QUESTIONS to the HIGH PRIESTESS OF LOVEFRIDA KAHLO, a good and dutiful wife
                  to DIEGO RIVERA, a real DIVA painter

I am fortunate for as an astrologer, I serve a very beautiful woman married to one of the great fortunes of America. He's easily worth 800 million, an amt. that grows hourly!  She could travel the world, she could buy clothes and jewels but she doesn't; she is only interested in teaching women consciousness, so I frequently ask her things.

QUESTION: My readers ask me to ask YOU to give us some of your secrets for being lucky in love. I know you'll say 'be as beautiful and well groomed as possible at all times. That grooming gives pride in self, self value. I know you will say 'have as much love in your heart for him, as possible which entails listening to him and when he's near, laugh, have fun..' I know you. I  know you, great Aphrodite. I think I could give your side of it in my sleep. But what else?

ANSWER:  One tool, not a secret by any means, is to always BE or at least SEEM gentle of the heart. Men like gentle women, especially those they want to marry. I remember my husband telling his best friend, in response to the friends' inquiry, when they thought i wasn't listening, that what he loved most about me was my peacefulness, quietude, child-like pure nature. I heard every word and played into that. Yes, I remember to remind myself when I'm getting bored with him, just be myself which happens to be gentle natured unless pushed to the razor's edge. then, watch out!

Also, what works strongly is never to fear a man. My husband is a difficult man, stressed, busy, tense. Friends often have asked, continue to ask, how it is that he has 3,000 people working for him who fear him, but i'm not afraid of him. I  look him in the eyes, and depending on the situation, a little smile or just a stare. I speak what needs to be said according to my heart. he's a good listener. I never pounce on him.  I ask, "I need to speak with you. when will you have time for me?" I wait for the response, write it in my appt. book. He always keeps his word. When I speak, I use the fewest words. I speak with deliberation and slowly so every word is savored. When i'm done, I ask, "is there anything i've said that you don't understand?" Then, I listen.
Usually we end up laughing, or he says he's sorry, or I say the same, or we both agree we misunderstood each other.

My husband often tells me "We don't communicate well." I look him in the eyes (that's important) but usually I'm smiling when I say, "I'm happy to hear that you accept your responsibility!" I never, absolutely never let him off the hook. But I handle the reality, smiling. I don't accuse. I may say, "I know something and that makes me unhappy." Or I say, "I don't appreciate what you're doing or what you've said.. hat you said hurt me and it's not the truth." that flavor.

Sometimes when he's more aggressive, I step closer to his face and hold my ground and stare into his eyes. it's soul working. Once I had to push his Adam's apple lightly because he wasn't being nice. I warned him first. He didn't listen. I said, "I don't want to hurt you..........." he didn't listen. so, I gave him the martial arts finger.....only one. He fell back quicker than the wind with his eyes wide open. he stared at me in disbelief.  I said, "I asked you to stop." I then turned my back very slowly, went into my wing and locked the door. He pounded his head on the door for 20 minutes while i talked with his best friend on the telephone about his behavior. That was only once. And it was weird. He kept saying, "open the door, open the door", like a chant until he grew so weak he just stood with his forehead resting on the glass; a thick glass door to my wing. I went to the door, looked at him gently and said, "go to bed, or I'll call the police." He turned around and left for bed. He never brought the subject up again and neither did i. I feel that couples should leave yesterday's trash in the bin. Each day is a new beginning with a heart filled with love and light to the best of our ability. God doesn't care what we're doing, nor does He care with whom; he does care that we are trying to do our best."

 I  wrote that much up. For the unhappy  married woman -- maybe the start of an article on marriage. I could go on questioning her. She could give the girls of this world some major secrets.

Anita Sands Hernandez, Poster of the
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