THE FIRST LETTER

TICKTIN FAMILY TREE

                                                                                 December 4, 1992

Dear Ticktin Family Member,

             As many of you know by now, for the past year I have been working on our family tree, tracing the descendants of one Efraim Fischel Ticktin who lived in Lithuania early in the 19th century.

             According to family legend, Efraim Ticktin had two wives: the first had the maiden name of Rittenberg and died young, and the second was named Rohama Friedman.  He supposedly had six children from each wife.

             I have been able to trace the descendants from two of the children from the first wife and all of the descendants from the second.  For some reason, the children from the first wife decided to keep their mother's maiden name and we therefore have a Rittenberg line.  One family member told me that when the first wife died, Efraim, who was a brilliant man, married the maid, Rohama, who was slightly daft.  This could explain both the name change and, according to this relative, the "flaky" strain that runs in the family. 

             Our family is scattered over five continents and numerous countries, specifically, the United States, Canada, Great Britain, South Africa, Australia and Israel.  As far as is known, there are no living relatives left in Lithuania.

             While no one seems to have any information on Efraim, I believe he was a merchant of some sort and probably lived in Kalvarija, which is located at 54.27N and 23.14E, between Vilna (now Vilnius) and Kovno (now Kaunas), near the current Polish/Lithuanian border.  Today, Kalvarija is the home of a nuclear reactor site and little is left of the Jewish community there.  The name Ticktin supposedly comes from a long line of rabbis and it may be possible to trace this connection back at some point.  However, Jews in Eastern Europe did not have last names until the late 1700's to early 1800's and Efraim may have been the first or second generation to have this last name.  The family may have gotten this name by being from the town of Ticktin (or Tiktin), which I believe was in Poland.

             Efraim's oldest daughter, Shayna Mindel, married a man named Wershofsky (later Wershof), possibly from Vershovitz near Schlbobka which had many yeshivas, and had three sons and one daughter:  Aaron, Max, Yekel and Basha.  Aaron and his wife emigrated to Canada in the late 1890's with their three children.  Later, two more were born in Canada.  Stanley, our oldest living relative, just died in October at 97.  A retired pediatrician, he was living in Florida.  His youngest brother, Max, was a lawyer and diplomat, a former Canadian ambassador to the U.N., England, Denmark, and Czechoslovakia and Hungary, and a Member of Parliament.  The oldest son, Eli, a general physician and surgeon, was the first Jewish doctor in Edmonton, Canada, and has a street named after him, Wershof Crescent, in the Wedgewood Heights neighborhood of Lessard.  He was also president of B'nai Brith.

             Shayna's youngest daughter, Basha, married Barusch Kert from Kert, Lithuania.  They came to Montreal as young adults before the turn of the century.  Barusch was a furrier and helped start the Canadian Pacific Railway.  They moved to Los Angeles in the 1930's and one of their sons, Max, now a retired rabbi, founded the first reformed temple here, formerly the Olympic Jewish Community Center, now Temple Beth Am, still in existence on LaCienega, near Olympic Boulevard.

             Shayna's other son, Yekel, stayed in Lithuania.  Two of his children, Masha and Miriam, emigrated to the United States.  Miriam arrived as a young woman during the war, around 1939-1940, and currently lives in Florida.  Her brother, Fischel, was an opera singer, CPA, and had an import/export business in England.  He was killed in Kovno around 1940-41 under unknown circumstances.  Her sister, Sonia, was a dentist, married to another doctor, and was a leader of the Schlobodka ghetto during the war.  Although Sonia was warned about the Nazis coming, she decided to stay and hide in the basement.  She was killed with her husband, infant child, and her parents when the Nazis burned down the ghetto in 1944.  This seems to be our only family lost in the Holocaust.

             Shaul Yitshak Rittenberg and his wife Annie came with their eight children to Toronto at the end of the last century.  The family is currently scattered around the Toronto and Montreal area.  I am still missing some information here.  If anyone has any leads, it would be appreciated.

             From Efraim Fischel's second wife, the oldest daughter was Hannah Ruth, or Hanna Rusha.  She married Sam Lewis and had three children.  The oldest, Abraham, had two sons.  The middle son, Charles, had five children.  The youngest, Ida, who married Isidore Siegel, was an extremely prominent woman in Canada.  She was a trustee of the Toronto Board of Education and helped develop the multilingual public school system that is known in Canada today.  She also started Hadassah there.  From all accounts, she was very well known and highly respected.  Ida had six children.

The second daughter, Sarah Fagelah, was my great-grandmother.  She married Zev Wolf Kossin (originally Kozuschnik) in Kalvarija and had eight children.  Zev, with second son Maurice, my grandfather, first came to this country through Canada where they stayed with relatives, arriving in the U.S. in 1902.  Oldest son, Philip, arrived in 1903, and Sarah arrived with the rest of the children in 1906, sailing from Bremerhaven (near Hamburg), Germany, on the ship Kaiser Augusta Victoria, arriving into the Philadelphia port.   The youngest children, Ben, Tillie and Rohama were born here.  They first lived in Harlem and eventually settled in the Bronx. Zev, with his sons, had a pharmaceutical/wholesale drug supply store.

             One of Zev Wolf's sisters died in Auschwitz with her husband.  Another, Rebecca, went to South Africa with her husband.  Their grandchildren can be found there, as well as in London, Australia and, of course, the U.S.

             The third daughter of Efraim and Rohama, Tiebel or Tillie, died at a young age in Lithuania under unknown circumstances.

             The fourth child, Samson or Shimson, with his wife Sara, had six children.  Samson may have been a pushcart peddler.  From six children, three of the sons became doctors, as did some of their sons.  One of their sons, Ethan, won the Canada lottery.  Their descendants are mostly in the Toronto area. 

             The fifth child, Asher or Usher, married Bela Warshofsky (possibly related to the other Wershofs?) from Vilkovish and had four children.  Asher was a happy-go-lucky sort and left his wife and children back in Lithuania while he came over and worked for several years, bouncing between Canada and New York.  Finally, Hannah and Sarah saved enough money and brought over the rest of his family and they moved to the Detroit area.  His son, Efraim Ticktin, moved to Israel, then Palestine, as a young man.  He was killed in a sniper attack with two other young men on the Ein Hashofet kibbutz in 1938 when his wife was pregnant with their son, also named Efraim.  This family stills lives in Israel.

             The youngest daughter, Ida Gittel, married Louis Sakowitz (later Saks) and moved to Massachusetts.  Louis was a scribe, a writer of Torahs.  They had four children, and their descendants are mostly still in the Massachusetts area.

             The last Ticktin family on the chart is there because although I have not been able to trace the blood connection, I have become friendly with them and they were able to help me track George and Gladys Ticktin since, coincidently, Adrienne is related to George through their mothers.  If we go back far enough, I am sure we will be able to find some other link and I am speculating that Tudris was a brother of Efraim.  The name Ticktin does not seem to be that common.  Tudris started the first orthodox synagogue in Chicago, Temple Anshe Tiktin, which still exists although it is now a reformed temple.

             From current generations, there seem to be a lot of professionals: doctors, lawyers and professors; overall a solidly upper middle class family with a strong educational emphasis.  There are no major scandals, at least none anyone shared with me, and no serious black sheep.  However, many people do report evidence of the "flaky" strain in their branches.

             One of the things I have noticed as I have been calling what are essentially strangers is the immediate warmth and openness and eagerness to connect with family and with one's roots.  If anything is consistent in our blood line it is that so many of us are very family oriented and still maintain close ties with other relatives.  It is because of that that my job in tracking everyone down was not nearly as difficult as it could have been.  Virtually this entire tree evolved from telephone conversations with relatives who were able to put me in touch with yet another branch of the tree.

             Without exception, everyone I have spoken with has been extremely helpful and supportive of this project.  I would particularly like to thank the extra efforts on behalf of Eliot Phillipson, Rivie Gurau, Rohama Schweig for remembering the names of long lost relatives and giving me some clue as to where to start, Richard and Ruth Rosenbloom (also working on a tree), Adrienne Ticktin for connecting me to George and Gladys which was the first connection to the long lost branches, Nahum Lewis for the biography of Ida Siegel, Norman Itzkowitz for his search through Kalvarija on his recent trip to Lithuania, and, of course, my mother, Carol Kossin Cleveland, who got me started on this by continually reminding me all of these years that I come from a very big family  - even if I had never heard of or ever met most of them.

             I would also like to say how much I have enjoyed hearing from new relatives that have called when they were in Los Angeles this past year: Joe Schimmel, Alan Jacobs, Merwin, Joan and Michael Rubin, Michael Menczer, and Sam and Myrtle Peires with their daughter Michelle Werbeloff and her husband Ronnie and their children, and the others that I have met on my travels: Paul and Marilyn Wershof in London, and seeing Sam and Myrtle again there.

             If there is incorrect or missing information on the tree, please forgive me and send me whatever you have as soon as possible.  If anyone has additional stories and anecdotes or know of people that have been omitted, let me know.  I would also be interested in keeping a medical history if everyone could contribute what they know about their relatives' deaths and illnesses.  This could be beneficial to all of us.  I would appreciate being kept posted of family announcements (births, marriages, divorces, deaths) for inclusion on future editions of the tree.  Also, send in any address changes or additions for the family address book I have enclosed.

           In order to celebrate our new discovery of each other and to renew lost ties, I am proposing that we have a family reunion.  I have already spoken with my cousins (first and second) here in Los Angeles and we would like to invite everyone here next Labor Day Weekend 1993 (first weekend in September) for a large barbeque/picnic.  Many of us live in California or have relatives here so I hope everyone will make an effort to come, or at least send a representative from your branch.  If people could drop me a note or phone saying whether they would be interested in coming, we will organize it.  I already have a tentative confirmation from the Wershofs in London and some of the Canadian relatives, so some of you closer relatives should certainly try to make it.  With my immediate relatives in the L.A. area alone, we could easily organize over 100 people.       

             In the meantime, I hope people will take advantage of staying in touch with their new-found relatives and I look forward to meeting anyone who ventures to this part of the world.

 Best wishes,

 Elyse Eisenberg

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