"Anya shook her head. 'That's not good. You should be doing more mourning. You need to mourn or else you'll never get over your heartbreak and be able to go on,' she counseled. 'I've read that it's okay for personal hygiene to suffer while you mourn.' 

[Mulder] bit his lower lip and regarded her for a long moment. 'Did I tell you I'm not trying to pick you up?'

 'Yes.'

 'Oh.'"