestic violence have noticed a strong correlation between adultery and false claims of domestic violence. That is why I now consider adultery as another instance of sexual battery and domestic violence. The reason for this is that adultery can expose an innocent spouse to deadly and sexually transmitted diseases.

Autism - Autism is a developmental disorder that occurs in very early childhood, about age 18 to 36 months.

Automatic Mutual Restraining Orders - A list of these orders and what they are supposed to do.

Banned from the Library  -  A Public Display of Misandry, Pornography, and Violence by antifeminist female librarians.

Behavioral Traits of Abusive Persons and the Signs of Abuse - One person asked me, how do you know when you are being abused. The answer is that when someone feels uncomfortable in a relationship that is the time to end it. This essay describes the behavioral traits of Abusers and the effects of these traits have on their victims.

Blackmail, Extortion, and Larceny - Most claims of abuse are actually blackmail, extortion, and larceny.  Extortion is the obtaining of something of value from a person by force, intimidation, false claim, or by assumed, undue or illegal power, libel, slander, or by falsely accusing a person of a crime. So extortion is the act of extorting money or property; it is an offence committed by an official who engages in those practices; it also can also refer to a gross overcharge, a factual misrepresentation (a lie), or the denial of equal protection of the law.

Child Sexual Abuse - A brief survey of misandrious domestic violence laws, misandry in a U.S. Department of Health and Human Services report relating to child sexual abuse, coercive and suggestive questioning of children, and the San Diego County Grand Jury report on Child Sexual Abuse, Assault, and Molest Issues. 

Child Sexual Assault Issues - The 1991-1992 San Diego County Grand Jury (families and the courts) 1991-1992.

Creutzfeldt-Jakob Disease - This is an extremely rare degenerative brain disorder (a type of spongiform encephalopathy) not caused by Mad Cow Disease. Spongiform encephalopathy refers to the characteristic appearance of infected brains that are filled with holes resembling sponges under a microscope. The initial symptoms may include behavioral changes, confusion, depression, impaired vision, and impaired coordination. Over time, there may be a rapid deterioration of memory and cognition leading to agitation, increased irritability, and changes in personality.

Coveting - A short essay on controlling another's banking records and possessions as one's own property. #

Criminal Coercion - Claiming Abuse to Conceal a Crime  - Criminal coercion is kind of extortion formulated to unlawfully restrict another’s freedom by falsely accusing them of a criminal offense such as spousal or child abuse. This action is often designed to deprive a person of their home and property and to impair their credit and personal reputation. Moreover, marriage to a U.S. citizen is sometimes called the "fast lane" to permanent residency because battered spouses and children of U.S. Citizens and lawful residents are entitled to special benefits. This paper is about crooked cops and my account of my ex-wife's false allegations of spousal abuse to conceal property that she stole from me and from other people. The police knew about the thefts but didn't do anything about it. #

DNA Testing - (1) Every person has unique set of DNA except identical individuals. However, every person’s finger prints are unique.  (2) DNA transfer occurs when someone touches or is touched by something. Touch DNA testing can be used to confirm or disprove an allegation.  (3) Motherless DNA paternity testing can produce false results because the mother, the child, and the purported father may have the same gene at a particular locus (location). This is why DNA testing should be a standard procedure upon the birth of a child. (4) Chimerism is a rare instance where a person has different copies of DNA in their body.  (5) This paper describes the genetic and non-genetic evidence that can be used in testing for false allegations.

Economics - To be Covetous of Another's - This essay includes a quick course in Economics and how it affects people. This essay includes two links to the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation and one link to the Department of Labor Statistics Inflation Counter. These links are located near the end of this paper. The reason that I mentioned this here is that some people may be interested in these statistics because they are a reliable source of information and they may want to see that information first. Moreover, a court may require that a person who has lost their property, depreciate that property using the inflated value of money rather than its actual value. In another topic, according to a report, more than 90% (1.2 million) of VA refinance, loans were tainted with the alleged fraud. The lawsuit has ‘targeted’ several major firms including Bank of America, JP Morgan Chase & Co., and Wells Fargo Bank. (Received October 4, 2011 from EarthLink Inc. and the Associated Press).

Engineering Management in Government Contract Work. - Both government and business management rarely do well in government contract work. (Edward Steven Nunes - Published February 1981 - IEEE Computer Society).

Equal Rights Amendment of 2011 - I bought the Oxford American Desk Dictionary and Thesaurus (3rd Edition, 2010) the other day and it does not contain an entry for misandry. While it does contain an entry for ‘misogyny’ and ‘misogynist’, the editors have included an inaccurate definition for both words. They claim that a misogynist is "a man who hates women" when actually a misogynist is any person who hates women. One the other hand, a misandrist is any person who hates men or refuses to include the word ‘misandry’ in their dictionary. The problem is that men and women do not have the same rights and ratification of the Equal Rights Amendment could give them those rights. As it stands today, a false claim of abuse is only a telephone call away.  Support the Equal Rights Amendment, its text is included in this essay.

False Allegations of Child Abuse - Ten years ago, the San Diego Grand Jury issued a broad report about problems with the justice system.  They noted that the person that makes who makes false allegations are very likely to succeed.

False Allegations of Rape. - This is my personal account of a false rape allegation while the police, prosecutors, and probation department lied and withheld key information. This paper contains the latest update to the law for persons under the age of 18. This is about what the courts and the prosecutors don't want you to know about juvenile law and this should be required reading for all parents of minor children.  A mistaken allegation and a false allegation are different.  It doesn’t take a person more than a moment to know that they have been raped and so there is no reason to wait. A mistaken allegation is easily discovered by testing the evidence.  However a false allegation cannot be tested because the evidence has either dissipated or never was there.  However, false allegations of a rape are a form of cruelty where sexual gratification is attained by inflicting anguish, defamation, and possible imprisonment. This is far more serious than the crime of rape because it takes valuable resources from real victims.

Falsely Accused and the Inequity - Most people do not know what to expect from the legal system so I wrote a paper about it.  This paper gives some helpful suggestions that can protect your rights. Did you know that most Solano County judges receive more than $230,000 per year?  How much do judges receive in your county?  Also, I encourage readers to examine the reports of the San Diego Grand Jury and the testimony of Alan M. Dershowitz.

False and Self-Inflicted Injuries - This paper addresses faked and self-inflicted injuries, false appearances, Munchausen syndrome, and factitious disorders. This paper comes to the salient conclusion that in current law, a mere claim of rape or abuse does not require corroborating evidence for arrest and conviction. That is why dishonest women and prosecutors want it this way because most false claims are made after the evidence would have disappeared. False claims of spousal and child abuse are often easily made and hard to refute, especially if there is no evidence to refute what did not occur. This is always a result of an biased and incomplete investigation.

Familawt - These judges make a farce of family law while they regale in their own depraved conduct. This is unbelievable, contemptible, depraved, and perverted and in their own words and they admit that it is delightful. That is a sign of their sadism and that is what they do. As true contortionists of the law, they are proud of it. Dolores Carr (San Mateo), Charlotte Woolard (SF), Marjorie Slabach (SF), James Mize (Sacramento), Gary Ichikawa (Solano), David Haet (Solano), and Beth Freeman (Not Pictured - San Mateo).

Fugitive Husband Act of 2011 - This is a simple observation of today’s status of abused men in the United States. 

Genderism - I have recently reviewed some new dictionaries (Oxford American and Webster’s Dictionary) and the word ‘misandry’ is missing. However, they did include ‘misogyny’, the hatred of women and so theirs were acts of omission. Although I coined the term ‘Genderism’ some years ago, I did find any use for it until now (2011). Perhaps these namby-pamby publishers are lacking more in ways than I would have imagined and this is a matter where actions define a person's character.  Misandry means the hatred and persecution of males and this paper makes that connection with misogyny. Misogyny did not originally mean the hatred of women, it actually meant hate the Queen, referring to the excesses of Queen Mary I (Bloody Mary).  It is the belief that one’s gender is superior and has the right to control the other. So genderism is that haunting obsession that someone not of their gender might be content, and these genderists want to suppress it.

Genital Practices in Other Countries - This paper briefly describes genital practices in other countries including clitoridectomy and infibulation.  Islam calls for the circumcision of men but not women.  This short essay reveals facts that you may not have known.

Glossary of Terms - What you didn't know about legalese and those other words.

Government Contract Work - Top down design is another way of converting requirements into tasks to be completed. The problem is that ‘all of those oh-by-the-way issues and their add-ons’ never seem to go away.  The problem is that Congress controls Government contract work and that’s why some things seem to never get done.

Impossible Scene - This paper is about an auto accident where the judge ignored the facts and chose to side with the driver who caused the accident.  This is a classic case where the courts ignore the facts and make decisions on the basis of age and gender.

Incredible Pete - A lighthearted interlude.

Legal Immunity - The only reason that someone needs immunity is that they are guilty. That is why guilty women are never brought to trial because they can be compelled to answer questions or submit to testing that can prove their guilt.

Mandatory Prosecution of Those Who Lie - During the 1980's law enforcement agencies adopted mandatory arrest policies that were based on faulty studies that ignored that women were as or more violent than men. As a result, more men were jailed and they subsequently lost all that they owned. So these men remain the true victims of crime, spousal abuse, and official indifference.

Medical Problems and Health Warning Signs - Some other results of abuse.

Miscellaneous - Sometimes a nugget of information leads to greater understanding or something that you didn't know before. Perhaps Newton’s apple did fall from a tree. But then again, perhaps nothing fell - that’s what miscellaneous is all about. You just might find what you are looking for.

Mood Disorders -This paper describes Depression, Bipolar Disorder, Schizophrenia, and Seasonal Affective Disorder with links to official sites.

Nystagmus - Nystagmus is an rapid involuntary oscillation of the eyeballs.  There are three forms of nystagmus: side to side, up and down, and rotary.  The nature of these disorders is not understood.  However, nystagmus can be caused by sleep deprivation or injury.

Papers from the Past - The battle at Cowpens and a future president that changed a country.  The accounting of stores and the return of ordnance in Payola, Kansas during the Civil war.

Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) and False Allegations of Domestic Violence - Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) is the phenomenon where one parent turns a child against the other parent.  House Concurrent Resolution 182 contains false statements and discredited ideology.  While the framers of this resolution dispute the existence of Parental Alienation Syndrome, they certainly have no qualms about alienating a child from its parent. The National Organization for Women (NOW) has objected to the inclusion of Parental Alienation Disorder to the 2012 edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders by the American Psychiatric Association (DSM-V).  I agree because PAS is not a disorder, it is a conscious choice. If an unfit parent can  control a child's environment, then they can invoke a particular response in a child, at will.

Perjury - The legal definition of perjury is that it is the criminal offense of making a sworn false statement that one knows that it is false. The problem is that perjury is almost never prosecuted in most states including California. A State that tolerates, perjury, encourages it. So it is no secret that women’s advocates routinely advise women to file false domestic violence charges with explicit instructions on how to do it. That’s called subornation of perjury.

Personality Disorders and False Claims of Abuse, - This paper describes personality disorders and sexual sadism with links to official sites.

Power of Attorney - A power of attorney is a writing where a person appoints another person to be their agent or representative to do certain specified things for them. An agent cannot use a power of attorney to commit an illegal act against the principal (the appointing person) or another person. So the agent is solely responsible for their own act(s).

Premenstrual Disphoric Disorder - This is a condition that presents symptoms of irritability, depression, and tension. The symptoms of PMDD are more severe than those presented in PMS. It is a condition that is usually only present in females in their reproductive years. PMDD may occur anytime and the diagnosis of this condition may require a complete evaluation.  This essay includes links to other sources and important information for women and parents of girls.

Privacy, A Short Essay - The Right of Privacy is the right claimed by individuals to be left alone and the right to control certain information about themselves. It also covers people's freedom to decide their personal lives in the face of government attempts to regulate behavior. While the laws of most nations accept and acknowledge some right to privacy, the right to privacy is not absolute. Moreover, declarations of privacy do not have the force of law.

Property and Depreciation - Most people do not know about the characterization of property and the different kinds of depreciation.  Using the wrong kind of depreciation can cost you a lot of money.  That is what this brief essay is about. 

Psychological and the Physiological Effects of Abuse - The theme of this essay is that abuse can aggravate pre-existing conditions and create new traumas.  Health care professionals should view sufferers as victims of torture and terrorism.

Restraining Orders -  A female's application for a restraining order is always honored while a man’s application is often delayed or lost or ‘not properly completed’. The reason that most restraining orders are summarily awarded to women, is that they can use them to gain a tactical advantage in court and remove their husband from the home. So as insurance, she claims spousal abuse and as a result, he loses his home and his property. So when the courts deny men their rights then only women have rights.

Rip offs and other scams. - Having to deal with abusive people and their lies is bad enough. We also have to deal with stores who sell rotten food, things that don't work, or products that are unfit for the purpose that they were sold.  This is what this topic is about.

Signs and Symptoms of Abuse. - A chart of signs, symptoms, and indications of abuse.

Statistics on Family Violence and Abuse - Females and prosecutors contrive more than 90 percent of all false allegations and neither are punished for lying. The actual day-to-day percentage cannot be precisely stated because false accusations are a result of the accuser’s whims. So when extortion and lying are included in the statistics, women are far more likely than men to abuse. The problem is that many states define sexual crimes other than male-on-female penetration as sexual assault rather than rape. Since there are no national standards for defining female-on-male offenses, female-on-male crimes are not recognized nor included in most state’s statistics.

The Propensity to Spend - A brief essay on taxes and spending.  The Gross National Product (GNP) is simply the total value of the goods and services produced by the residents of a nation during a specified period (such as a year). The gross domestic product (GDP) is the gross national product excluding the value of net income earned abroad. This essay explains a few economic terms and concepts used in domestic and in international trade.

The Testimony of Alan M. Dershowitz - To House of Representatives Judiciary Committee on Perjury.

Tourette Syndrome - This is a neurological disorder where the symptoms include repetitive involuntary spasmodic movements and vocalizations (profanity) that can be mistaken for antisocial behavior.

Veterans' Home Ownership - Many veterans are losing their homes to their spouse who has falsely accused them of abuse. Once a court evicts the veteran, his spouse and her relatives can move in and steal his property. I had a home and personal property worth more than $200,000. The court awarded me $10,000 that I never received and a check for $431.14 from 1st Nationwide Mortgage (No. 855604240) that I couldn't cash. The court refused to endorse it, after it promised that it would. The courts only exist for women because judges and women are above the law. We are the castaways who have been bilked of our property and savings by those liars and thieves in black robes.

Veteran's Administration Dunning Notice -  A dunning notice is simply a persistent demand for payment. The demand itself is legal unless it is intended to force someone to pay for something that they didn’t owe. Modern statutes make it an offense to employ threats or the illegal use of fear or coercion to obtain money. I went to the Mare Island Clinic on December 14, 2011 and explained the situation. They resolved the problem and I didn’t owe anything. The VA has warned veterans of identity theft and false claims of indebtedness.

Who Gets the Arms? - The Second Amendment to the Constitution is perhaps the most misunderstood of all of the amendments. The Domestic Violence Offender Gun Ban (1997) - This act bans shipment, transport, ownership and use of guns or ammunition by individuals convicted of misdemeanor domestic violence or who are under any restraining order for domestic abuse in all 50 states. False claims of abuse are a woman’s favorite weapons in divorce and their lying is very rarely prosecuted. So who gets the arms?  FBI Statistics:  Females made up 70% of victims killed by an intimate partner in 2007, a proportion that has changed very little since 1993. This means that the police are still arresting the wrong persons because the statistics have not changed much in 14 years.

Wills and Testaments - I always thought that a person’s separate property was their own and that they could do any legal thing they wanted with it. I was wrong. It seems that the states have established rules about what a person may do with their own property.

Xiana Fairchild - She died of neglect because the local child protective service agencies refused to protect her from her mother and county's sexual child  abusers. They acted as procurers of children rather than the protectors of children.

The Danger of Air Bags and Large Vehicles

I have objected to air-bags since their inception. The only reason that air-bags were installed in cars was that drivers and passengers refused to use their seatbelts, shoulder harness, and head restraints. The head restraints were designed to prevent whiplash that causes injury to the neck that is part of the spinal column. If the spinal column is broken, the victim may not survive. The problem was that air-bags were dangerous to children and small persons.

So the government decided that small children would be placed in the back seat. Many manufacturers failed to include the shoulder safety belt and harness assembly with an adjustable head rest for the passengers in the back seat. Unfortunately, the head rest in the back seat created another problem, the driver could not see either by direct observation or with the rear view mirror.  Moreover, trucks and sport utility vehicles created another problem, they obstruct the vision of drivers in smaller vehicles.  Try backing a car from a parking place when you can’t see past the vehicle or trailer parked next to you. The solution is this; move the parking area for vehicles that exceed specific dimensions to a different place so that others can safely see.

Recommended Reading and Viewing

"Abused Men: The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence", Phillip W. Cook
"Actual Innocence", Barry Scheck, Peter Neufeld, and Jim Dwyer
"Bipolar Disorder", Francis Mark Mondimore
"Elusive Innocence: Survival Guide for the Falsely Accused", Dean Tong
"Gaslight", Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer (1944)
"Girl, Interrupted", Columbia Pictures  (This film is not suitable for persons under 18.)
"Mayo Clinic on Depression", Keith Kramlinger
"Narcissistic Personality Disorder", Joanna M. Ashmum
"O.J. The Last Word", Gerry Spence
"Prone to Violence", Erin Pizzey
"Stop Walking on Eggshells", Paul T. Mason and Randi Kreger
"The Abuse Excuse", Alan M. Dershowitz
"The Language Police", Diane Ravitch
"The Right to Privacy", Ellen Alderman and Caroline Kennedy
"The Seven Sins of Memory", Daniel L. Schacter
"The War Against Boys: How Misguided Feminism Is Harming Our Young Men", Christina Hoff Sommers
"The Wicked World of Women", Erin Pizzey
"What is a Personality Disorder?", Joanna M. Ashmum
"Who Stole Feminism?: How Women Have Betrayed Women", Christina Hoff Sommers
"Working With Violent Women", Erin Pizzey

Technical Notes

Microsoft's Internet Explorer 6 resizes some images causing loss in detail.  This information might not be applicable to other versions. To disable this resizing feature, please follow these directions. 

1. In the File Box click on >> .
2. Select Tools and click on Internet Options.
3. In the Internet Options menu click on the Advanced (rightmost) tab.
4. Scroll down to the Multimedia options section.
5. Click on the check box for Enable Automatic Image Resizing.
6. A check mark enables the resizing feature and an empty box disables the feature.
7. Click on the Apply and then the Ok buttons.

Changing the Font Size in Microsoft Internet Explorer

For years I have used a font size of three or four to write my web pages. Then I changed the font size to five so that those who have limited sight may read them. The problem is that a font size of five is much larger than I want and it does waste paper for those who want to print a particular essay.  Microsoft's  Internet Explorer has a feature that I didn’t know about.

It allows the reader to change the apparent font size to suit their needs. This feature is located in the view toolbar at the top of the screen.  Click on View from the top menu and move down to Text Size. You can now change the text to one of five sizes - Largest, Larger, Medium, Smaller and Smallest.  I have not tried this on all my printers.  Some printers and word processors treat fonts as scalable objects.  In addition to controllable font size, ‘zoom’ imaging control is both incremental and scalable within limits imposed by resolution (pixel density).  Unfortunately, printing these web pages may require some experimentation and adjustments on your part.  You may want to try the 'Print Preview' and the 'Shrink to Fit' features.

Searching This Web Site

This site is self indexed through a service provided by Atomz. To use this index, please use the 'Search This Site' feature.

At one point, my website had two entrances because some search engines were insisting that I really meant ‘The Abused Women’s Area’. Apparently, they did not think that abused men could ever exist and if they did, they would be as operantly rare as ice cubes in hades. So the Abused Men’s Area became ‘TAMA’ but I changed it back to ‘ABINDEX’ to make it consistent with past editions.

Depending on your web browser, most navigation symbols appear as arrows at the top of each web page. If an arrow points to the left, that arrow means that you can go to the preceding web page. If the arrow points to the right, that arrow means that you can go to the next page. So you do not have to ‘backtrack’ to get where you want to go. Moreover, this gives you the ability to go to another web page and then return to the page that you were reading.

A blue or magenta colored word or phrase indicates a clickable object that leads to additional information. To search a page with Microsoft Internet Explorer use the Ctrl f or Ctrl F keystroke combination. The browser's search or find box will appear shortly.  Every beginning page has a date indicator in the header title that keeps track of the date that I last changed that page.  The pound red pound sign (#) may be used to indicate a new essay or a recent revision to an existing one.

Credit Bureau Resources

Current Legislation

Existing law authorizes a court to issue an order for spousal support. It sets forth various circumstances the court is required to consider in issuing the order. This includes, among other things, the ability of the supporting party to pay spousal support, and the obligations and assets of each party. This bill would require the court also to consider the extent to which income for support was already capitalized and paid to the other spouse in the division of community property. This is done to avoid double counting income [sic] when the result would be inequitable. The other problem is that if any payer receives a raise in pay or a windfall, they cannot refuse it though it would mean that they would incur an additional tax burden. (California SB 481)

In a newer development, payers of spousal or child support may be required to pay for their spouse’s or children’s college education and their vocational training and may cost more than $60,000 a year. Here is the problem. According to The World Book Almanac (2012), sometimes, the reporting standards are not met and the estimates are unstable because the standard error represents more than 30% of the estimate. In other words, the guess (the standard error) is as reliable as gelatin nailed to a fence.

When most people had graduated from high school in the 1960's, they had the requisite skills to get a job. However, some went on to Junior College (now called Community College) to receive specialized vocational training while others completed their first two years of college. So dropout rates for students were much lower for students who first attended Junior College and then went to a ‘prestigious’ institution to complete their education. However, the dropout rates are much higher now than they were then and there is no guarantee that a person’s spouse or children will complete their education.

It's Good to Have a Revolution from Time to Time

Time is nature’s way of keeping everything from happening simultaneously. Otherwise, there would be no necessity for time (A discourse on the dualism of Rene Descartes (1967)). Absolutism and Human Freedom cannot exist in a thermonuclear world (1968). It's good to have a revolution from time to time, it brings vitality and substance to human freedom and to those other good endeavors that remain (2011).

Carpe Diem

02/12/2012 22:38:37