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Welcome to our Web site!

I first participapated in the Landmark Forum many years ago. I have done just about every course Landmark Education has to offer. My wife Sandy, was on paid staff with Landmark Education for four and a half years. Today I am a successful Internet consultant. My company designs web sites. I have been married for 17 years and have 3 beautiful children. The reason I have participated with Landmark Education for so long is because it works! We live lives we love! This is the bottom line. There is nothing else I have done that has made as big a difference as the Landmark Forum. I credit my marriage and successful family life in large part to the Landmark Forum. Here is my top 3 list about the ways the Forum has made a difference in my family life.

  1. I would have a completely different family or would not be married at all if not for Landmark. I met my wife while assisting (volunteering) at Landmark 18 years ago. We fell in love and got married two years later.

  2. Everyone has little pet peeves or things about their mate that can be annoying like leaving the toothpaste cap off or not putting the seat down. In the past, I would literally make a list of these little things and they would start to add up over time. Weeks or months later I would start to relate to my wife as the accumulation of these little things instead of the person she is. Eventually I could even forget why I was mad and wind up in an argument with my wife that could go on for days and not even realize what had happened. I credit The Landmark Forum for allowing me to first see what was happening and then let go of the little irritations that build up over time. Instead of keeping a list and getting mad I can let these things go in the moment. I don't think I would have had 16 happy years of marriage without The Landmark Forum

  3. Picture this: It's the end of a long day at work. I am  tired and cranky. I just spent half the day on the phone with an irate client and then fought rush hour traffic to make it home hoping to have a little peace and quiet. When I get there I notice that my wife has invited the neighbors kids over, so instead of 3 children there are now 6 kids running around the house. They want to play with me. They want to start jumping on Daddy's belly the instant I walk in the door. Before the Landmark Forum I would have A) Shaken the kids off my legs and hibernated for the rest of the evening. B) Turned around and walked out C) Made my wife and family wrong for the next 15 minutes. After the Landmark Forum  Daddy A) Explains that he had a hard day and needs 10 minutes to change his clothes before they start jumping on his belly B) Sits down on the couch and lets the kids start jumping on his belly right away C) Gives his wife and kids a big hug and kiss so they get their Daddy is home, he is present, and he loves them very much.

- Steve  F.


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