This bibliography was last revised in May, 1998 but I make no
claims that it is all inclusive - even in the areas tha t I include
below. Please note it includes few works focusing on gay or lesbian
sexuality, culture, history, language, and cross-cultural issues. A
vast array of fictional works also useful for therapists
understanding gay and lesbian subcultures is not included here. In
addition, new writings published every month will deserve a place in
other such bibliographies, as well as extant works which have (so
far) escaped my attention.
General issues
Health Issues/AIDS
Gay and Lesbian Relationships
Sexual abuse
Sexual compulsivity
Spiritual concerns
General
issuesAmerican Psychological
Association Committee on Lesbian and Gay Concerns. (1991).
Avoiding heterosexual bias in language. American Psychologist, 46,
973-974.
This article offers suggestions for avoiding heterosexual bias in
language concerning lesbians, gay men, and bisexual persons (e.g.,
preferred terminology which is clear and not associated with negative
stereotypes). The article also offers means of increasing the
visibility of lesbians, gay men, and bisexual persons in
language.
Barrett, R.L. & Robinson, B. E. (1990). Gay fathers. New
York: Lexington Books.
This is one of the first books focusing on parenting issues for gay
men. Most other books have focused on lesbian mothers. For gay
clients considering fatherhood, it may provide interesting clients.
For gay men with children, it can offer a chance to feel less alone
or isolated with their feelings about their situation.
Bell, A. P., & Weinberg, M. S. (1978). Homosexualities: A study
of diversity among men and women. Bloomington, IN: Indiana
University Press.
This publication of the Kinsey Institute reports on the diversity of
life-styles within the gay and lesbian worlds. This study has a
restricted sample (based only in the San Francisco Bay area) but is
useful to examine the variety of life-style and relationship choices
for gay men and lesbian and to dispute myths . In addition, the
authors offer findings that help illustrate differences between gay
men and lesbians. As this study is now 13 years old, some of the
findings are rather dated but the notion of diversity presented here
is still useful.
Bell, A. P., Weinberg, M. S., & Hammersmith, S. K. (1981). Sexual
preference: Its development in men and women. Bloomington, IN:
Indiana University
Press.
This publication of the Kinsey Institute attempts to study the
development of homosexuality and heterosexuality among males and
females. The research uses data gathered from face-to-face interviews
with 1500 individuals. They examined parental relationships, sibling
relationships, conformation to stereotypic gender roles, and early
sexual experiences. The authors also considers a biologic basis for
sexual orientation and suggest future research should pursue that
direction. This research suggests sexual orientation is determined at
a relatively early age and is the result of a combination of
factors.
Berzon, B. (1992). Positively gay (Second edition). Los Angeles:
Mediamix Associates.
This book examines a broad range of "life issues" which affect
lesbians and gay men. The writings offer excellent sources of
information for clients and for heterosexual therapists. Topics
particularly well-covered include aging, career, and
spirituality.
Blumenfeld, W. J. & Raymond, D. (1988). Looking at gay &
lesbian life. New York: Philosophical Library.
This extensively researched book offers a current and well-documented
look at understanding the gay and lesbian experience. A useful text
for an introductory course in gay and lesbian studies, it may also be
appropriate for clients who would like a general source to read about
a variety of issues and concerns. The authors cover socialization and
gender roles;sexuality; coming out; "what causes homosexuality?;" the
heritages of Western religion and sexuality; prejudice and
discrimination; gay and lesbian movement politics;AIDS; gay/lesbian
lifestyles, families and relationships; and gay/lesbian literature.
(Now available in a trade paperback format).
Boston
Lesbian Psychologies Collective (Ed.). (1987). Lesbian psychologies:
Exploration and challenges. Urbana, IL: University of Illinois
Press.
A collection of articles which are theoretically based, research
based, and clinically applicable to lesbian issues of identity,
relationships, families, therapies, and communities. This is an
excellent resource!
Brown, H. (1976). Familiar faces, hidden lives: The story of
homosexual men in America today. New York: Harvest/Harcourt Brace
Jovanovich.
A former New York City health official speaks out plainly and
honestly about what it was like to be a gay male in American in the
60's and early 70's. Told in an autobiographical format, Dr. Brown
describes his own passage as he became, for a time, the most
prominent, self-acknowledged gay man in this country. In this book,
he uses his own life as a vehicle to discuss issues of parents,
long-term relationships, work, religion, psychiatry, the law, and
coming out. Although somewhat dated now, Dr. Brown's writing still
provides insight the thinking and feelings of many men struggling to
come to terms with a gay sexual orientation.
Cadwell, S. A., Burnham, R. A., Jr., & Forstein, M. (Eds.).
(1994). Therapists on the front line: Psychotherapy with gay men in
the age of AIDS. Washington, D. C.: American Psychiatric Press.
This collection of 27 articles focuses on how the AIDS epidemic
affects psychotherapists, patients, and the therapeutic relationship.
The authors provide a multidimensional approach to these issues and
explore social, medical, cultural, political, and psychodynamic
factors, with attention to individual, group and couples/family
treatment. The final section focuses on when the therapist is
HIV-positive. This book offers little on working with lesbians but is
a valuable resource for anyone working with gay men (positive
or negative HIV status).
Clark, D. (1990). Loving someone gay (Revised and updated). Berkeley,
CA: Celestial Arts.
A gay clinical psychologist offers an introductory look at gay and
lesbian life. He includes a discussion of oppression and prejudice,
love, growing up gay, conformity, pleasures of being gay, coming out
issues (both on the telling and the learning ends), and guidelines
for helping someone gay. This book is excellent for therapists
working with gay men. The predominant use of male examples makes this
less useful for work with lesbians.
Coleman, E. (Ed.). (1987). Psychotherapy with homosexual men and
women: Integrated identity approaches for clinical practice. New
York: Haworth.
An excellent collection for psychotherapists, this work reviews the
most effective approaches to treatment.
Cowan, T. (1988). Gay men and women who enriched the world. New
Canaan, CT: William Mulvey.
Forty biographies of gifted men and women whose creativity has
offered lasting benefits to humanity. Subjects include Sappho, Plato,
Bacon, Tchaikovsky, Willa Cather, Bessie Smith, and Yukio Mishima.
This is an excellent source of role models. My main criticism is the
predominance of white males among the forty subjects.
Curtis, W. (Ed.). (1988). Revelations: A collection of gay male
coming out stories. Boston: Alyson.
This is a collection of 22 stories written by men ranging in age from
their teens to their seventies telling their own coming out stories.
They live across the country and have quite varied backgrounds. These
stories can be useful for heterosexual therapists by helping them
better understand coming out experiences - fears of exposure,
rejection and isolation; pain of list families, self-esteem, and
love; and the joy and excitement of self-discovery and passion; and
the growing sense of self-acceptance and pride in this journey.
DeCecco, J. P. (Ed.). (1985). Bashers, baiters & bigots:
Homophobia in American society. Binghamton, NY: Harrington
Park Press. (also published as Journal of Homosexuality, 10, 1/2,
1984).
This collection of journal articles includes pieces on misconceptions
of homophobia, research on attitudes towards lesbians and gay men,
changing attitudes through college sexuality education and
examinations of the relationships of sex role characteristics, sexual
beliefs, attitudes and experiences with homophobia.
Diamont, L. (Ed.). (1993). Homosexual issues in the workplace.
Washington, D.C.: Taylor
& Francis.
This collection of fifteen chapters explores a variety of issues
which impact the special vocational issues and problems faced by
lesbians and gay men. It gathers authors from a variety of arenas.
Some are much better than others but all offer helpful data. Topics
include corporate concerns; issues in education, the helping
professions, sports, and the military; AIDS in the workplace; and
social-psychological issues in the workplace.
Duberman, M. (1991). Cures: A gay man's odyssey. New York:
Dutton.
This is an autobiographical look at over twenty years of outward
success as a noted historian, playwright and critic as well as years
of many attempted "cures" at a time when homosexuality was considered
an affliction. Duberman writes of his years of acceptance of
society's condemnation of homosexuality and eventual evolution to
understanding sex and love, and finally his involvement as a gay
activist. The writing is candid, witty, intense and brave - and reads
like a novel.
Duberman, M. D., Vicinus, M., & Chauncey, G., Jr. (Eds.). (1989).
Hidden from history: Reclaiming the gay and lesbian past. New York:
New American Library.
This book offers an in-depth look at the "lost" history of gay men
and lesbians through the ages. It includes a look at the ancient
world, pre-industrial societies, the nineteenth century, early
twentieth century and World War II and the Postwar Era. This
scholarly text explores each of these areas with thoughtful and
detailed pieces by a group of eminent historians.
Dynes, W. R. (1987). Homosexuality: A research guide. New York:
Garland Publishing.
This book offers 4,858 annotated references about homosexuality from
books and journals around the world. The compiler has materials
covering nearly every facet of gay/lesbian/bisexual life including
literature, history, anthropology, travel, art, music, philosophy,
religion, language, economics, education, politics, military,
sociology, psychology, psychiatry, family issues, legal issues,
violence, medical issues, and biology. A great reference source but
probably not great leisure reading.
Dynes, W. R. & Donaldson, S . (1992). Homosexuality and
psychology, psychiatry, and counseling. New York: Garland
Publishing.
This book offers reprints of 26 "classic" writings about
homosexuality from a variety of journals . The editors identified
many of the most seminal publications, many of them rather
unavailable, and have collected them into valuable resource. This
volume includes Evelyn Hooker's original Rorschach research comparing
heterosexual and gay men, Jeffrey Beane's article on counseling gay
men who are coming out, Joan Sophie and Barbara Sang's writings on
counseling lesbians, and many other significant pieces. For access to
historically significant writings, this volume offers some of the
most essential work.
Eichberg, R. (1990). Coming out: An act of love. New York: Plume.
This book provides a step-by-step program for coming out to family,
friends, and co-workers. He advocates coming out as an act of love
and as a political act in the era of AIDS. Much of the book consists
of letters written by participants in weekend workshops on coming out
issues. This book can provide a variety of models for how to come out
to others for clients but will be less appealing to
non-psychologically minded readers.
Ellis, A.L. & Riggle, E. D. B. (Eds.) (1996). Sexual Identity
on the Job: Issues and Services. New York: Harrington
Park Press.
The six articles in this collection cover a variety of issues ranging
from sexual identity issues in the workplace, multicultural issues,
disclosure and discrimination in the workplace, domestic partner
benefits, the impact on productivity of these issues, and special
career counseling issues with gay and lesbian clients.
Evans, N . J ., & Wall, V . A . (Eds.). (1991). Beyond
tolerance: Gays, lesbians, and bisexuals on campus. Alexandria, VA:
American College
Personnel Association.
This collection is the first book to focus on gay/lesbian/bisexual
issues on college campuses. It includes identity development
perspectives, homophobia and issues for students of color and
bisexual people. In addition, chapters cover particular focus areas:
counseling issues, residence hall environments, fraternity and
sororities, career counseling, and working with gay and lesbian
student organizations. In addition, the text covers issues of student
affairs professionals and the process of becoming an ally.
Fairchild, B. & Hayward, N. (1990). Now that you know: What every
parent should know about homosexuality. (New edition). New York:
Harcourt Brace Jovanovich.
Authored by a mother of a gay son and a mother of a lesbian daughter
, this book draws on dozens of interviews with gay men and lesbians
and their parents. A resource for parents, this is often a useful
book for someone to share with parents after coming out as gay or
lesbian to them. It normalizes a variety of reactions as a parent
moves towards acceptance and offers answers to the myriad of
questions a parent may have about the gay/lesbian world. This book
can also be useful for someone considering coming out to his/her
family as preparatory material. This book is highly recommended.
Falco, K . L . (1991). Psychotherapy with lesbian clients: Theory
into practice. New York: Bruner Mazel.
This text examines the context of therapy with lesbian clients and
examines a host of clinical issues (e.g., identity formation, lesbian
relationships, motherhood, sexual dysfunction, alcohol/drug use, and
lesbians of color). In addition, it has interesting ideas/exercises
on how to prepare oneself as a therapist to work with lesbian
clients, suggestions are particularly useful for heterosexual
therapists who would like to learn more about what it is like to be
seen as lesbian or gay in this culture.
Finnegan, D. G. & McNally, E. B. (1987). Dual identities:
Counseling chemically dependent gay men and lesbians. Center City,
MN: Hazelden.
One of the few texts to specifically address issues for work with
alcoholic gay men & lesbians, it covers both background
information and direct treatment issues as well as offering a listing
of resources and a bibliography.
Garnets, L., Hancock, K. A., Cochran, S. D., Goodchilds, J., &
Peplau, L.A. (1991). Issues in psycho-therapy with lesbians and gay
men: A survey of psychologists. American Psychologist, 46,
964-972.
This article presents findings of a 1986 survey of a large and
diverse sample of psychologists by the APA Committee on Lesbian and
Gay Concerns. They sought information about respondent-defined biased
and sensitive psychotherapy practice and identified major themes of
each in the arenas of assessment, intervention, identity,
relationships, family, and therapist experience and education. The
results suggest psychologists vary widely in their adherence to a
standard of unbiased practice with gay men and lesbians.
Garnets, L., Kimmel, D. C. (Eds.) (1993). Psychological perspectives
on lesbian and gay male experiences. New York: Columbia
University Press.
This collection offers 27 articles divided into eight sections:
meaning of sexual orientation and outing; origins of sexual
orientation (choice v.s. no choice); identify development and stigma
management; gender difference in roles and behavior (including
homophobia and anti-gay violence); cultural diversity among lesbians
and gay men; health issues; relationship and parenthood concerns; and
developmental/aging issues. These articles are well written and are
by people well respected in their subject material. It is designed to
be a text book but I found it a valuable addition to my collection
despite that!
Gayellow pages: The national edition. (1997). New York: Renaissance
House.
Updated annually, this resource guide lists gay/lesbian owned and/or
affirmative resources: businesses; hotlines; publications;
restaurants/inns; therapists; health care providers; AIDS and legal
services; religious, recreation, and AA groups; gay/lesbian
bookstores, bars, women's centers; etc. This can be useful for
helping gay/lesbian clients access the community if they plan to move
to a new location.
Geller, T. (Ed.). (1990). Bisexuality: A reader and sourcebook.
Hadley, MA: Common Wealth Printing.
This book offers a collection of interviews, essays, and academic
works on bisexuality and a bisexual "catalog" of resources. It is the
first American anthology on bisexuality to be compiled by a
self-acknowledging bisexual.
Gonsiorek, J. C. (Ed.). (1982). Homosexuality and psychotherapy: A
practitioner's handbook of affirmative models. New York: Haworth
Press. (Also available as Journal of Homosexuality, 7, 2/3)
This collection covers a variety of issues in gay/lesbian mental
health. It includes discussions of diagnostic concepts, sexual
orientation of therapist, developmental stages of coming out,
internalized homophobia, therapy for gay/lesbian couples, group
therapy for gay men, counseling parents of young gay men, men as
sexual assault victims, religious & moral issues in working with
gay clients, psychoanalytic psychotherapy concepts when working with
gay clients, and bisexual/gay men in heterosexual marriages.
Gonsiorek, J. C. & Weinrich, J . D .(Eds.). (1991).
Homosexuality: Research and implications for public policy. Newbury
Park, CA: Sage Publications.
This collection of 15 scholarly writings attempts to summarize what
science knows about homosexuality and its relevance for public
policy. It can serve both as a survey review of the literature or as
a guide to finding more extensive coverage of each topic. It includes
discussions of defining sexual orientation, cross-cultural issues,
stigma's connection to prejudice and violence, legal issues,
psychological and medical treatments, the demise of the illness
model, sexual orientation conversion therapy, coming out, same-sex
relationships, parenting, and HIV/AIDS concerns (such as partner
notification). The chapters are uniformly well written and offer
solid summaries of the literature and often concise, thoughtful
analyses and synthesis of the information.
Greene, B. & Herek, G. M. (Eds.). (1994). Lesbian and gay
psychology: Theory, research and clinical applications. Thousand
Oaks, CA: Sage Publications.
This book is first in a series entitled Psychological Perspectives
on Lesbian and Gay Issues. This volume contains a collection of
innovative studies that explores the children of the lesbian baby
boom, internalized homophobia/shame, lesbian and gay development,
boundaries in therapist-client relationships, identity development,
and an exploration of the aspects of relationship quality in
cohabitating couples. This is a scholarly, research-based collection
from a psychological rather than a primarily political perspective.
The book is dedicated to Adrienne J. Smith, one of the first openly
lesbian, feminists therapists and a powerful role model.
Griffin, C. W., Wirth, M. J., & Wirth, A. G. (1990). Beyond
acceptance: Parents of lesbians and gays talk about their
experiences. New York: St. Martin's Press.
This book addresses anxieties of parents of gay men and lesbians and
provides useful information to dispel myths that cause many parents
to reject their children. It examines self blame/fear and uses
research to address misconceptions about homosexuality. The book is
filled with stories of 23 parents who found help through Parents and
Friends of Lesbians & Gays. It is a valuable took for parents
dealing with the shock of learning that their children are gay and
for gay and lesbian people trying to understand their parents lack of
understanding.
Gumaer, J. (1987, November). Understanding and counseling gay men: A
developmental perspective. Journal of Counseling and Development, 66
(3), 144-146.
This article presents a model of gay psychosocial development. In
addition, implications for counselors of the needs of clients at each
developmental stage are discussed.
Hall, M. (1985). The lavender couch: A consumer's guide to
psychotherapy for lesbians and gay men. Boston: Alyson.
Aimed at clients, the author covers issues such as an overview of
therapy and historical treatments of gay men and lesbians, as well as
the "nuts and bolts" of seeking, negotiating and evaluating therapy.
This includes a discussion of how to find a lesbian/gay-affirmative
therapist, handling impasses, and a look at "mental health" for
lesbians and gay men. It also includes a brief shopping list for
clients to use when trying to find a therapist.
Herek, G. M. (Ed.) (1998). Stigma and Sexual Orientation:
Understanding prejudice against lesbians, gay men, and bisexuals.
Thousand Oaks: Sage.
This book offers eleven chapters which examines recent research on
heterosexual responses to homosexuality. The articles address such
topics as the nature of antigay prejudice, stereotypes, and behaviors
as well the consequences of homophobia. Particularly good chapters
address issues of victimization of youth, minority stress, and a
critique of Cameron's research.
Herdt, G. (Ed.). (1989). Gay and lesbian youth. Binghamton, NY:
Harrington Park Press.
(also published as Journal of Homosexuality, 17, 1/4, 1989).
This collection examines variations in the coming out process and the
formation of homosexual identities. In addition, it has pieces on
growing up lesbian, male prostitution, some cross-cultural work on
gay youth in England, Mexico, Brazil, France, Sweden, Finland,
Ireland, and Australia.
Herdt, G. & Boxer, A.. (1993). Children of Horizons: How lesbian
and gay teens are leading a new way out of the closet. Boston:
Beacon Press.
This is a two-year long coming out study based on the successful
youth group program at Horizons Community Services in Chicago. They
explore rituals of coming out and milestones of sexual identity
development as well as what it is like for these teens to be out and
the "moral compromises" they face.
Human Rights Foundation, Inc. (1984). Demystifying homosexuality: A
teaching guide about lesbians and gay men. New York: Irvington
Publishers.
This out-of-print book offers a wealth of resource information for
those teaching courses, providing workshops, or otherwise educating
people about gay men and lesbians. It includes lesson plans,
information on myths and stereotypes, discussion material, and an
extensive resource listing.
Hutchins, L. & Kaahumanu, L.(Eds.). (1991). Bi any other name:
Bisexual people speak out. Boston: Alyson.
Only the second collection of writing by bisexual people, this volume
offers a variety of essays and poems which explore psychological
issues, spiritual concerns, politics, and the creation of a bisexual
community. The quality of the writing is somewhat uneven, but the
power of the emotions of the authors clearly is expressed. This book
is useful as a source of affirmation for bisexual readers and can
serve to help both gay/lesbian and heterosexual therapists understand
the point of view of bisexual clients.
Isay, R. A. (1989). Being homosexual: Gay men and their development.
New York: Avon. (also available in hardcover from Farrar, Strauss
& Giroux).
Dr. Isay attempts to define the normal path of psychological
development for gay men. The author, a psychoanalyst, addresses
topics from early childhood and gay identity to adult relationships.
His clinical research explores the effects of parental rejection,
homophobia, couples issues, and therapy issues with gay men. He
offers an alternate model for development for gay men that does not
presuppose pathological assumptions traditional psychoanalytic theory
dictates when examining homosexuality. This book does not examine
issues for lesbians.
Katz, J. N. (1983). Gay/lesbian almanac: A new documentary. New York:
Harper and Row.
In this out-of-print book, Katz offers a history of gay men and
lesbian in America in the early colonies (1607-1740) and modern U.S.
(1880-1950). His chronicles interweave personal testimony, news
reports, diaries, medical case records, letters, trial testimony,
fiction, laws, songs, cartoons, and reviews of books, films, and
plays. He develops his theory of sexual relativity and argues that
homosexuality and heterosexuality are recent inventions, that is,
historically specific forms of naming, categorizing, relating,
feeling, and acting. He suggests they are used as a form of
heterosexist oppression to provide social control.
Kehoe, M. (1989). Lesbians over 60 speak for themselves. New York:
Haworth Press. (also
published as Journal of Homosexuality, 16, 3/4, 1988).
This pioneering effort is the first attempt to reach a nationwide
sample of lesbian elders in order to under-stand this deeply hidden
segment of our population. These women, usually entirely overlooked,
candidly describe how they feel about being "different,;" cope with
homophobia and other problems, such as relationships & family
issues; deal with aging; and discuss sexual behavior (both when
younger & currently). In addition, Kehoe offers a description of
a course on lesbian and gay aging. This study is empirical and yet
escapes a heavy academic tone by presenting comments of the women in
the study which are alternately poignant, funny, and at times
scary.
Klein, C. (1991). Counseling our own: The lesbian/gay subculture
meets the mental health system. (2nd ed.). Seattle: Consultant
Services Northwest, Inc.
The author describes the establishment of the Seattle Counseling
Service for Sexual Minorities - the first of its kind in this
country. She examines the development, nature, role and results of
such specialized counseling services and the larger subcultural and
cultural contexts in which they are embedded. In addition, she offers
recommendations for heterosexual mental health service providers to
provide better treatment.
Lewes, K. (1988). The psychoanalytic theory of male homosexuality.
New York: Meridian/New American Library.
This book offers a step in the psychoanalytic profession's
reassessment of its own attitudes and practices regarding
homosexuality. Lewes attempts to main aims in this text. First, he
has set out, with reasonable fullness and complexity, the
psychoanalytic theories of male homosexuality. Second, he has tried
to account for how that theory developed - with the focus there on
psychoanalysis itself. He points out deficiencies in the theory and
criticizes the way psychoanalysis has gathered its clinical data on
homosexuality and the way the theory was formulated and developed.
This book includes an extensive bibliography.
Lobel, K. (Ed.). ( 1986). Naming the violence: Speaking out about
lesbian battering. Seattle, WA: Seal.
This edited collection of writings emerged from a meeting of the
Lesbian Task Force of the national Coalition Against Domestic
Violence. This anthology is divided into four sections. Two contain
stories of battered lesbians from through out the country,
chronicling their lives as battered women. The other sections deal
with community organizing activities and articles on support groups,
understanding the cycle of abuse, how homophobia affects lesbians'
responses to violence in lesbian relationships and two workshops on
homophobia.
Miller, N. (1989). In search of gay America: Women and men in a time
of change. New York: Atlantic Monthly Press.
This takes a unique look at a wide variety of gay men and lesbians
from across the country - a gay police officer with AIDS in San
Francisco; a lesbian couple expecting a baby in Newton, MA.; an
openly gay mayor in Morgantown, WV; two gay dairy farmers in
Wolverton, MN.; an AIDS activist in North Dakota; and a gay American
Indian in Rapid City. For the most part, he focuses outside big city
enclaves of gay men and lesbians.
Money, J. (1988). Gay, straight and in-between: The sexology of
erotic orientation. New York: Oxford
University Press.
Using case studies from his sexology clinic, Money explore topics
such as prenatal and postnatal history, gender differences in
childhood and postpubertal hormonal theories. He addresses issues of
sexual orientation, gender identity, masculinity and femininity, and
hormones and sexuality in adulthood. Money offers data from long-term
studies that began over 30 years ago and introduces the concept of
lovemaps. Lovemaps are the pathways of individual sexual and erotic
development and factors that may shape overall healthy or
pathological orientations, paraphilia, and gender transpositions. The
work is written for researchers and clinicians, not for the casual
reader. A background in biology is useful for understanding much of
this thought-provoking material.
Moses, A. E. & Hawkins, R. O., Jr. (1982). Counseling lesbian
women and gay men. St. Louis: Mosby.
A good beginning text for therapists which covers a great deal of
background information important to understanding the gay or lesbian
client. It includes material on identity development, coming out, gay
lifestyles, sexual activity, and relationships. It includes a chapter
on counseling gay and lesbian college students. The book suffers from
its age and does not reflect changes in the gay community from the
devastation of AIDS.
Perry, T. D. & Swicegood, T.L.P. (1991). Profiles in gay and
lesbian courage. New York: St. Martin's.
The authors offer portraits of eight men and who have made
immeasurable contributions to gay liberation. Studies of Harvey Milk,
Elaine Nobel, Gilberto Gerald, Jean O'Leary, Leonard Matlovich,
Barbara Gittings, Harry Hay and Ivy Bottini examine the
discrimination they battled in their struggles to achieve.
Rasi, R. A & Rodriguez-Nogues, D.M.L. (Eds.) (1995). Out in
the workplace. Los Angeles: Alyson.
This book is based on the premise that what is helpful and healing is
the telling of personal stories. The people represented in this book
share their storeis - some wonderful and some horrible - and offer
advice from a wide range of professions. It also tells the story of
United We Stand, an employee group at the Bank of Boston, and
provides information on legal rights for lesbigay employees.
Remafedi, G. (ed.) (1994). Death by denial: Studies of suicide in gay
and lesbian teenagers. Boston: Alyson.
This is a collection of nine pieces which examine suicide among
lesbian and gay youth from a variety of perspectives. It includes a
chapter from the controversial Report on the Secretary's Task Force
on Youth Suicide which was challenged by the Bush administration.
Ross, M. W. (Ed.). (1983). Homosexuality and social sex roles.
Binghamton, NY: Harrington
Park Press. (Also published as Journal of Homosexuality, 9, 1,
1983).
Gender roles, a critical concern when working with gay men and
lesbians, are explored in this collection of articles. These writing
explore issues of femininity and masculinity, social intolerance,
societal enforcement of stereotypes. Cross-cultural concerns are also
addressed in one article.
Ross, M. W. (Ed.). (1988). The treatment of homosexuals with mental
health disorders. Binghamton, NY: Harrington
Park Press. (Also published as Journal of Homosexuality, 15, 1/2,
1988).
This volume looks at issues of alcoholism, sexual problems, suicide,
cross-cultural issues, borderline personality disorders, and therapy
considerations.
Rothblum, E. D. & Cole, E. (Eds.). (1989). Loving boldly: Issues
facing lesbians. Binghamton, NY: Harrington
Park Press. (also published as Women & Therapy, 8, 1/2,
1989).
This collection includes articles on ethics, lesbians and the
cultural oppression of body image, married lesbians, lesbian
parenting issues, couple formation, victims of relationship violence
or sexual assault, alcoholism, cognitive approaches, self psychology
approaches, and supervision issues.
Russo, V. ( 1987). The celluloid closet: Homosexuality in the movies.
(Rev. ed.). New York: Harper & Row.
This study examines over 300 films from 80 years of film making in
this exploration of portrayals of lesbians & gay men. He traces
the evolution of movie homosexuals and demonstrates the film
industry's consistent refusal to portray gay men & lesbians as
anything but one-dimensional characters. He also takes a look at
recent positive changes in the way gay men & lesbians are
depicted on screen. Russo points out for decades gay & lesbian
characters seldom survived to the closing credits. He provides a
necrology which details film by film the cause of death of gay &
lesbian characters. Keep in mind film and other media are a primary
source of information & images for clients and the negative
images of gay men & lesbians in film (and television) do not
serve to provide many positive role models for gay and lesbian young
adults.
Scher, M., Stevens, M., Good, G., & Eichenfield, G. A. (Eds.).
(1987). Handbook of counseling and psychotherapy with men. Newbury
Park, CA: Sage Publications.
This collection focuses on counseling men. Some pieces are of
particular relevance to clinicians working with gay men - including
articles on counseling men about sexuality, grief work, adolescent
issues. Some chapters specifically address concerns of gay men, of
bisexual men, and of men confronting the AIDS crisis.
Schoenberg, R., Goldberg, R. S., & Shore, D. A. (1985). With
compassion toward some: Homosexuality and social work in America.
Binghamton, NY: Harrington
Park Press. (also published as Journal of Social Work and Human
Sexuality, 2, 2/3, 1984).
This collection has articles on family of origin issues as a family
adapts to the knowledge of having a gay or lesbian member, meeting
the needs of gay/lesbian youth, couples issues, issues of older
lesbians and gay men, confronting homophobia in health care settings,
alcoholism, homophobic violence, homophobic attitudes of mental
health practitioners towards homosexuality, and training issues.
Silverstein, C . (Ed.). (1991). Gays, lesbians, and their therapists:
Studies in psychotherapy. New York: W.W. Norton.
This collection of nineteen papers offers a wealth of theoretical and
clinical material. The book begins with a history of psychotherapy
with gay men and lesbians. The remaining chapters each take a look at
a particular issue: infertility, overidentification with a patient,
effects of political activism on psychotherapy, sexualized feelings
in the therapeutic relationship, sex therapy, therapy with a client
with borderlines features, batterers, masochism, bereavement,
therapist self-disclosure, and the impact of working with people with
HIV infection. The collection is rich with case material and provides
a lot of stimulation to explore countertransference. The chapters are
also quite revealing of the chapter authors, all practicing
psychotherapists of varied sexual orientations. The editor wanted to
begin to build case literature to use as a teaching device and to
illustrate the emotional rewards and hazards of being a
therapist.
Stein, T. S., Cohen, C. J. (Eds.). (1986). Contemporary perspectives
on psychotherapy with lesbians and gay men. New York: Plenum Medical
Book Company.
This excellent collection of ten papers offers an integration of
clinical and theoretical material. The book reviews the history of
psychotherapy with gay men and lesbians. This is followed by a
reconceptualization of individual treatment with these populations.
Merger in lesbian couples, the management of differences (using a
cross-cultural perspective), psychodynamic psychotherapy with gay
male couples, analytic therapy of gay men, and group psychotherapy
with gay man are also discussed. The book includes chapters on three
special topics: therapy with lesbian mothers, AIDS and psychotherapy,
and the pregnant lesbian therapist. The papers are well written and
largely achieve the editors' goal of integrating theory and
practice.
Winfeld, L. & Spielman, S. (1995). Straight talk about gays in
the workplace: Creating an inclusive, productive environment for
everyone in your organization. New York: American Management
Association.
Written by two women who work as consultants on these issues,this
book provides a thorough overview of the range of workplace issues.
The best chapter, in my opinion, is the one on domestic partner
benefits but they have some great ideas on designing and delivering
training on sexual orientation issues.
Health
Issues/AIDSDelaney, M., Goldblum, P., & Brewer, J. (1987). Strategies for
survival: A gay men's health manual for the age of AIDS. New York:
St. Martin's Press.
This book offers information and self-help strategies to deal with
health issues in the Age of AIDS. This includes examination of sexual
practices, stress, substance use/abuse, social support, exercise and
nutrition, and activism. The book also offers a detailed resource
listing of community services and support materials.
Kain, C. (Ed.). (1989). No longer immune: A counselor's guide to
AIDS. Alexandria, VA: AACD.
This book is an excellent resource for counselors dealing with people
with AIDS, are HIV-antibody positive and with their families and
friends. Many different populations are examined in this clinically
useful work.
Macklin, E. D. (Ed.). (1989). AIDS and families: Report of the AIDS
Task Force, Groves Conference on Marriage and the Family. Binghamton,
NY: Harrington Park Press.
(also published as Marriage and Family Review, 13, 1/2, 1989).
This out-of-print collection offers a wealth of material on the
issues the AIDS epidemic raises for families & family
professionals. Written specifically for family professionals &
policy makers, it addresses information on the HIV epidemic,
strategies for AIDS education & prevention, therapeutic issues
when working with families of Persons With AIDS, societal
implications of HIV infection, HIV-antibody testing, public policy,
and recommendations for effective service delivery, education &
public policy. It includes a bibliography, audiovisual materials and
organizations for continuing education on the AIDS crisis.
Preston, J. (Ed.) (1989). Personal dispatches: Writers confront AIDS.
New York: St. Martin's Press.
This is an anthology of essays on AIDS looks at the "front lines" of
the AIDS epidemic. These pieces address loss, of fear, and courage as
writers discuss the impact of AIDS on friends, lovers, community, and
themselves. The essays are sometimes lyrical, often angry, to deeply
spiritual and as a whole are quite powerful.
Shernoff, M. & Scott, W. A. (1988). The sourcebook on lesbian/gay
health care (2nd edition). Washington, D.C.: National Lesbian and Gay
Health Foundation.
This resource offers an overview of physical & mental health
care. Chapters address special populations (rural gay men and
lesbians, Black lesbians, native American gay men and lesbians,
aging, adolescents, and married gay and bisexual men. Other topics
include sexual exploitation by therapists, grief, lesbian couples,
AIDS prevention, bisexuality, substance abuse, codependency,
families, domestic violence, sexual exclusivity, and a section on
AIDS.
Shilts, R. (1987). And the band played on: Politics, people and the
AIDS epidemic. New York: St. Martin's.
This lengthy piece of investigative journalism tells the story of the
spread of the AIDS epidemic in America. Shilts' investigation led him
through 12 countries, thousands of pages of government documents and
900 interviews to learn what happened and why the epidemic was
allowed to spread so far before it was taken seriously. A common
reaction of readers of the book is one of rage at the Reagan
administration for its failure to address AIDS as a public health
emergency since, at first, it seemed to only affect gay men,
Haitians, and drug addicts. Told in chronological fashion, Shilts'
book almost reads as a novel as he presents the story through the
work and lives of dozens of people as each is in turn effected by the
AIDS crisis.
Troiden, R. R. (1988). Gay and lesbian identity: A sociological
analysis. Dix Hills, New York: General Hall, Inc.
Troiden takes the stance that sexual conduct is primarily social and
that professional thinking about sexuality is undergoing constant
change. He believes people are not born with perceptions of
themselves as gay, straight or bisexual but rather go through a
series of subjective processes which lead to an identity
transformation. He offers and ideal-typical model of homosexual
identity formation grounded in current research and theory and
discusses gender differences in this process as well. This book is
quite readable and includes a look at risks of sex education and
research in an appendix.
White, J. & Martinez, M.C. (1997). The Lesbian Health Book:
Caring for Ourselves. Seattle: Seal Press.
The thirty-three women who contributed to this book created a volume
which provides a comprehensive overview of health and wellness
isssues for lesbians. They include physicians, women living with
illnesses, health activists, and others. The topics of the pieces
included in this book include the effect of gender and class on
lesbian access to health care, breast cancer, M.S., AIDS, fat
acceptance, race, menopause, aging, death, children, battering, and
research on lesbian health. This book is particularly good for health
care providers to help them understand the patient's perspective.
Winiarski, M. G. (1991). AIDS-related psychotherapy. New York:
Pergamon Press.
Winiarski, a clinical psychologist, attempts to integrate writings
& seminar presentations for therapists dealing with HIV-related
issues. Winiarski believes this work is about both competence (&
views HIV-related psychotherapy as a subspecialty) and about healing
(compassion is not enough). He argues one probably needs to be
willing to avoid rigid enforcement of formality and "frames" with
HIV-positive persons if this really serves the therapist's need to
feel separate and, hence, safe. Rather, he stresses an appreciation
of flexibility and adopting useful ideas from both
cognitive-behavioral & psychodynamic orientations. The book
describes complexities of medical & sociopolitical aspects of
AIDS, discusses the actual work of HIV-related psychotherapy, and
explores considerations of varied therapist roles (including watching
for physical, psychiatric, & neuropsychological complications
that require medical intervention). He also explores therapist's
feelings about this work and addresses specific issues of HIV
screening, prevention counseling, IV drug users, the "worried well,"
and spirituality. This book also details a list of resources useful
for the practitioner or for referral for one's clients.
Gay
and Lesbian RelationshipsBerzon, B. (1988). Permanent partners: Building gay and lesbian
relationships that last. New York: Dutton.
This book aims to tell same-sex couples what they need to know in
order to build satisfying and lasting relationships and how to
surmount both internal and external obstacles they face as a couple.
This is also a useful book for heterosexual therapists wanting to
better understand dynamics of gay and lesbian relationships and the
societal context which impacts these relationships.
Carl, D. (1990). Counseling same-sex couples. New York: Norton.
This short book takes a family therapy approach with gay/lesbian
couples. Carl offers a variety of practical considerations and an
awareness of issues helpful for therapists unfamiliar with same-sex
couples. These include pre-coupling issues, typical issues which
might emerge in couples therapy, some suggestions for interventions
(while wisely avoiding a cookbook strategy of interventions) and a
highlighting of concerns prevalent in lesbian and gay populations
(alcohol concerns, parenting issues, AIDS/HIV issues, etc.).
Clunis, D. M., & Green, G. D. (1988). Lesbian couples. Seattle:
Seal Press.
This is an excellent source of information and ideas on issues
lesbian couples face as they deal with beginning, maintaining, and
ending relationships. It also includes some discussion of age,
disability, and racism. This book is very useful as bibliotherapy for
clients and as a resource for clinicians.
Curry, H. & Clifford, D. (1992). A legal guide for lesbian &
gay couples (7th ed.). Berkeley, CA: Nolo Press.
Gay and lesbian couples can protect themselves in a variety of legal
situations. Contracts, renting, financial arrangements, insurance,
buying a home and other real estate ventures, marriage/divorce,
parenting/custody/ adoption/artificial insemination, wills, medical
emergencies (and durable power of attorney) are discussed. New
editions of this book are released as laws and legal protections
change throughout the country.
DeCecco, J. (Ed.). (1988). Gay relationships. Binghamton, NY:
Harrington Park Press.
Articles in this collection appeared in the Journal of
Homosexuality between 1976 and 1986. They offer reviews of
research on gay and lesbian couples, where gay men and lesbian look
for lovers (including "personals" ads), factors in choices of a
lover, discussion of how to maintain a gay relationship (including
stages in gay relationships, gender roles, value orientations,
monogamous or nonmonogamous), and how to solve problems in gay and
lesbian relationships (including couples therapy, conflict, and
codependency issues).
Eldridge, N.S. (1987). Gender issues in counseling same-sex couples.
Professional Psychology: Research and Practice, 18, 567-572.
The author identifies four potential pitfalls for a therapist working
with a same-sex couple: stereotyping, heterosexual bias, the
overemphasis on sex roles in understanding intimate relationships,
and the difficulty of working with "hidden populations." Research
data is offered to suggest how gender may influence these
relationships. Finally, she offers guidelines for recognizing and
expanding the therapist's frame of reference when working with gay
male or lesbian couples.
Island, D. & Letellier, P. (1991). Men who beat the men who love
them: Battered gay men and domestic violence. Binghamton, NY:
Harrington Park Press.
This book examines the third largest health problem for gay men in
American today. Personal narrations at the beginning of each chapter
vividly brings to life the brutality that can occur in some gay male
domestic relationships. The authors explain why this violence occurs,
who the batterers are, and who the victims are, as well as different
stages of victimization. They also offer practical steps suggestions
for victims who want to leave their violent partners.
Marcus, E. (1992). The male couple's guide. New York: Harper
Collins.
This guide to relationships offers practical & focused
information on social, legal, emotional, familial & professional
intricacies of life for male couples. Based on interviews with male
couples from across the U.S., their families, health professionals,
peer counselors and Marcus' own experiences, this survival guide
includes extensive resource listings.
McWhirter, D. P. & Mattison, A. M. (1984). The male couple: How
relationships develop. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-Hall.
This book presents the findings of an 8-year research study based on
data from interviews with 156 male couples whose relationships lasted
from 1 - 37 years. The authors are a male couple and offer personal
insights to this work. They posit a 6-stage theory of passages of
male couple relationships and address issues of nurturance, sexual
exclusivity, sexual dysfunction, parenting, competition, anger, &
commitment. With a narrowly restricted geographic sample - readers
are cautioned before generalizing results to the entire gay male
community.
Tessina, T. (1990). Gay relationships. New York: J.P. Tarcher.
This book, authored by a bisexual woman, is not the worst book on gay
relationships, but is not one I can recommend. The author aims to
help readers look at developing relationships and nurture them. She
takes a rather superficial approach but does seems somewhat grounded
in the literature about gay/lesbian relationships. For very concrete
clients, this book may be useful.
Uhrig, L. J. (1984). The two of us: Affirming, celebrating and
symbolizing gay and lesbian relationships. Boston: Alyson.
This text, written by a pastor of the predominantly gay/lesbian
Metropolitan Community Churches, is a guide for couples using a
Christian perspective. He examines myths about romance, discusses
relationship skills, offers "true stories from gay relationships,"
discusses religious ceremonies of Holy Unions and Rites of Blessing
of couple relationships, and discusses singlehood.
Sexual
abuseLew, M. (1990). Victims no longer: Men recovering from incest
& other sexual child abuse. New York, Perennial.
While not written expressly for gay men, this gay affirmative book
includes examples of gay men from sexual abuse. One of the only books
to specifically addresses incest issues for men, it includes a
chapter on sexuality, homophobia and shame. The book is designed to
be a self-help book but also one which encourages the reader to
access other helping resources (therapy, groups, etc.).
Sexual
compulsivityCarnes, P. (1983). Out of the shadows: Understanding sexual
addiction. Minneapolis, MN: CompCare.
This is the first book to examine sexual compulsiveness. Controversy
in the gay community goes on as to whether one can be "addicted" to
sexual behavior. Carnes looks at people whose lives are out of
control because of their sexual behavior, both heterosexual and
homosexual.
Carnes, P. (1989). Contrary to love: Helping the sexual addict.
Minneapolis, MN: CompCare.
Carne's second book expands his descriptive framework for
understanding sex addiction. He presents his Sexual Addiction
Screening Test plus the stages & identifiable aspects of sexual
addition. Carnes draws extensively from Twelve Step programs in his
recovery model and takes an "ecological" approach to treatment which
looks at assessment, intervention, Twelve Steps, treatment and
recovery across seven major dimensions.
Pincu, L. (1989). Sexual compulsivity in gay men: Controversy and
treatment. Journal of Counseling and Development, 68, 63-66.
This article provides an overview of compulsive sex among gay men. He
explores the clinical usefulness of the addictive model and discusses
the two most prevalent and successful treatment approaches to this
issue.
Spiritual
concernsBalka, C., Rose, A. (Eds.). (1989). Twice blessed: On being
lesbian, gay and Jewish. Boston: Beacon
Press.
This collection of writings by gay and lesbian Jews explores their
struggles to integrate their Jewish and gay identities. This is
excellent for clients struggling with two stigmatized identities and
for therapists who want to know more about the Jewish gay/lesbian
community.
Borhek, M. V. (1979). My son Eric. New York: Pilgrim.
The mother of a gay son recounts her path to accepting his sexuality
and her reconciliation of that with her Christian beliefs. This is a
good bibliotherapy suggestion for parents struggling with religious
issues around a child's sexual orientation.
Boswell, J. (1980). Christianity, social tolerance and homosexuality:
Gay people in Western Europe from the beginning of the Christian era
to the Fourteenth Century. Chicago: University
of Chicago Press.
Winner of the 1981 American Book Awards for History, this book
presents the history of attitudes toward homosexuality in the
Christian West and serves to challenge preconceptions about the
Church's past relationship to its gay members. Boswell's research is
extraordinarily broad and covers an extensive variety of sources. The
footnotes alone offer a wealth of fascinating information. This can
be a useful recommendation to bright and literate clients struggling
with sexual orientation concerns against teachings of their Christian
church. The text is at times somewhat dense but worth reading. The
footnotes at times are quite entertaining, and abundant!
McNaught, B. ( 1988). On being gay. New York: St. Martin's Press.
McNaught, a writer/lecturer, offers a collection of essays in
sections such as on being yourself, growing up gay, friends &
lover, journey forward, and celebration. He offers a lot of factual
information on homosexuality and specifically addresses concerns of
gay/lesbian Catholics and their families. This book castigates
hypocrisy of religious leaders & institutions and offers a sense
of pride in self and support in struggles. Clients reported this book
was useful and welcomed during times of self-examination. Some essays
may be less helpful to non-Christian readers as he often includes
thoughts and feelings based on his Christian beliefs.
Pennington, S. (1989). Ex-gays? There are none! New York: Harper and
Row.
Third in a series, this now out-of-print volume explores biblical
passages, modern beliefs, and shows that gay people are loved and
lovable with the Christian faith. She also dispute the notion that
homosexuality is chosen. This is excellent as bibliotherapy with
clients struggling with Christian issues and for therapists.