Dear Diary,
AJ’s reaction wasn’t what I expected but then again I wasn’t sure what reaction to expect from him.  There were so many reasons that I could think of that AJ could be upset.  And I could see every one of those reasons flicker across his face.

 

AJ just stood there speechless for two minutes and twenty-one seconds.  I saw the varying expressions play across his face from surprise to several I couldn't place.  I was happy that he didn't ask any of the typical questions such as "how?"

 

“Is that what you’ve been upset about?” he asked finally.

 

“Yes, but I don’t know if I would really call it upset,” I tried to explain.  We sat down before we continued.

 

“Are you upset that you are pregnant?” he questioned.

 

“No,” I said without hesitation.  “I was upset that we had never talked about this.  I have no idea how you feel about being a father again.”

 

“I have to admit that I never really thought about it before, Sarah.”  I looked down, not able to meet his eyes.  “But I have been thinking about talking to you about our future.”

 

“Really?”  I couldn’t help but think that he was just saying that.  I knew that was unfair to think that of him though.

 

“I was going to talk to you tonight about it.  Actually, ask you something instead.”

 

“Ask me something?” I asked surprised.

 

“Sarah, you know that I love you and I’ve loved you for a long time.”  I nodded; unsure what to say as he tenderly caressed my cheek.  “I want to be able to tell everyone about us.  When you are ready but I want you to know that I want this to be more permanent.”

 

“AJ,” I said with misty eyes.  “I love hearing this but I have to wonder about the timing.”

 

“Sarah, I know that anything that I say won’t convince you more than what I can show you.”  He stood up and walked to the Christmas tree and pulled off the Marine ornament that he gave me.

 

“Open the globe, Sarah.”

 

“It opens?” I was surprised as he showed me the secret hiding place.  Inside I saw a beautiful diamond ring. 

 

“AJ?”

 

“Sarah,” he said as he took the ring before slipping it on my ring finger.  “Will you marry me?”

 

I realized that he was telling the truth of thinking about this for a long time.  The ring must have been in the ornament when he gave it to me.  He certainly didn’t have the opportunity to put it in there since I told him the news.

 

“I’m sorry for not trusting you, AJ.  I should have known that you wouldn’t ask just because of the baby.”  AJ smiled at me before slipping a hand to my still flat belly then leaning down. 

 

“So, Little Jarhead, do you think that you could convince your mom to answer my question?”