How
do boobs develop in a young girl?
The development of boobs in a young girl usually starts about
a year before the beginning of the menstrual period as part
of puberty, along with the first appearance of pubic hair.
The whole development process spans several years, with a
lot of individual variation. The main development stages are:
| Stage
1: During childhood the breasts are flat.
Stage
2: Breast Bud Stage:
In
this stage three main changes happen, all due to the
early formation of milk ducts and fatty breast tissue:
- the
breast becomes ever so slightly raised (but still
sometimes barely visible),
- and
the nipple becomes slightly puffy
- the
areola begins to enlarge.
Stage
3: There is further growth in this stage, beginning
in a conical shape, later in a more and more round
shape. It is during this stage that the areola begins
to darken.
Stage
4:
The nipple and the areola now form a separate structure
or secondary mound within the developing breast area,
although not all girls go through this stage. A girl's
period usually starts about two years after reaching
this stage.
Stage
5:
The breast now completes its growth during puberty
into a round shaped structure.
And breasts change in terms of both shape and composition
over the years. The breast in a teen girl is usually
hemispherical, rounded and equally full in all areas,
but as a woman gets older, the topside of the breast
tissue begins to settle to a lower position and the
skin stretches and so the shape of the breast changes.
Then after menopause, with it's decrease of hormonal
activity, the composition itself of the breast changes:
the amount of glandular tissue decreases and while
fat and ductal tissue become the predominant components.
Continued reduction in what's called glandular volume
results in further looseness of the breast skin. But
remember that at any stage, given widespread variability
there is no single concept of a "normal"
breast either in terms of size or shape: click here
- Normal
Breasts Photo Gallery - to see a gallery
of normal breasts spanning every size and shape, courtesy
of 007
Breasts (warning: candid images but
not pornographic)..
 For
more information, check out the Breast
Questions (to go straight there, click
on the "Breast Questions" icon) section
of the Cool Nurse site (to go to home page of Cool
Nurse, click on Cool Nurse icon);
this is an excellent site with authoritative health
information, founded and run by Amy, an RN (Registered
Nurse); also great sections on Gyn
Stuff, and Teen
Health Topics (for mature teens).
And
for more information about girls and body image, also
check out the
section of links for Girls
on the new Girlistic.com,
a smart new feminist resource directory, growing rapidly
in size and scope (some content may be appropriate
only for more mature teens).
Girlistic already includes links to three great resources:
(1) The nonprofit youth organization
celebrating girlhood, Girls,
Inc., with a discussion forum on Body
Image.
(2) Teen
Voices Online, the web edition of the national
magazine publishing poems, stories, what teens really
have to say; also includes some good Body
Image resources for teens.
(3) New Moon
Magazine, a multi-cultural magazine for
girls ages 8-14: as they say "the magazine
for every girl who wants her voice heard and her
dreams taken serious", with poetry, fiction,
letters, art, educational resources, and lots more.
Just three fab resources from Girlistic.com;
check back frequently to the site as they continue
to add more great links.
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How
long does it usually take for your boobs to fully develop?
From
the early breast bud stage (stage 2) until stage 5 typically
takes about 3 - 5 years, but it may take take close to 10
years, and sometimes even more, in some girls - individual
variation here is wide. And the beginning point is also
variable, with some girls showing breast development as
early as when 8 years old, with others starting as late
as when 13 years old. (Since breast buds and pubic hair
are the first signs of puberty, the general advice is that
if these don't start to develop by age 14, a doctor showed
be consulted). And although it is often said - without substantial
scientific verification - that a young women's breast size
is largely determined by age 19, there is so much variability
here too that it is known that for some
breasts continue to develop into the your 20's or 30's,
changing in both size and shape,
depending and a complex brew of genetics, hormonal levels
and other body chemistries and other factors of maturation
not wholly understood.
Why
do teens worry so much about their boobs and body image?
Puberty
and boobs: Teenage years,
or puberty, is the time of many changes, and of course for
girls, one of those changes, developing breasts, is one of
the many stormy and dramatic - but wonderful - changes young
girls go through in puberty, and because breasts and breast
size are visible and easily noticeable under clothes and because
of broad cultural emphasis by media along with the enhanced
attention by teen boys, many teenage girls begin worrying
about their breasts not developing early or fast enough, possibly
compared with friends and possibly compared also with the
idealized images seen in magazines, on TV, and in movies.
Up
front about boobs: And unlike the development of
pubic hair at puberty, boobs are "out there"
for all to notice and sometimes remark on, not always
with sensitivity to the feelings of the owner (there is a
famous book by Meema Spadola entitled "Breasts:
Our Most Public Private Parts). Sure, teen boys sometimes
worry about the size and growth of their penises, but unlike
boobs a penis is usually not as visible under at least everyday
clothing, so teen boys tend not to have quite the same level
of pressure and anxiety. Furthermore and perhaps unfortunately
for girls, society often defines females as the "objects
of desire" and so focuses more attention on female
looks and anatomy. If you're thinking: not fair!, most
health professionals would agree. Studies on body image have
consistently found that boys are significantly less critical
of their appearance than young girls/teens, and in one study,
normal-weight girls expressed considerably more anxiety about
their looks not only compared to normal-weight boys, but
even compared to boys who were obese. So there is no doubt
that society and other factors take far more of a toll with
respect to body image on young girls than on young boys, and
scientific studies confirm this. So, definitely, not fair!
A higher standard for females and
boobs: In most societies, females young and older
are judged on appearance far more than men, and standards
of female beauty, attractiveness and sexuality are not only
considerably higher but also far more inflexible. Females
constantly are reminded by society of images of the "ideal"
figure, and it is well-known that constant exposure to such
idealized images of female beauty tend to make it appear that
exceptional good are normal, so to fall short of such largely
unattainable perfection may be considered abnormal. And since
boobs are by and large the most visible "feminine"
aspect of the female body, disproportionate attention to an
idealized female figure often translates to disproportionate
emphasis on boobs and their value in female beauty and sexuality.
Boob worry:
Concern over body image can easily therefore become a source
of anxiety and stress, with some girls feeling embarrassed
and uncomfortable during
breast development, sometimes avoiding undressing in front
of other girls or even their moms. Such concerns are however
natural and in America a virtually unavoidable part of growing
up female: there's probably a single American female living
who hasn't worried about her appearance and attractiveness
in general, and her boobs in particular. Again, studies confirm
this: by age thirteen, 53 percent of American girls are unhappy
with their bodies, but in worse, by age seventeen, 78 percent
are dissatisfied - that's about 4 out of every five girls!
And this continues in adulthood, where it was found that by
far the majority of adult American women are not happy with
their boobs in one way or another. Remember the trends:
- a
quarter of a million women go for breast implants
- and of these, more than 3,000 are age 18 and younger!
- breast
enlargement operations are becoming much more common,
and
-
sales of push-up bras and other enhancement
aids are booming,
along with Internet-based herbal formulas and creams claiming
to "add inches to your bust".
(We
address what works and what doesn't later, below).
Good
Reads for Mature Teens:
On this issue, check out How
can you tell if a person is booby-trapped? and you
can take a quiz
to see if You
Are Booby-Trapped? (from Dr. Nili Sachs who wrote
the book Booby-Trapped:
How to Feel Normal in a breast-Obsessed World about
America's obsession with females' breasts.
And
there's Deal
with It!: A Whole New Approach to Your Body, Brain, and
Life as a gURL, which grew out of the famous Deal
with It! interactive question/answer online service
from the folks at gURL,
one of the best online communities for teenage girls, with
stories, games, interactive content, and great discussions
of the issues that affect the lives of girls age 13 and
up (For mature teens:
frank talk on sexuality, emotions, and body image). The
book, like the online community, gives girls the goods on
sexuality, their bodies and growing up as a young female
in general. And if you're at least thirteen,
of course check out the hip and fun yet very informative
gURL
itself,
created by by Esther Drill, Heather McDonald and Rebecca
Odes: it's got evereything - Help
Me Heather where you can ask anything and get expert
advice back, Shout
Out Boards which are discussion boards where you
can you can shout out to other gURLs or leave a message
for the gURL staff, gURL
Rooms where you can create your very own personal
room to both get and give advice, make new friends,or publsih
anything, cool gURL
Games and gURL
Quizzes, and a free gURL
Newletter!
Society,
culture and boobs: But to scientists this is not
surprising: magazine ads, media and television parade images
where most women are shown as slim and typically with well-developed
if not downright oversized boobs, and these model-image women
are represented - and misrepresented would be more accurate
- as uniquely attractive to male attention largely because
of their typically large boobs, and new media forms like MTV
video often go further, often only representing hypersexualized
and overdeveloped girls and women. So with females bombarded
by these images daily in so many different forms and outlets,
it is not surprising that most girls and women - and large
segments of the not wholly mature male population - begin
to internalize (largely subconsciously) such images as the
ideal form of the female body to be striven for. The subversive
and confidence-undermining implicit message is "boobs
make the woman", ridiculously reducing the amazing
complexity of a female to one anatomical part.
Boobs
elsewhere and at other times:
And few teens reflect on how artificial such a narrow and
immature concept of female body image and female attractiveness
and sexuality is and how it has been promoted, distorted,
and enhanced by media-oriented society. In such media boobs
- the larger the better is the claim - are always shown as
something every guy desperately yearns to see and fondle,
even though in cultures and societies outside of the U.S.,
boobs are not the holy grail of female attractiveness: so
in much of Europe topless women at beaches are normal and
don't inspire half-crazed male attention, very public and
open breastfeeding does not raise an eyebrow (this at least
is beginning to be the case here also), and French television
has for years customarily shown bare-breasted women in commercials
on standard programs. In addition, societal attitudes about
breast size are often influenced by fashion, so that in the
Flapper days of the 1920s, small boobs were definitely in,
and this was also true in the l960s when fashion focused on
an ultra-thin sometimes emaciated body image with even a relatively
flat-chested look being promoted. In fact, flat chest were
so "in" during the 1920's that fuller busted girls
resorted to bandaging their breasts flat! (check out: The
Flat Chest of the Twenties). Then attitudes, fashions
and style shifted again in complex and for not wholly understood
reasons - and synchronized with the the arrival of the first
Wonder Bra and similar enhancement aids - larger boobs became
fashionable again, although even today there is a lot of variability
among and within economic, racial and ethnic (and sometimes
geographical) subcultures, regions and groups. (For a funny
romp through the history of boobs and boob fashion, see The
Strapless, Heaving, Revealing History of Boobs).
 And
beginning in the sixties and continuing to today, women have
sometimes taken their boobs into the political protest arena,
with the "Boobs Not Bombs" and "Breasts
Not Bombs" antiwar campaigns, and also in the anti-fur
and anti-animal cruelty campaigns with
the topless protestors of PETA
(People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals). And in a famous
law case of 2004 - 2005, a Florida woman, Elizabeth Book,
was judged by a Florida court to be within her legal rights
when she went topless during a political protest as part of
Bike Week: both a city and state ordinance allows an exemption
to its anti-nudity law as long as the nudity is restricted
to the upper part of a women's body and is part of a political
protest or other constitutionally protected issue, establishing
the now widely-recognized legality of topless political
protest in public.
The
Good news: What do guys really think about a girl's boobs
and the size of her boobs?
Well, it turns out that real men's (not those depicted in
TV and movies) attitudes towards boobs are more complicated
than previously thought. Phil
Hilton, former editor of Men's Health magazine, said in an
interview with newspaper The Independent that "Men are
far less discerning than women take them for. Men
think all breasts are good and are delighted to have access
to any at all. The idea that they
are connoisseurs is inaccurate" (as quoted on HelpMyFlatChest.com).
So:
men would be more than happy with whatever they got, and for
men, proportion and shape in the female form is often the
determining factor - bodies in proportion are often considered
far more attractive, so if you're a small frame, you would
look out-of-proportion with massive boobs. It seems from surveys
that men love the curvaceous shape of breasts more than their
size and volume, and look for a female body image with appealing
proportions. And it is known from other research and surveys
that teen boys actually find natural
breasts fascinating and sexy in any and all shapes or sizes.
Indeed, recent Internet surveys of males seeking adult content
shows an amazingly high interest in sites that specifically
depict small-breasted females - as sexually attractive and
erotic to males. But in the last analysis, remember (see also
below) that boobs
are only one aspect of female beauty
and don't trump other factors.
[A
techie note: Studies by Singh and Young (Ethology
and Sociobiology, 1995), Furnham and co-researchers
(Personality and Individual Differences, 1998), and
many others after that found that, rather than being an
independent criterion of sexual attractiveness, the desirability
of any particular breast size was a function of both total
body weight and the waist-hip ratio. And in the study by
Horvath (Archives of Sexual Behavior, 1981), although
females associated both small and medium-sized breasts with
attractiveness, males did not associate
a particular breast size with attractiveness!
There's hope yet!]
Boys are from Mars, Girls are from
Venus: Now, you could ask: why is there such
a divergence between on the one hand what boys (and many
males) really think about boobs, and on the other both:
(1) what girls think about boobs and
(2) what girls think boys think
about boobs?
One problem is of course that girls rarely consult boys
- or any male for that matter - on the subject of boobs,
getting most of their feedback in the dark as it were, from
other girls. And another related problem is that girls deduce
most of what boys think about boobs from male teen public
behavior in peer groups - from teen boys in groups at school
and elsewhere and how they behave in public around girls;
but male teen public behavior is highly subject to peer
pressure and what they perceive as societal and cultural
expectations of public male behavior towards girls and their
boobs, often taking their cues from popular media and culture,
and this is not the same as what an individual teen boy
feels in private, especially when confronted with a real
girl he likes independent of her boob size and shape.
Putting
boobs in perspective: So
sure boobs are a very feminine body part (along with things
like long hair, curved hips, and maybe also shapely legs,
etc.)
but
a
female's attractiveness, sexuality and appeal can't be reduced
to a sum of body parts, and
other subtle factors of character and personality, self-confidence,
grace and elegance in movement and comportment, sense of
humor, sensitivity, clothes, fashion and color style, among
many others are at least as important as the size and shape
of her breasts in determining what makes a girl or woman
attractive and desirable to men (and - at least as important
- to herself!).
Your own attitude about accepting your own unique body and
boobs - whatever size and shape - plays a vital role in
projecting your own confidence and comfort with your appearance.
It's important not only to not
let society and culture measure
your worth by the size of your boobs,
but also to not let yourself equate your own
self-worth and value with just your anatomy - have those
who matter like, love, want and respect you for who you
are, your unique persona and character, not your bra size.
And to promote a positive and assertive attitude to boobs
one
company,
I
Like My Boobs,
sells various t-shirts, tote bags,
buttons, mugs, even a cool I Like My Boobs mousepad!
(shown here on left and above - click
on mousepad to go to their site).
My
boobs are small - is there any way I can make them bigger
or grow faster without surgery?
Boobs come in all sizes
and shapes and as we said above, anxiety about boob size
is a natural and very common concern among young girls and
especially teens, and unfortunately
there are a lot of misconceptions and myths surrounding
this issue, especially in popular media and on the Internet,
and sometimes even among health professionals. For example:
Myth 1: Your boobs are fully developed by age 19 or so
and won't grow any further.
Truth: As we note above, this is incorrect: some
breasts continue to develop into the your 20's or 30's,
changing in both size and shape.
Myth 2: There's nothing non-surgical (that is, short
of implants or breast augmentation surgery) a girl can do
about having small boobs.
Truth: There are several safe and
effective things a girl can do short of surgery to achieve
a modest boost in the size of her boobs - and
we discuss all of these in this section.
So here's what every young girl needs to know:
Boob size and what determines it:
If you read the sections above, you already understand that
breast development is highly variable and everyone's boobs
grow at different rates, both in terms of stages (and when
they occur), and in terms of size and shape at any point
in time. Many factors influence all this and your ultimate
breast size, including:
(1)
your estrogen levels,
(2) physical health and body mass, and
(3) genetics/heredity - your own personal DNA programming,
(4) certain drugs (mainly the antidepressant paroxetine
Paxil, mirtazapine (Remeron) and certain other agents
in the same category)
(5) other less well-understood factors and influences,
and later in life, pregnancy, menopause, and body weight
continue to influence fluctuating breast size.
It is commonly
thought that heredity plays the largest but by no means
not exclusive role.
So
what works (+), what doesn't (-):
(1) Estrogens and Phytoestrogens
(-):
Of the three major hormones affecting the breast, estrogen,
progesterone and prolactin, estrogen appears to have the
greatest influence, but manipulating hormones to influence
breast size is simply neither safe nor practical given well-established
concerns about stimulating excessive cell growth and hence
potentially increasing the risk of breast cancer (see our
Breast
Cancer Watch for more information
on estrogen and breast cancer risk). Note this is true both
of estrogen and its various derivatives itself, as well
as of phytoestrogens - plant and plant-like substances with
potential hormonal activity (like soy, isoflavones and others).
(2) Progesterones (-):
Many herbal breast enhancement products are pitched on the
basis of their claimed effect on the hormone progesterone.
And it is true that when taken as a pill, progesterone does
increase breast size, and fairly safely (see the scientific
review of Breast
Enhancement undertaken by the well-respected
ConsumerLab).
There are two problems with this approach, however: first,
progesterone works its magic on breasts by stimulating the
growth and development of milk-producing breast cells, and
second, although it may be possible to adjust preparation
and/or dose to avoid inappropriate effects in non-nursing
females, there is to date no scientific evidence that any
product has accomplished this. Furthermore, it was found
that despite vendor clams, Mexican yam, a natural product
claiming to either contain or stimulate progesterone, does
not in fact raise progesterone levels at all, and to date
there is a similar lack of scientific evidence for yam creams,
and other so-called natural progesterones, although there
is some evidence
for the use of the herb chaste berry, a
powerful progesterone stimulant, currently being used to
address certain breast disorders in adult women, but it
is still too early to determine whether the stimulation
of progesterone actually leads to clinical significant breast
tissue growth without inducing undesirable lactation.
(3) Certain Antidepressants (-):
Although we noted that certain drugs (especially certain
antidepressants) may as a side effect of their primary usage
cause a modest increase in bust size, probably secondary
to their causing general body weight gain, it is not considered
rational or prudent to exploit such powerful and systemic
agents in this way - to leverage an unintended side effect,
and many of these same drugs are controversial in use and
safety in adolescence, so they cannot be recommended.
(4)
The BRAVA System (+) - The "Vacuum Bra":
Despite many claims to the contrary even in the medical
literature, there is one FDA-approved (as
what's called a nonregulated medical device)
non-surgical therapy for breast enhancement: the
BRAVA System (from Brava LLC). This is a vest-like
enclosure of two plastic domes connected to a suction device
(it is sometimes humorously referred to as the first and
only vacuum bra), and to gain any benefit it must
be worn at least 10 hours a day for approximately 10 weeks;
most patients can adapt to sleeping in it, but this requires
sleeping on one's back (to see pics of the device and learn
a lot more about it, click here: BRAVA
and to see before and after pics of what to expect, click
here: BRAVA
Before and After Images).
What
can it do for that fairly demanding requirement and major
commitment? - possibly increase breasts by one cup, as demonstrated
in a well-controlled scientific study of the system, by
mechanical force stimulation of a female's own breast
issue, technically
called "tension induced tissue growth". In the
underground of real clinical practice, my associates confirm
that many women use BRAVA for an unofficial use of addressing
ptosis (the medical term for sagging or drooping boobs),
as it is apparently effective in this "off-label"
use independent of increasing cup size, providing some "lift"
and enhanced firmness and fullness (see the doctor comments
at: BRAVA
Success Stories: What Leading Doctors Say
and ABCNews's Can
Vacuum Bra Double Breast Size Without Surgery?).
The manufacturer
is clear on the fact that the product is designed and targeted
for small-breasted women who may succeed in taking size
AA boobs to a full A bordering on small B, or A or B, so
typically about one cup size gain (it is certainly not intended
for anyone who is already has a full C-cup or more).
Although initially there may be an
apparently larger gain, that is mainly from some temporary
swelling but once that swelling declines, about half the
initial gain sets in and is kept for at least two years,
and MRI scans confirm that the gain is from true breast
tissue growth yielding about one cup increase.
There appear to be few real side effects - some temporary
skin irritation (contact
dermatitis) is possible
but fairly directly addressable with mild corticosteroid
cream or similar agent, and not everyone can feel comfortable
enough for 10+ hours using the device, but to date compliance
appears to be not a deal-breaker for most motivated females
with reasonable expectations of what it can do, and who
are under proper medical supervision of a trained and skilled
- and patient and caring - health professional. It may be
possible in some cases to arrange for a short-term trial
to allow someone to decide if they can really commit and
accommodate to the device's requirements of use. Sensibly,
the provider recommends it for females of 18 years or older/
See their Is
It Right For Me? page and definitely check
out the Unofficial
BRAVA Support Group Site, with real
world experiences and tips and techniques that many BRAVA
users learned about or devised to help compliance and benefit.
Currently
the average cost of a BRAVA System is between $2000 - $2500
and is available through select plastic surgeons, gynecologists
and cosmetic dermatologists who have been company-trained
in how to properly use and supervise the system.
(5) Increasing
Body Mass (+):
To
simplify greatly, breasts are made of fat, glands, milk
ducts, connective tissue,
blood vessels, and some sensory nerves, but the major composition
is good old fatty tissue, and this accounts for the fact
that weight gain - if personally and aesthetically acceptable
- is a well-known and scientifically verified dependable
and relatively safe (if not overdone) means of increasing
breast size (and so as women loss weight their breast on
an average tend so become smaller too, although individuals
vary in how much proportionately they lose from various
body areas).
But what does it take to gain a significant degree of growth
in the breast? Well, here it is: to increase bust size by
one cup, about 200 cc's (centimeters, a unit of volume)
of extra breast tissue would be needed. And this means a
proportionate gain in the rest of the body, known to entail
between no less than 15 pounds
weight gain to more typically about 20 pounds weight increase
- for going from one cup size to the next,
a one cup size gain.
Now although this is not trivial, some young girls seeking
to enhance the size of their boobs modestly and reasonably
from an AA-cup to a full A-cup, or from A to B-cup can exercise
this option, aseptically if they are not already overweight,
and given that many girls most concerned about their bust
size may be thin or even underweight to some degree, this
turns out to be a relatively easily implemented, safe and
cost-effective (essentially free) technique for enhancing
their boobs (usually in an aesthetically satisfactory manner
assuming no original obesity). And the math is easy: to
gain about a cup-and-a-half in bust size, approx. 30 lbs.
weight gain would be required, and so on, and if care is
taken to gain the weight in an nutritionally sensible fashion
(ie., a well-balance sound diet of higher caloric intake
rather than one whose extra calories derive from an excessively
fatty regimen), this can be
an enabling option for some girls who can scale their expectations
to accept a modest gain of a cup or slightly more in breast
size. And to put it into perspective, the
only FDA-approved device for gaining one cup size growth
is the BRAVA system costing a couple of thousand dollars
and a serious commitment of wearing the device daily over
an extended period of 2 - 3 months (excluding surgery of
course).
[Techie note: The exact techie
medical definition of a breast is: a mass of glandular fatty,
and fibrous tissues (with
the capacity for producing milk when stimulated by special
hormones), and
sensory nerves extending upward from the muscle layer through
the breast, highly sensitive, especially in the regions
of the nipple and areola, accounting for the sexual responsiveness
of most women's breasts and why boobs are considered an
erogenous zone of pleasure, positioned over the pectoral
muscles of the chest wall and attached to the chest wall
by fibrous strands called Coopers ligaments, with
a layer of fatty tissue surrounding the breast glands and
extending throughout the breast. It's this fatty tissue
that gives the breast the soft consistency and subtle flowing
contour that seems to mesmerize so many males. So that's
a boob! For you techies, you can learn more from Imaginis's
coverage: Breast
Anatomy and Physiology).
(6) Bust Exercises - Good Boob
Workouts:
Although exercise
by itself without increase in body mass cannot physically
increase breast size, some
evidence exists that various bust exercises, by building
firm muscle tissue and perhaps promoting more optimal posture,
may provide a perception of a firmer more "perky"
appearance to the boobs. So, the appearance of firmer boobs
can work some visual benefit, and is healthy too.
To learn more about good bust exercises, check out:
1.
Breast
Enlargement Exercises
(no illustrations of the exercise here, but the explanations
are very good, and it's got the most exercises)
2.
How
to get Perkier Boobs in 12 Hours
(well-illustrated)
3. Bust
Exercises from Denise Austin
(and although the illustrations show using an exercise
ball and pad, you can still do them just against a wall
and floor).
(7) Breast Enhancement Aids
(?):
These don't actually increase the size of boobs, just help
to enhance the appearance of the bust by physical means,
and most girls and young women are in this day and age reasonably
savvy about their options: boob booster pads, including
gel-filled breast enhancers tucked into the bra, various
types of enhanced and strategically padded bras, specially
engineered push-up bras that give the perception of extra
volume, firmness and/or cleavage, including superboost bras,
air bras, and special cleavage-enhancing bras, among many
many other marvels of modern boob and bust-engineering in
clothes fashion and style. See for instance Cleavage
Enhancing Tips from the Experts; sites
like Bravo
(makers of Bravopads) offer both small bust and instant
cleavage kits, while sites like Wonderful
Breast, Flattering
Me, and of course the original Wonderbra
offer various often quite ingenious bust and bra enhancements,
and sites like MaxCleavage
are dedicated solely to products providing alternatives
to breast enhancement surgery and implants.

And
the The
Better Boob Job site offers Takeouts,
the famous jellylike natural-feeling and natural-looking
silicone bra inserts. Takeouts
are called "cleavage to go"
or "cleavage cupcakes",
and even packaged in a pink Chinese food container, just
like real "takeout" food! Made of soft, pliable
medical-grade silicone, Takeouts
are designed to conform to the shape of your bust, and because
they appear to add a full cup size to the bust, they're
advertised as an "instant boobjob". (Takeouts
are reported to have been used by the female cast of "The
Stepford Wives" movie remake).
Also
consult HelpMyFlatChest.com:
Support and Advice for the Small Busted,
a site offering dedicated advice "for the small-busted"
female, along with fun subtopics like silly names for boobs,
tasteful jokes, clothing tips,
and more. Also fun and informative is My
Flatsy Forum for flat-chested women
only (from AAA-Cup Alexandra), Adventures
in Flatland from SmileAndActNice,
IndiaParenting's Bust
Size FAQ and their
Bust Size Discussion Board,
OBGYN.Net's
Breast Care
FAQ - Breast Size, Shape and Appearance,
TeenHealthFX's Dear
Asian Breast Concern,
and GoAskAlice's Dear
Itty Bitty Titties (Must I Have A Bust?).
Another
great source is
Undercover Glamour
in the
UK, dedicated to helping you achieve
the look you want while making the best of your body,
without resorting to surgery / implants. Their
product line includes
strapless bras (the
Freebra (silicone) or the
Bobra (cloth)),
nipple covers (to avoid "nipple
poke through"), and
breast enhancers (aka, "chicken
fillets") to provide an extra boost to your bust.
The
breast enhancers, placed inside the bra, are made of
soft comfortable silicone which warms to body
temperature, and there are different enhancers within
their "Voila!"
line, letting you select from just adding a subtle
increase (the
Mini Voila!), to giving
you up to a one cup size increase (the
Voila!), all the way to
boosting your bust up to two whole cup sizes using
their
Maxi Voila! for
maximum cleavage and dimension.
But
don't forget to check out their hip, comprehensive
FAQ
on breast enhancers, both educational and entertaining,
and their
Fashion Tips
section (like "Why breast enhancers and not implants?",
"The best bras for breast enhancers", and many
more), and their
Celebrity News on
the latest celebrity doings (from Michelle Obama, Lady
Gaga, Naomi Watts, Kate Hudson, among others).
But
Undercover Glamour
is not only a fun, sassy site, but is also socially
conscious: they include an excellent section on
Breast Cancer Awareness,
provided in association with
CancerHelp UK,
a plain-English lowdown on this important and often
misunderstood topic. A just reported survey of
3000 girls between the ages of 8 and 18 - see the "Even
'Tweens Fear Breast Cancer"
article - found that almost a third of teens and 'tweens are
already worried about whether breast cancer will strike
them personally, a real problem when so many girls are
just too young to know or feel comfortable with talking
about what's on their mind when it comes to such a scary
and not well understood issue, so definitely commit to
and learn more about breast cancer awareness, and you
can start by checking out
Undercover Glamour,
and our full discussion of this topic below.
For More Mature Teens:
To
learn more about boobs, check out the new hip website BOObs:
A Guide to Your Girls ("your girls"
= your boobs), humorous but very informative, brought to you
by Elisabeth Squires ("The Boob
Lady"), a freelance writer and
daughter
of a breast cancer survivor, who admits to being
breast obsessed
since her early teens, now on a mission to help women appreciate
their breasts. The
author has
writen and published a book by the same name (bOObs:
A Guide to Your Girls),
a style guide for breasts, on how to put your "best
breast forward" - a smart and sexy book (and
site) from the smart and sexy bOOb Lady). The
book - a survival guide for living with your boobs - is the
most comprehensive and authoritative guide available on boob
care and maintenance, and should be on everyone's bookshelf
(men too can benefit!).
And the book bOObs:
A Guide to Your Girls was
recently awarded one of the Best Consumer Health
Books of 2007 by the Library Journal, whose
review said "This is the book about
breast health that your best girlfriend wrote",
in "a format and style that will appeal to young
readers", and that the book "is the sassy push-up that
will get the attention of a younger audience who really
needs this information".
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This is the must own
book for any young girl interested in understanding her
boobs and wanting to put her best boobs forward!
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With truly useful and practical advice
- everything you always wanted to know about boobs, a kind
of sassy owner's manual - the site includes a great Mammoirs
section which is a collection of candid personal tales of
how girls and women feel about their breasts, along with an
online Questionnaire
if you care to add your own experiences, with sections for
"natural flotation devices"
(swimwear blues), and "mammaries
in motion" (boobs and sports). There's also
a really excellent and comprehensive Resources
("boobliography")
section with the best videos, books, and websites on breasts,
breast health, including breast cancer, breast development,
breast feeding and cosmetic breast surgery.
The
author also runs
bOOb
TALK, an online discussion forum, described
as "a place to bare any and all concerns about your
breasts" (click on pic on the left), with campy but
intelligent sections on "Defying Gravity" (all
about bras), "Saggy and Sexy" (for mature breasts),
and "Funny Girls" (on humorous and unexpected
things women/girls have done with their breasts), among
others. Got questions about boobs? - you can ask anything,
anytime at: Ask
the bOOb Lady. And there is even a cool blog
called The
bOOb Lady (click on the sly pic of Elisabeth
the bOOb Lady herself,
on the right, in the act of checking out her very own).
Do
I need to wear a bra? Is there any health reason against
going braless?
Myth:
Girls should wear bras because otherwise their boobs will
start to sag sooner.
In fact, wearing a bra is primarily a matter of personal
choice, based on social, aesthetic (your appearance) and
comfort factors, and not a health necessity, despite what
bra manufacturers would like girls and women to believe.
Wearing bras regularly isn't a safeguard for retaining the
youthful look of your boobs and avoiding drooping, since
all breasts begin to sag to some extent over time as a female
gets older, and going braless will not influence when or
how much sagging any one female will ultimately experience.
And now we know the opposite may be true: many medical professionals
now believe that wearing a bra
may actually increase later breast sagging.
Why? Well, your breasts are attached to the pectoral muscle
on your chest by ligaments, and when wearing a bra, the
chest muscles that support breasts are used less because
your supported breasts, confined in a bra, do not allow
the pectoral muscle to be exercised as much as it otherwise
could be, and so it tends to atrophy (weaken and shrink
in size) from lack of use, as do also the attaching ligaments.
But when you go braless, the natural movements of your arms
and upper torso exercise and strengthen your pectoral muscle.
And that's good, because the strengthened pectoral muscle
can then provide better support for your breasts. So when
the chest muscles and breast ligaments are forced to have
to bear the weight of the breasts when going braless, muscle
tone returns, under the principle of "use it or lose
it". And it follows therefore that when you do wear
a bra, it's best to choose one that is the least constricting
to allow at least some work and exercise to have to be done.
You
can get more info from the GoingBraless.net
site, a site designed by Libby to encourage the positive
and healthy aspects of body-image on going braless; especially
check out her discussion
forum and their Breast
and Bra Research page, and from the BreastNotes.com
site's discussion of The
Purpose of the Bra, where prominent
experts like Dr. Susan M. Love (who wrote Dr. Susan Love's
Breast Book), Niels H. Lauersen (author of the Complete
Book of Breast Care) and many others weigh in on the
side of the principle that going braless at least occasionally,
in situations (home or elsewhere) where you feel comfortable
and it is appropriate, is a healthful, not harmful habit.
And Gurl.com has a neat side-by-side take on
Going Braless - Digs and Disses from
real users duking it out on the subject.
So,
when should you wear a bra?
Naturally, this is a mainly personal and sometimes emotional
issue, and the bottom line is if you're not comfortable
going braless in public, although increasingly acceptable
socially, then follow your instincts and wear that bra.
Because sure, some females may just feel uncomfortable if
they're bra-free in certain social contexts, or do not feel
comfortable with the possibly unwanted attention to their
bouncing breasts and noticeable nipples, especially if more
generously endowed, and during certain activities letting
boobs hang loose and freely can be downright uncomfortable.
And remember that bras can protect the breasts from some
trauma during exercise workouts and other vigorous activity
by limit jiggling and thus reducing the possibility of breast
soreness and discomfort, especially when wearing a properly
fitted sports bra. Another case for occasionally wearing
a bra is to limit friction between sensitive nipples and
certain kinds of clothing in order therefore to prevent possible
irritation or soreness. And finally, some females prefer
the appearance of their boobs when they're lift or supported
by a bra.
But again, the bottom line:
there is no medical necessity for wearing a bra, and
there is some health benefit to going braless
at least some of the time, as long as you're okay by it!
Bras
Can Be Fun
A
bra made from an actual yarmulke? Could this sell?
One company,
Yarmulkebra.com, thinks so.
As the company says:
"No longer are yarmulkes limited to men or heads.
You wanted to wear one? Now you can wear two".
They have a collection of bras made from bat mitzvah, or
bar mitzvah, yarmulkes, and
they're available in three sizes:
Small/Medium (called the Bat-mitzvah Model
Medium/Large (the Sports Model)
Large (called the Boobooshka Model).
They can even custom design a
YarmulkeBra from the yarmulke of your
choice!
And you don't have to be Jewish to wear a
yarmulkebra!
 
The iBra?
And how about a high-tech
bra?
Amazingly, there is the iPodBra.
Batteries not included.
A Nutritional Bra?
Not interested?
Then how about a Candy Bra,
made of candy necklace charms?
No comment.
But
what about bras and breast cancer? Does wearing a bra increase
your risk of getting breast cancer?
No, there is absolutely no respected scientific evidence
linking bra wearing with an increased risk of breast cancer!
The rumors seem to have been promoted recently through a
book called Dressed to Kill by Singer and Grismaijer,
which suggested that bras, especially under-wired bras,
cause breast cancer by causing obstruction the lymphatic
system, interfering with the normal drainage of the breast
tissues, leading to toxin buildup in the breast and resulting
in cancer. But this has not been substantiated and has been
rejected by further research and virtually all breast cancer
experts, including this site's author. (You'd have to wear
a bra that was painfully constricting and unbearably tight
to have any consequence whatsoever on your lymphatic system,
and even then no evidence exists that this really would
lead to a greater risk of breast cancer). So bottom line:
bras are safe to wear, the decision is yours!
And
in terms of selecting the right bra, check out My
First Bra (left), a site for girls 8 -
16 years old, with bra basics, an online bra size calculator,
tips on measuring bra and cup size, plus a detailed buying
guide to training, sports, soft-cup, padded and push-up
bras.
For More Mature Teens:

A more adult perspective
(with candid but tasteful and intelligent content that
may be best appreciated by more mature females) can be
gotten from The
Breast Views: Daily News & Alternative Views of the
Wonderful World of Breasts, a blog compiled by
Canadian Sue Richards who is dedicated, as she says, "to
stimulating a breast health movement". She founded
and runs Breasts
of Canada, a fine art photography calendar designed
"to inspire you to greater awareness about breast
health and breast cancer prevention" by "cultivating
a positive body image"; and note that the calendar
is a 'good works" project, with net proceeds for
the current edition directed to the Canadian
Breast Cancer Network.
Another
site that promotes breast cancer research in a unique
way is the Blogger Bobbie-Thon
- Bloggers bare all for breast cancer research!
Their motto is "Boobies. Although they come
in all shapes and sizes (large, small, saggy and perky),
they have one thing in common: The ability to develop
cancer". Founded in 2002 by Florida blogger
Robyn Pollman, Bobbie-Thon
sponsors an annual event in which bloggers from across
the globe are invited to submit pictures of either bare
and covered breasts to raise money for breast cancer causes
(they have raised over $17,000 for breast cancer and blogger-charity
causes, with substantial donations going to the Susan
G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation). The money is
raised by having covered boobies featured on the site
for free, but charging $50 for viewing the bare breasts
on a "pay-per-boobie" page. (all
photos contributed are anonymous, with no faces shown).
Can
teens get breast cancer? Should I be examining my boobs
for lumps?
Breast cancer can actually occur in teens, but it's an extremely
rare occurrence. Young girls going through puberty sometimes
get alarmed when they feel a small
button-sized lump under their nipple, but this is almost
always the "breast bud", which develops in stage
2 of breast development (see above:
How do boobs
develop in a young girl?) and being
a natural part of the changes that come with early puberty,
it's of no concern.
To
learn more about breast cancer in young females, check out
Yound
Women and Breast Cancer from YSC
(Young Survival Coalition), an international network
of breast cancer survivors and supporters dedicated to the
unique concerns and issues of young women and breast cancer.
As they note, breast cancer is the leading cause of cancer
death in young women ages 15 - 42, and there are more than
250,000 women in the U.S. age 40 and under currently living
with breast cancer.
 Another
site, this one for Canadians, is Rethink
Breast Cancer, a charity that helps young people
concerned about and affected by breast cancer, using innovative
breast cancer education, research and support programs;
the organization teams up with the art, entertainment, fashion
and sports worlds to host hip fundraising events to benefit
breast cancer awareness and research (like
the adult-only CheckOutMyBreasts
t-shirt campaign).
And
you should definitely check out their quick one-page How
to Be Breast Aware, a summary of changes to look
out for in your boobs, and their Symptoms,
outline the most important symptoms that if they occur,
should be reported immediately to your doctor (as a precaution
- these don't mean you do have anything serious, but best
to be safe and have a health professional make the decision).
And you can click on the logo we
want you to keep these to learn the top ten things
you can do the prevent breast cancer.
What
To Do: Feel / Check Your Boobies
So
even though the chances of breast cancer are small, still
it's a good idea that teen girls to
(1) learn more about breast cancer and
(2) learn how to perform a breast self-examination (BSE)
because any female however young can get breast cancer.
By starting to do a breast self-exam early, you learn how
your body and boobs normally feel so that you can recognize
changes that should be checked out to see if a problem has
developed; sometimes non-cancerous breast cysts or benign
lumps called fibroadenomas may be discovered this way, in
part because breast lumps are fairly common during the radical
changes of puberty, probably due to estrogen sensitivity
during this developmental phase. Doctors recommend that
young girls check their breasts once a month, at the same
time each month, on or close to the last day of your menstrual
period. Although doctors until recently often advised young
women to do breast self-exams (BSE) starting at 20, some
healthcare professionals and organizations - including this
Breast Watch site - recommend that young women begin breast
self-examination in their teens, after they have gone through
puberty and have begun regular menstrual cycles.
One
good website encouraging young girls and women to do breast
self-exams for early detection of breast cancer is Feel
Your Boobies, set up by Leigh Hurst,
a young breast cancer survivor, "to spread the word
about the importance of feeling your boobies"; as she
says "Somehow telling young women the importance of
"self-breast exams" doesn't quite have the same
punch as saying "feel your boobies." So you might
laugh at the slogan, but hopefully you'll take it seriously
and do it... ". Their slogan is:
"Early detection saves lives -- why not feel your boobies?"
So check it out: Feel
Your Boobies - hip, fun, and a great
breast cancer awareness program for young females!
And
for another really valuable site, go to Check
Your Boobies, founded in 2005 by Heike Malakoff,
a young Seattle mother herself diagnosed with breast cancer
in 2003, and now on a mission to have every female know
get to know her breasts, through educating about breast
health in a frank, fun, but fear-free manner, and in this
way assist in the prevention and early detection of Breast
Cancer. She promotes Check Your Boobies Parties,
non-threatening gatherings during which women get to know
their own breasts and learn how to perform a breast self-exam
(giving you: "the ins and outs, ups and downs,
arounds and abouts of self-exams"). And in
addition to providing clear instructions on how to best
check your bobbies, it also features a valuable monthly email
"boobie check" reminder (free registration)
to help keep you on track!
For
more info, Y-ME, a
national breast cancer organization, publishes
Just
for Teens: A Teen Guide to Breast Care
(Adobe Acrobat PDF file, so right-click ontitle, and save
to download), and also check out At
what age should a teenage girl start having breast exams?.
And the Susan G. Komen Foundation (Komen.org)
has produced How
to Do Breast Self-Exams, a fabulous interactive
presentation (Macromedia Flash) with a live subject showing
best techniques for self-examination of the breasts; can't
be beat as a way to learn how to do the self-exam right!
For More Mature Teens:
It Is Many
Things, Pink Isn’t One of Them
Gina
Maisano is an 8+ year breast cancer survivor, and the
founder of the
No
Surrender Breast Cancer Foundation, whose
site is one of the best breast cancer sites on the web
today, an outstanding value for anyone with breast cancer,
and for anyone who wants to learn more, from
the survivors themselves. And although lots of people
have come to
associate breast cancer with pink, from countless campaigns
and ads, many women who have breast cancer have a different
perspective, expressed beautifully and touchingly by Gina
herself:
"There isn’t anything pretty, sexy or
pink about what we just went through. None of us are wearing
pink. We don’t have our lives wrapped in ribbons. . . . The
color of hope is in a test tube in a lab somewhere,
someplace. . . . Find an NIH lab and donate to the
researcher working on ending this disease. Because when you
or your wife or your daughter gets diagnosed, the last thing
you think about is pink.
Save the future of the women in this world. Cut the pink and
give directly to research."
It Is Many Things, Pink Isn’t One of Them
So one efficient way to contribute to ongoing battle
against breast cancer is to give directly to breast
cancer research organizations where the money is solely used
to fund research without diversion of some of the
contribution to non-productive administrative costs.
And note that NIH, cited by Gina, is the National Institute
of Health, the largest government research funding
organization in the United States, with cancer-specific
research through NCI (National Cancer Institute).
Click
here for a listing of all NIH/NCI cancer research
centers, then contact the center of your choice to find out
about that center's breast cancer research program to which
you can contribute directly. And click
here or on the link at the end of Gina's quote to read
the full article, and finally click on the No Surrender
Breast Cancer Foundation logo above to visit Gina's
exceptional site.
More Breast Cancer
and Breast Health Information for Teens
And
for kids who have a parent with cancer, or have lost a parent
to cancer, Kids Konnected
provide friendship, understanding, education, and support,
with a 24-hour hotline, and with chapters across the country.
Be good to your boobs: Finally you should know that
a study done and reported in 2002 in the Lancet medical
journal showed that young women who start smoking within
five years of their first menstrual period face a 70% higher
risk of developing breast cancer than those who never smoke
(see
Risk of
breast cancer from cigarette smoking greatest for teens,
and also a 2005 study Breast
Cancer Risk Among Women Who Start Smoking as Teenagers
confirmed this). And drinking can increase the risk of breast
cancer for females in any age group (see the section on
alcohol on our Breast
Cancer Prevention Watch site). So
common sense says that in order to keep your boobs healthy:
(1) avoid smoking especially, and anything
but an occasional drink, and - more than anything
-
(2) get to know your
boobs early - by performing breast
self-exams, and finally
(3) follow a sensible healthy lifestyle of good
diet and nutrition, and regular exercise:
and check out our prevention advice on our Breast
Cancer Prevention Watch site (for
older teens).
If
you're feeling peer pressure on drinking, or just want to
know more about alcohol use and abuse among teens, check
out The
Cool Spot, created for kids 11-13 years old
by the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism
(NIAAA) to give you skills to resist pressure to drink,
and to give you lots of reasons not to drink; another site
to check is SADD
- Students Against Destructive Decisions,
Then,
to learn more about the harms of smoking, how to quit, or
how and why to avoid starting, check out: NicotineFreeKids,
COST - Children Opposed to Smoking Tobacco,
KATS - Kids Against Tobacco Smoking, and
Tobacco-Free Kids.org, which sponsors
the yearly
KickButtsDay (this year on April 5th).
And
even some cosmetic products can pose an extra risk for breast
care: many popular cosmetic and beauty products commonly
used by teens such as nail polish and nail strengthener
products as well as cheek blushes, acne cleansers, hair
colors, mascaras, contain ingredients considered to be "reasonably
anticipated as cancer-causing in humans; to learn
more about these risks, check out the report Cosmetics
Popular with Teenagers Linked to Breast Cancer, Other Serious
Health Problems: Adolescents are Especially Vulnerable to
Toxic Exposures from Chemical Ingredients
from the Breast
Cancer Fund. For a rundown of what cosmetics
to avoid and info on safer products, see The
Campaign for Safe Cosmetics site. And good
news: a ground-breaking proposal for safer cosmetics sponsored
by the Breast
Cancer Fund called the Cosmetics Safety
Act of 2005 has now been signed into law by California
Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger.
Also
you can go to a great site called Cosmetic
Companies and Breast Cancer (from Think
Before You Pink, a project of Breast
Cancer Action) which gives you a guided tour
of the top cosmetics companies and lists the potentially
unsafe products each markets. And you can get a list of
the products with the highest health concerns in 25 different
product categories containing ingredients linked to cancer,
pregnancy problems, and other potential health issues, in
Skin Deep - Report and Cosmetics
and Skin Care: Executive Summary (this is
a brief summary, from ChooseOrganics.com;
see below for the full site).
The
Campaign for Safe Cosmetics has also set
up as a public service a great Skin
Deep site, a personal care product safety guide
with in-depth information on over 14 thousand products,
brands and ingredients of common cosmetics like lotions,
lip balms, deodorants, sunscreens and other popular products.
Skin
Deep provides safety ratings and brand-by-brand
comparisons that can help consumers choose safer products.
And it all online and interactive so you can look up by
actual brand, or by product type (like "eye shadow",
"lip gloss", "lipstick", "sunscreen",
even "toothpaste"! so that you can find out for
yourself how safe a product really is, and which ones to
buy or avoid. Definitely check out this fabulous service
and use only safe cosmetics (click on the Skin
Deep logo to the left)!
And remember: a new report, State
of the Evidence 2006: What Is the Connection Between the
Environment and Breast Cancer? from the Breast
Cancer Fund which identifies environmental
and other preventable causes of the breast cancer, draws
on nearly 350 studies linking breast cancer to synthetic
chemicals and to radiation exposure, and finds that as
much as half of all breast cancer may be environmental in
original and cause! (And there's a shorter
and more readable Executive
Summary of the report). This finding is especially
important because the number of women (and more rarely,
men) getting breast cancer has been climbing steadily in
both the United States and other industrialized countries,
ever since the 1940s, and it now amounts to more than one
million cases per year across the world! Just in the United
States alone, a womans lifetime risk of breast cancer
has nearly tripled during the past four decades! And remember,
although it's extremely
rare, breast cancer can actually occur in teens, so make
sure to check out the sites we list above and follow the
advice we give for the health and
safety of your boobs!
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